SEX QUESTION!!!!! PLZ heeeeelp!!!!!?!


Question: SEX QUESTION!!!!! PLZ heeeeelp!!!!!!?
Hi, i am already almost 13 and i plan on waiting until i have my period to have sex!. My bf said he would dump me if i dont have it with him tonight!. He is 13 and i think hes done it did before!. How do i make it the most good for him!?!?!? Thanx! Oh, and at what age did you first have sex!. I dont think im too young cuz my friend says everyones doing it!. PLZ HELP AND DONT REPORT CUZ IM SERIOUS!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Two issues here: A$$holes and age!.

First, guys like this are all *******, no matter how old you are or they are!. NEVER let a guy get away with it!. I don't care how old you are!.!.!.whether you're 13 or 83, tell them where to shove it!.

The other is age!. Your first instincts of waiting were right!. Stick with those thoughts, dear!.

Good luck! Write us all back after you've dumped him and tell us how it went!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

It does not mean that everyone is doing it that you should to!. You should know all the consequences of sex!. You may get pregnant, and you may get a sexually transmitted disease!. You should really consider your health and your well-being before giving yourself to him like that!.

You should also consider who is a good boyfriend!. He is willing to dump you if you don't have sex with him!? Is that really a good thing!?

In my opinion, you are too young to even think about having sex!. It doesn't mean you can't, but you shouldn't do it because everyone is!. Wait for the right person!. You will regret everything at this age!.!.!.

Take care dear!. it's up to you to make the right choice!.
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Any guy that says he will DUMP you for not having sex is not worth having as a boyfriend!. That is also someone you shouldn't have sex with for the first time either!. Trust me, you'll regret it if you do!.

Have some respect for yourself and lose the guy!.

***I hope after reading some of these answers you have thought this through! Another guy will come along that respects you and cares about you!. This guy does not!. If he had any respect for you he would understand you want to wait to have sex and would not push the issue!. A true boyfriend would respect your wishes hon!. Sex is not an issue to be taken lightly especially with all the scary STDs out there! Please love and respect yourself enough to get rid of this selfish, immature jerk!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to lose this guy!. If you plan on waiting until your period, that's fine, and that's YOUR plan!. Don't let some guy change your plans with threats to leave you!. He's not worth your time!.

Respect yourself and do what YOU want!. You asked, "How do i make it the most good for him!?" but you need to consider yourself!. Do you even want to do this!?

I do know some thirteen-year olds have sex!.!.!. but doing something you think isn't right just because, as you said, "everyones doing it," isn't fair to you!.

You can make your own decisions!. Don't do this for him, and don't do this for them!.

Whenever you DO choose to have sex, USE PROTECTION!. But don't waste your time with a guy who would dump you if you didn't have sex with him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

13 is far too young!. I don't care what your friend said do not do it! Any guy that says he will dump you if you do not have sex with you is a plain dick and unfortunatly no matter how much you like him, he has no respect for you and will use you just for sex if you do this!.

I waited till I was 16 and did it with a girl (I'm a guy btw) I genuinly cared about, There is no going back if you do this, dump him and wait till your with someone who doesn't mind waiting until YOU are ready!.

Take us all seriously!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't have sex!. Wait until your married!. You're 13 for Christ's sake!. Way to young!. Even if your on your period you could get pregnant!. Sperm can stay in the vagina for up to a week!. If your boyfriend is saying that he will dump you because you won't have sex with him, then he is not worth keeping!.

Where would you guys do it anyways!? Wouldn't your parents know that your going out with a boy and they'll make sure that you have adult supervision at all times!. It's better to wait!.

Your friend said that 'everyone is doing it' Well this may be cliche, but if your friend said that 'everyone is jumping off bridges' would you do that too!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

ok um im 13 and if my bf ever said that he would dump me if i didnt hav sex then i would dump him right then and there he seems very immature and you sound dumb for even thinking about it not everybody is doing it well actually maybe everybody 16+years tell him to go screw himself because he is an a%$#*&e for asking you to do that look trust me you are not ready obviously he is NOT AAGOOD BOYFREND AND YOU WILL REGRET IT LATER!!!!!!!!!!!!!! my boyfrend can at least respect me and himself we have makeout seesions and he noes wen to stopWww@Answer-Health@Com

