Girlfriend says sex hurts after 6 months of no sex ?!
Question: Girlfriend says sex hurts after 6 months of no sex !?
I had broken my girls virginity a lil over a year ago, then we used to have sex all the time, and she was fine!. She couldn't afford birth control for six or seven months, and is allegic to latex so no condoms for me!. Anyway after all those months she got back on the same medicine, but when we had sex the first time she said it hurt at first for a few minutes, then she didn't notice again till after we stop & she was sore for a few days
About 2 weeks later I'd figured she'd recovered so we did it again, she complained of it hurting again, but not as much as last time, then after about an hour she said she it started hurting again!.
I could just wait to try again, but can anyone relate to this experience!?
Do women stay pretty closed up if they don't have sex very often!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
About 2 weeks later I'd figured she'd recovered so we did it again, she complained of it hurting again, but not as much as last time, then after about an hour she said she it started hurting again!.
I could just wait to try again, but can anyone relate to this experience!?
Do women stay pretty closed up if they don't have sex very often!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Yep, it's quite possible for her to be in pain because you haven't had intercourse!. The best thing you can do is listen to her and take things very slowly!. It will be uncomfortable for her for awhile!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
A girl's vagina is literally a muscle and it will stretch from a lot of sex and will be sore the first time having sex after not having it for quite some time, especially 6 months!. Unfortunately, it will start to stretch out and feel better once she has more sex!. Have patience with her and if she doesn't want to have sex, don't pressure her!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
An hour!?!? you were having sex for an hour!?!? no wonder she hurts!! Thats a LOT of friction! Chances are that she hurts because you are impatient and she doesn't have enough lubrication!. Stop being a jerk, and stop asking for sex all the time, She obviously doesn't want it when you do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
the muscles tend to tighten!. try having sex more often!. if the pain doesn't go away it could be more serious, but it sounds like it's just a matter of tight muscles!. she could try stretching first, or try using fingers to stretch the muscles a little before sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
yes
women do tend to close and tighten up a bit after not having sex for a period of time
most likely the more you do it
the less likely it is that it will hurt
also try more lubeWww@Answer-Health@Com
women do tend to close and tighten up a bit after not having sex for a period of time
most likely the more you do it
the less likely it is that it will hurt
also try more lubeWww@Answer-Health@Com
From my personal experience and what my friends have told me, everyone closes back up a bit after not having sex for a while!. Just like how they get lose if they do it too often!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try getting some lube she may not be "warmed up" enough!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Use a bit of Cooking Oil to lube it upWww@Answer-Health@Com
The vaginal wall is actually a large muscle, so yes over time it can become tighter and more restrictive!. However there is a another side to it as well!. I am assuming you are a young guy and are in less sense very eager to "Get it on"!. Young people especially guys need to take time to get a girl in the mood (Be responsible use BC's!) Realize that just because you are ready for action in less than a minute doesn't mean that girls are just the same!. I would suggest you take your time and don't reenact anything seen in movies!.
I know the younger generation is starting to adopt what they see in Adult films as reality!. Well you couldn't be more wrong!. The average woman prefers a guy with average/+ average, however they don't want someone to start thrusting and getting really overly rough!. Keep in mind that genital area of a woman is very sensitive!. I would suggest taking things down a few notches!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know the younger generation is starting to adopt what they see in Adult films as reality!. Well you couldn't be more wrong!. The average woman prefers a guy with average/+ average, however they don't want someone to start thrusting and getting really overly rough!. Keep in mind that genital area of a woman is very sensitive!. I would suggest taking things down a few notches!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Use plenty of lubricant!. There are many choices, but plain old baby oil will work fine (don't use it on latex because it breaks it down, but you don't use latex anyway, so!.!.!.!.)!. Go slow, at first!. Let her excitement build up and her muscles willing to accept you!. Try a different position!. You may be hitting something, like an ovary!. If none of this works, she may need to see her gynecologist!. It is possible she has an ovarian cyst (which should go away now that she is using oral contraceptives)!. By the way!.!.!.!.they make non-latex condoms!. Www@Answer-Health@Com