All my friends/peers are losing their virginity and I feel outta place (I'm !
Question: All my friends/peers are losing their virginity and I feel outta place (I'm 13)!?
Like I thought I wouldn't have to be pressured with this until after prom night, but apparently people like to have sex in the 6th and 7th grade too!. Ive made out with a couple guys and had a couple boyfriends, but Ive never took off my close in front of a guy!. Do you think I should!? I feel so, idk, slow!? Outta place!? Uncool!? Anyways, when did you lose your virginity!? Do you think I should!?
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Just because all your friends/peers are losing their virginity's, doesn't mean you have to jump on the bandwagon!. If they all jumped off a building/into a fire!.!.!.Would you feel outta place/uncool etc etc!?
I didn't lose my virginity until I was 18 and like you my friends lost theirs earlier!. You want your 1st time to be with someone you really love and care about, you will find boys may say they love/care for you just because they know it's what you want to hear and so they can get you into bed!. They are the sort that will get what they want and never speak to you or they may keep coming back for more it's commonly known as using you, they will say things like I'm not ready for a relationship/I don't want to commit right now!. If they are not ready for that then they can't have your virginity!.
You will know in your heart & head when the right boy/man comes along!.
I don't think you should lose it and in any case, assuming your in the USA having sex at the age of 13 is illegal!. Depending on what state you live in depends on what the legal age is!.!. It can range from 14-18 years old!. Go on http://www!.avert!.org/aofconsent!.htm
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I didn't lose my virginity until I was 18 and like you my friends lost theirs earlier!. You want your 1st time to be with someone you really love and care about, you will find boys may say they love/care for you just because they know it's what you want to hear and so they can get you into bed!. They are the sort that will get what they want and never speak to you or they may keep coming back for more it's commonly known as using you, they will say things like I'm not ready for a relationship/I don't want to commit right now!. If they are not ready for that then they can't have your virginity!.
You will know in your heart & head when the right boy/man comes along!.
I don't think you should lose it and in any case, assuming your in the USA having sex at the age of 13 is illegal!. Depending on what state you live in depends on what the legal age is!.!. It can range from 14-18 years old!. Go on http://www!.avert!.org/aofconsent!.htm
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Personally I think you are too young to have sex, but if you are mentally and physically ready nothing will stop you!. By the sounds of it you aren't ready yet and only think you should because your friends are!. No offense but it sounds like your friends are sluts, and if you haven't heard of it yet, you could be guilty by association!? If they're all doing it people will probably think you are too!.
My advice is to wait until you are older and really truly ready to, also in love and in a commited relationship!. It's far more special and meaningful!. But if you decide to go ahead, please be careful and use protection! I hope the best for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My advice is to wait until you are older and really truly ready to, also in love and in a commited relationship!. It's far more special and meaningful!. But if you decide to go ahead, please be careful and use protection! I hope the best for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do NOT give into pressure! You are right for noticing that a lot of young people these days are so advanced for their age, and it's sad!. You may feel like you are the only one who hasn't done anything with a guy, but there are tons and tons of people who still have respect for themselves and listen to what is right!. I haven't lost my virginity and I'm 17 years old!. And I'm definitely not the only 17 year old who chooses to not to 'impress' guys!. If you have any second thoughts about doing something for a guy, you aren't ready and don't have to be!. Don't rush yourself into growing up, let it happen on it's own when you are ready!. You will thank yourself when you are older!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
From a fellow 13 year old!.!.!.
NOTHING is 'cool' about loosing your virginity at such a young age!. When you have sex that means that you are ready and ABLE to care for a baby!. I highly doubt that you have enough money to care for everything that a baby needs!. And if being SANE means that your 'uncool' then BE uncool to ensure that you do not get pregnant! Who knows, not having sex could be the next 'cool' thing to do if someone kicks it off!.!.!. And you know who that person should be!? YOU!.
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NOTHING is 'cool' about loosing your virginity at such a young age!. When you have sex that means that you are ready and ABLE to care for a baby!. I highly doubt that you have enough money to care for everything that a baby needs!. And if being SANE means that your 'uncool' then BE uncool to ensure that you do not get pregnant! Who knows, not having sex could be the next 'cool' thing to do if someone kicks it off!.!.!. And you know who that person should be!? YOU!.
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I HIGHLY doubt that all of your friends and peers are having sex!. And even if they would be, it doesn't make it a smart decision!. There is a reason why sex should be saved for marriage!. #1 - If both you and your spouse have never had sex with anyone else, you never have to worry about catching an STD, #2 You won't have to experience a pregnancy out of wedlock and #3 You won't ever have to worry about feeling bad if you have sex with someone and then break up!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't think you should have sex until:
- you're body is mature enough (you're still in puberty)
- you know you'll get respect for it (at your age--sex is all they want no respect in exchange)
- you realize it's not related to popularity (are you always going to do what your friends do!?)
- you're in love/relationship
PS--you're friends have no idea what they're doing!. Be different, courageous, stand out!.!.!. don't feel like you need to have sex for having sex sake!.
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- you're body is mature enough (you're still in puberty)
- you know you'll get respect for it (at your age--sex is all they want no respect in exchange)
- you realize it's not related to popularity (are you always going to do what your friends do!?)