You are not even 13 yet!. You are way to young to be having sex at this age!. You will regret it!. Dont do it!.
Your boyfriedn is a loser and doesnt care about you!. Any boy who says he will dump you because you wont do something is not the kind of boy you need in your life!. I'm sure you can do much much better!.
Do not have sex with this boy!. He's a jerk!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't have sex with this horrible boy!. AT ALL! it sounds like he has no respect for you , 12 is WAY too young anyway! its illegal anyway!.please dont because you will regret it when your older!.
your boyfriend sounds like a b*stard anyway, please get rid of him before anything bad happens to you!. trust us there are plenty of nice boys out there who will like you for who you are, not for sex!.
your body is telling you your not ready for sex if you havnt started your period!. your friend is completely wrong btw, we dont know anybody who has sex at 12, its wrong!. so wrong!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

alright ima guy and thats the most rudest thing a dude can say to his girlfriend im 14 and ima virgin obviously you should wait until its someone you really care about and you should wait until your old and mature enough to enjoy it plus if u decide to do it youll feel like **** tomorro and all ur friends will think ur a slut and what happens if ur mamma finds out!?!? he obviously doesnt car aout you if he said that!.!.!. and plus hes probably not big enough for yall to enjoy itWww@Answer-Health@Com

you should really have sex with a guy who respects you!. Saying he's going to dump you is not respect!. Plus you want to have a good memory, or at least as good of a memory as you can of your first time!. You don't want to look back and regret it!. But if you are going to do it, then I'm not sure if you can make it good for HIM especially since its YOUR first time!. Just focus on yourself right now, not anyone else too much!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

dump your boyfriend because I can assure you if that if you get pregnant he will dump you, if he is having sex with other girls, chances are he can give you a sexually transmitted disease!. then there is always the possibility that he will tell all his friends that you are easy and your so called friends may consider you to be a slut!.!.!.!.JMOWww@Answer-Health@Com

Okay, you shouldn't be having sex now because you'll regret it!. And your friend is WRONG!. I'm a virgin and I'm fifteen!. I plan on waiting until I'm in my twenties at least!. If your boyfriend threatens to dump you because you don't want to have sex with him, don't kid yourself, he doesn't like you!! He doesn't respect you! If you have sex with him, this will turn into an abusive relationship, fast!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hunny, this is the truth, i'm 14 and i have had guys wanting to do me and blah blah blah but it's all a game to them!. they go around and see how many girls they can get!. If he loved you, trusted you and respected you and certainly if he doesnt want to hurt you he wouldnt do this but he is!. it is your choice but wut r the benifits!? wut your jerk face bf wont brake up with you!? no he prolly will after you give him wut he wanted in the first place, he'll use u then throw you OR pressure you into giving him pleasure verey time he wants it!. wut r ur non-benifits, lets see, you could get diseases, you could hurt reallly bad, you could get emotionly depressed, you could have new rumors that we all know you will hate, you will have strong regret!.!.!.god in the bible says you should have sex with one person only and be comitted to them forever no matter of wut age you are!.!.!.you could feel uncomfortable, maybe his friends will try to use you, harras you now that they know they can get you cause ur easy!.!.!.do we even wanna go through the rest!? oh dear hun i'm just saying!. i know ur curiouse, but do wut you think is best do you love this guy!.!.!.!.!.!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wow, talk about regretting your first time!. You definitely will if you have sex with this guy!. You need to really REALLY love someone before you give yourself to them and he doesn't want you emotionally, he just wants to do you!. I've seen this all too many times and if you're silly enough to do it with this guy, then maybe you need some psychological help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

dont u let ANY1 bully u in2 aving sex from da sounds of it dont even go there with dis guy hes only going to use u for it and ur way to young i was way older wen i lost mine dont rush in2 anything ul regret it i promise u!!!!!!! DUMP HIM 1ST hel dump u either way! and just bcause every1s doing it doesnt mean u av 2Www@Answer-Health@Com

OMFG!
Is this even for real!?
12 year olds having sex!?
Girl, just dump him!.
No guy is worth losing your virginity to!.
You should wait till marriage!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

13 is definitely too young to be having sex!. i'm 13 and i've hardly even kissed a guy!. and it doesn't even sound like you want to have sex!. just think about what you're getting yourself into!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Dont do it!.!. if you were ready you wouldnt question it!. or have plan on waiting!.!. your bf said he would dump you!. it makes it seem liek hes only looking for one thing!. hes not worth your time!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Dump him first!. ANy guy that will dump you if you don't have sex is not worried about you, and will not make it good for you!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

You shouldn't force yourself into having sex with him if you're ready!. He is only after one thing and you can clearly see it and it's SEX!! Please don't rush into it you're only 13!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if you have sex with this guy you are crazy oh and by the way you should wait long after you get your period until you are married really Www@Answer-Health@Com

what a jerk! im 15 and i have never had sex! i dont plan on it either!
he is only 13 and is pretty much abusing you! dump him now!Www@Answer-Health@Com

well if he says he will dump you for not doing it than i would say dump him and look for another boy Www@Answer-Health@Com

The fact that you said "Everyones doing it" tells me you are WAY too young!Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to break up with him NOW! He is a big jerk!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

OMg wait till u are old enough and your body is ready!
And dump him now!Www@Answer-Health@Com

ummm dump him duhzzzWww@Answer-Health@Com





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