Fear of pregnancy affecting our sex life?!


Question: Fear of pregnancy affecting our sex life!?
Kind of an odd question, but I kinda need advice!. I had a serious health scare a few weeks ago, and because of medication I'm on, its risky to my own health to get pregnant!. I also cannot take birth control pills at all anymore (I had a PE from a clot because of them) !.!.!.

Since then my boyfriend has been so worried about getting me pregnant despite a 100% track record with condoms, that he cant finish when we're having sex!. And Im not saying once or twice either, its been 3 weeks straight now!.

I dont understand the issue, since we were having sex (with a condom) before I started the pills, and he wasnt so scared then!.

So is there anyting I can do on my part, or even something to say to him to relax him!? Ive been looking at the Mirena IUD but I read thats for women whove had children before, and also I think theyre incredibly expensive right!?

Anyway, any advice would be appreciated!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I'm not sure how expensive Mirena is but you are right, they generally like to use them in women who have delivered!. Also, they are hormone coated which would cause the same risk of PE/DVT!. A copper IUD would be a safer hormone free alternative!. Both IUDs stay in for years at a time, so any up front expediture would wash out over the next few years compared to buying the pill every month!.

A diaphragm may be another good choice!. They are generally used with spermacidal cream/jelly!. Though not fool proof on their own, when used with a condom, the efficacy goes up significantly!. Theres also the rhythm method which again, while not the most effective method by itself does become more effective when coupled with a condom!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well i think you guys shoulnt worry that much if it happens god must of made it happen and there is no stopping that, just to play it safe wear a condom and use spermicides!. Also i would not use birth control it is not good for you, it can cause alot of problems with your body!. read the fine print!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Take him to your next ob apt!. and let the doctor set him straight!.

Sometimes we can talk until we are blue in the face, men wont listen unless it comes from someone else!.

Either that, or get him falling down drunk first!!

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I've heard condoms are 100% but they have to say 99!.9% just to save money on any erroneous lawsuits!. You can buy some spermicide as a secondary mental helper!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

this may seem extreme of an opinion but if a pregnancy would be harmful to you and the possibility of a pregnancy is affecting your boyfriends stress level why not get your tubes tied!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

um, you do know that u can still get pregnant even if he withdraws before coming, dont you!? thats how i got pregnant!
still use condoms even if he aint coming inside u!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ASK DOCTORWww@Answer-Health@Com

go on birth control or just don't do it Www@Answer-Health@Com

bring ur babies then make a plastic surgery !.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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