Opinion on getting tubes tied?!
Question: Opinion on getting tubes tied!?
i am 26 years old, married and pregnant with 3rd child and this will be my 3rd c-section!. my husband and his family all want me to get my tubes tied!. don't get my wrong i don't want anymore kids after this one!. I'm just worried since I'm only 26 this may not be a good idea because its so perm!. One of my doctors said it would be good to do it because after 3 c-sections its a high risk!. The truth is I doubt I will be with my husband forever, just the way things are!. what is every ones opinion on this!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I am 27 with 3 daughters!. I personally, would NEVER have my tubes tied!. I have an IUD which is good for 12 years!! It also can be taken out at any time I choose!.!.!.this is an outpatient procedure and it only took a 15 min appt!. to get it inserted!. The way you mentioned that you doubt you will be with your husband forever suggests that maybe you actually would consider having another child in the future if you found 'the one' and I am totally with you on that!. You never know!. Please, ignore his family!.!.!.your reproductive organs are none of their business!.!.!.nor your husbands for that matter (respectfully) This is your decision!.!.!.best wishes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am 42 yrs old, I have been married for 16 yrs!. (8/18/08)!. I made the decision after my son was born 11 yrs!. ago to have my tubes tied, because it was a known fact that I didn't want anymore children!. I am the mother of 3 living children (2 miscarriages, 1 abortion)!. I felt like after putting my body through all that it was time (6 pregnancies)!. My husband supported me with my decision!. The female body goes through a lot after childbirth!. You are the only one that can make that decision, as for his family they are not the ones that would have to take care of these children now or later!. If your not sure about the health risk, get a second opinion!. Good Luck on making the right decision that is best for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would suggest clamping!. I know that my mom got her tubes tied, cut, and burned after she had two kids, but then later in life she got married to my dad and decided she'd like a couple more she decided wanted kids!. They reversed it all, but they weren't sure if she'd be able to have kids or not!. Sure enough she did!. My brother and me and then she had an emergency hystereomy!. Yep, I spelled that wrong, but she had all her female organs taken out!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I suggest before doing that you search Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome!. Drs won't tell you about it and say it's not true, but too many women have lots of problems after having it done!. I myself had it done after my 4th child and regret it!. I am now having horrible hormonal problems and may need a total hysterectomy (actually I am scheduled for it if I don't back out) and I'm only in my very early 30's!. Good luck to you whatever you decide!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
at 23 I had three kids, a 1 year old, a two year old and a three year old!.!.!.!.!.the pill did not work for me!.!.!.!. obviously I needed to do something!. I had my tubes tied the day after having my youngest!. I am glad I did, I had no complications and it really was not bad!. I did remarry and he was happy to raise my kids as his!. my kids are adults now and he has no regrets!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You say you won't necessarily be with this man forever!. But do you really want to start having kids again!? You may love someone in the future, but does that mean you can handle more!? That's my only question for you, I would personally do it because three children sounds like a lot for me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sound like it would be a good idea!. You don't want more kids, it's more dangerous to have them after 3 c-sections, and you don't think you'll be with your husband forever!.
Tubal ligation can be reversed; it's a surgery, so it's a serious decision, but it can be done!.
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Don't do it just because your husband and his family are pressuring you! If you want to do it, then do it, but don't do it because of them!!
If your husband is so set on not having anymore children, then maybe he should get a vasectomy!. Mention that to him and see what he thinks about that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If your husband is so set on not having anymore children, then maybe he should get a vasectomy!. Mention that to him and see what he thinks about that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would not do it just because your husbands family thinks so!.!. do what is comfortable for you!.!. And since you have had all the children why doesnt your husband have a vasectomy!? It shouldnt be up to you to do all the work!.!. I wouldnt get it!.!. i would go on the shot or the pill, but if you not comfortable with getting your tubes tied then dont!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had mine tied when I was 21!. If you are having doubts you shouldn't have it done!. When I decided to do it!. The doctor asked what if you guys break up!. I said it didn't matter!. I wanted no more children!. If the doctor sees you have doubts!. He or she will not do it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You know what, even if you're not with your husband forever, do you really want more kids with someone else!? Be glad you only have one baby daddy for all your kids!. It's just much less complicated that way!. Get your tubes tied!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it takes two to make a baby!. your husband also share in birth control!. it would be safer if he got himself fixed, suggest that and see what you'll find!. if he isn't willing why should youWww@Answer-Health@Com
well its ur choice to do what u want to its very good to do it if u dont want anymore kids im 26 also and i just had my 3rd child 2mths ago and i had mine tied Www@Answer-Health@Com
i sugest getting them clamped instead of tied!. your still young and you might want some more kids later on so clamping is reversable and tying isnt!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
You sound like you already have decided!.!.!. follow your intuition!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
get them clamped instead of tiedWww@Answer-Health@Com
use a condom :]Www@Answer-Health@Com