- you're in love/relationship
PS--you're friends have no idea what they're doing!. Be different, courageous, stand out!.!.!. don't feel like you need to have sex for having sex sake!.
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First of all you should be married before having sex!.!.!.!.
BUT!.!.!.
if you're not going to way until you're married you should NOT have sex at 13! You're not even old enough to drive!.!.!.!.Sex should special!. Don't just have sex because you want to be cool!.!.!.in the long run (if you wait) you will be cooler than your friends because you waited on the right guy!. Why don't you ask your parents about this!? Do they want you having sex at such a young age!? I doubt it!.
Oh yea, and you shouldn't take your clothes off just to make a guy happy!.!.!.!.you will feel guilty and bad it eventually!.!.!.!.if you have sex this young with several different guys then how are you going to feel when you find "mr!. right"!? What if he is a virgin and you're not!? you will say "why didn't I wait" either way!.!.!.just wait! you're too young!. 13 years old! MY GOODNESS!.!.!.
OH yea, I was 19 and married my first time :)
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BUT!.!.!.
if you're not going to way until you're married you should NOT have sex at 13! You're not even old enough to drive!.!.!.!.Sex should special!. Don't just have sex because you want to be cool!.!.!.in the long run (if you wait) you will be cooler than your friends because you waited on the right guy!. Why don't you ask your parents about this!? Do they want you having sex at such a young age!? I doubt it!.
Oh yea, and you shouldn't take your clothes off just to make a guy happy!.!.!.!.you will feel guilty and bad it eventually!.!.!.!.if you have sex this young with several different guys then how are you going to feel when you find "mr!. right"!? What if he is a virgin and you're not!? you will say "why didn't I wait" either way!.!.!.just wait! you're too young!. 13 years old! MY GOODNESS!.!.!.
OH yea, I was 19 and married my first time :)
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You should be very PROUD of youself for not being a whore or a slut!!
That's exactly what boy's and other people with think of you!. The girls that are having sex at a young age have very low self esteem!. Also, half of them will most likely end up pregnant, raising a baby by themselves!. Don't be like everyone else!. I promise you with all my heart, you will be respected for being a good girl and doing right!. When you get older you will look back on yourself and you will be proud at how you did the right thing, by waiting!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
That's exactly what boy's and other people with think of you!. The girls that are having sex at a young age have very low self esteem!. Also, half of them will most likely end up pregnant, raising a baby by themselves!. Don't be like everyone else!. I promise you with all my heart, you will be respected for being a good girl and doing right!. When you get older you will look back on yourself and you will be proud at how you did the right thing, by waiting!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
NO!
Do not lose it because of peer pressure, I went through it but I'm not easily influenced at all! Thank you very much!.
Please don't, it's not cool at all!.
I'll cry if you do!.
Good, don't have a boyfriend for a while!.
Focus on your education and stay single!.
It's more fun, TRUST ME!.
I hope this will get to your head hun!.
Stay strong!.
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Do not lose it because of peer pressure, I went through it but I'm not easily influenced at all! Thank you very much!.
Please don't, it's not cool at all!.
I'll cry if you do!.
Good, don't have a boyfriend for a while!.
Focus on your education and stay single!.
It's more fun, TRUST ME!.
I hope this will get to your head hun!.
Stay strong!.
Oh!
And email me about what happens!.
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at yahooWww@Answer-Health@Com
You are way cooler for not having lost it yet!. Consider it something special that you have and they don't! I'm in high skool, I haven't done it, and it's definitely not because I couldn't or cuz I'm too ugly, I just choose not to!. What I do is taunt the guys with what they can't have, makes them go crazy! Www@Answer-Health@Com
do not feel pressured by the people you know!!!!!!!!!! it is best to just wait until marrige!. that is what i am doing, i am 15 years old, i am even saving up for a purity ring, wich is (if you dont know) a promise in myself and in God that i stay sexually pure until marrige!. my advice is wait!. dont give in to peer pressure!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i totally no how yah feel im 13 nd kids younger than me at my school are sluts nd just fuking their friends!. guys dont like that cuz the girl will seemed used and cheap, cuz it aint a challenge to get in her pants!. but i suggest you at least wait till 8th grade!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just don't do it, you are the one making the right decision here!. Anyway a lot of them are just bragging or lying about it!. You are a good girl and some day you will find a boy that will appreciate your ability to make wise decisions!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
nope!. i cant really help you on this!. all i can say is that you shouldnt be pressered into anything you dont want!.!.!. if your friends jump off the bridge do you follow and plumit to your death!.!.!. i didnt think so!. so dont do it unless you want to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Those people are probably children of the scum of society!. Or their parents are morons!. You are too young, I wouldn't advise it!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
seriously,
I'm 13 and wouldent dream of doing that,
there rushing into things
you need to wait untill your older!.
your friends are probs $luts!.
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I'm 13 and wouldent dream of doing that,
there rushing into things
you need to wait untill your older!.
your friends are probs $luts!.
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Im 15 & havent lost mine!.!.!.!.plus a lot of ppl said that it hurt to loose their virginity
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lol!.!. it is up to u but dont become a whore thats not nice!.!.
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