Umm...First time having sex?!


Question: Umm!.!.!.First time having sex!?
Well, I'm kind of a virgin and I'm 19 years old!. My boyfriend keeps on begging me to have sex with him, but I keep on telling him that I don't want to, because I find it scary and painful!. My friend has had sex before and she says It's such a good feeling, but I just can't get myself to have sex with my boyfriend!. I found out that when women first have sex, they bleed, and that scares me badly! I'm worried he might break up with me because of that!. Please help!!? I'm so scared!Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Stay a virgin until you are married!.If your boyfriend can't accept a "no" then he is obviously not right for you!.If he breaks up with you because of all of this then he's not right for you!.A honest and good guy would be willing to wait to have sex!.Number one,he wouldn't even ask you!.He wants two thing from you obviously,your virginity and sex!.Once he gets that,don't count on him to stay with you!.He needs to accept that you don't want to have sex right now!.For girls that haven't broken their hymen,sex is painful for them and you will bleed!.I am just being honest!.You don't need to push yourself into having sex with him!.I think that you are very strong for resisting him!.He isn't your husband,he's your boyfriend!.Practice abstinence!.There is nothing wrong with being a virgin!.There's a lot of risks that you could be taking with having sex with him!.He could have a STD that you don't know about and if you have sex with him,you would catch it too!.Nevertheless,you don't want to end up with an unwanted pregnancy either!.Condoms aren't always guaranteed to protect!.And then he wouldn't claim the child either!.Wouldn't you rather give your virginity to your husband if you get married!?Don't feel bad!.You should be proud of you self for not giving in to your boyfriend!.Don't give into your boyfriend either because you'll regret it later on!.Pray to GOD about this!.GOD can solve anything!.I hope that I helped so GOD BLESS you!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well if he is going to break up with you over you not being ready to have sex, so be it!. A relationship should not be based on sex, yes its an important part but not all of it!.

Your a whore if you have too much sex with too many people!.

I can be painful for men, but its enjoyable for both parties!.

Some women bleed their first time and others dont, most do though!. Its nothing to be scared of!. Its natural and doesnt hurt when you bleed!. It hurts a little to the first couple of times since your so tight down there!. Youll get used to it but dont do it if mentally you are not ready, wait till you are sure you want to do it, not because your boyfriend wants to!. He can go find someone else to have sex with if thats what he wants!.

You can always find someone who likes you for you and can wait!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't give in just to please your boy friend!. If you don't want sex don't do it!. If he really like a respects you he will accept your opinion!. If he dumps you for not having sex he is not worth keeping!. He probably wants to have sex with you!. brag to his friends about it and then dump you!. Also not all girls bleed from sex the first time!. That is only if you hymen is still in tact!. If you usetampons during your period it is gone!. Also it can be broken by horseback riding or other strenuous physical activity!. Don't give in to his pressure!. Don't have sex until you are sure you are ready!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

First of all if he's pressuring you, don't give in unless you really want to!. You won't enjoy it unless your ready and if he's begging you'll feel like you're doing it for him not you, and that's not a great feeling!!

Not all women bleed, some do some don't, it's nothing to worry about if you are comfortable with him and he knows you're a virgin then why would he break up with you for it!? It's NORMAL!.

Sex does feel good, it's fantastic but only if you can relax and enjoy it!. You shouldn't feel scared or pressured, it'll tense you up and make the first time hurt more than it should!. (By hurt it's bit of a dull ache which goes away very quickly - don't panic!)

At the end of the day it's your choice, but think about it carefully, if your this scared then you probably aren't ready yet!. Try other stuff that isn't sex until you feel comfortable, but mainly wait until YOU feel ready not your bf!.

Hope this helps :o)
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Let me tell you that the first, second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh, eighth, ninth, and tenth time of having intercourse hurts like hell!.

Yes and there will be a lot of blood (not only the first time) but even after a few times!.

You need to have a wonderful partner the first time, make sure he takes it nice and slow, and you get to call each shot (if you know what I mean)!.

Good Luck!

Don't worry - having a baby hurts a lot more!

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if u really love him & ifu r sure that he really loves u too then u can pleasure him in an intense foreplay like playing with his dick or 2 suck it and letting him to kiss ur insides completelyside by side ill suggest that u dont have sex with him untill u r readyWww@Answer-Health@Com

if you don't feel ready then don't do it, it's as simple as that!.
and if your boyfriend would dump you over something like that then he isn't worth your time!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Kind of a virgin!? If your not ready - then don't do it!. If he dumps you - then he's not worth your time!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

if u dont want to ave sex with him i suggest u tell him straight up NOT YET!!! if he continues to aks then he's not in ur best interest!. u shouldkno what to do nexctWww@Answer-Health@Com

Well, My first time was with my first bf(I was 18) and he is now my hubby =)
I was nervous too and scared I would bleed as I have a disorder that if I see my blood, I faint!. So I was super scared! BUT, I did NOT bleed at all, which surprised me, and it didn't hurt as much as I thought!.!.!.
It hurt a bit, especially if they are on the larger side, and yes you will be sore "down there" for a couple days afterwards, but if you do it with someone you love and truly care for, it's def!. worth it!.

BUT DON'T DO IT UNTIL YOU ARE READY!!!
The worst thing is to be pressured into it, then it really isn't going to be enjoyable!!

Wait until your ready, then relax, and enjoy =)Www@Answer-Health@Com





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