Ahh how can i keep my chin up after an awful day?!
Question: Ahh how can i keep my chin up after an awful day!?
well, i don't know you lovely people personally so i reckon it's okay to whine a little!.!.!.
i have the flu, i am loaded down with homework, i just found out that my "big city huge designer modeling job next month" is a small bridal shop in a village (yes, village) north of mine and takes place next MARCH; my little sister is not coming up this weekend, my siblings are being so ridiculously annoying, i can't get a part time job now that it's fall (and that makes my mum crazy mad at me too), and my boyfriend is just acting so distant!.
how can i vent, or at least seem happy!? i defenitely do not want other people to see how stressed i am, and i feel like i'm going to start crying or something just from being so frustrated!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i have the flu, i am loaded down with homework, i just found out that my "big city huge designer modeling job next month" is a small bridal shop in a village (yes, village) north of mine and takes place next MARCH; my little sister is not coming up this weekend, my siblings are being so ridiculously annoying, i can't get a part time job now that it's fall (and that makes my mum crazy mad at me too), and my boyfriend is just acting so distant!.
how can i vent, or at least seem happy!? i defenitely do not want other people to see how stressed i am, and i feel like i'm going to start crying or something just from being so frustrated!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Join the club hon!. I was dealing with that, and I still sort of am, but yesterday when I was all alone in my house, I turned the music up really loud and screamed as loud as I could into a pillow, because I was afraid to yell out loud!. I cried for a really long time, really hard!. I just let it all out!. All my thoughts, and feelings, and worries!. I basically through a temper tantrum!. It made me really tried, but when I woke up this morning I felt bearably better!. Stay away from the sad stuff, and find someone you can talk to who isn't going to think you're crazy!. Praying helps!.
Then when, you're calm enough, sit down, and go through everything in an organized way!. Deal with one thing at a time!. Get your homework done, remind yourself that some people don't have jobs, your siblings are probably just annoying you because you're stressed!. Get away from them for the day!. Do something by yourself or with a girlfriend that you love to do!. Your mom will get over it, after all it really isn't your fault!. Talk to your boyfriend!.
You can vent to me if you'd like!.!.!.my emails on my page!. I'm not judge mental or anything I'll try to help in anyway I can!.!.!.!.just an offer!.
I'll be praying for you!. Remember!.!.!.it's OKAY to cry!. Promise!.
Smile hon, because you deserve to!. :-) Www@Answer-Health@Com
Then when, you're calm enough, sit down, and go through everything in an organized way!. Deal with one thing at a time!. Get your homework done, remind yourself that some people don't have jobs, your siblings are probably just annoying you because you're stressed!. Get away from them for the day!. Do something by yourself or with a girlfriend that you love to do!. Your mom will get over it, after all it really isn't your fault!. Talk to your boyfriend!.
You can vent to me if you'd like!.!.!.my emails on my page!. I'm not judge mental or anything I'll try to help in anyway I can!.!.!.!.just an offer!.
I'll be praying for you!. Remember!.!.!.it's OKAY to cry!. Promise!.
Smile hon, because you deserve to!. :-) Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's ok to have a good cry sometimes, but one thing that I find makes me happy when I am having a bad day is when I look at the pictures of my dog (had to let him go a few weeks ago because of his age, he was 17 1/2 years old)!.
Also, as to how you can vent, one way is thru e-mailing or IMing with a friend that you feel comfortable with!.
Please feel free to e-mail me off site any time!.
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Also, as to how you can vent, one way is thru e-mailing or IMing with a friend that you feel comfortable with!.
Please feel free to e-mail me off site any time!.
Www@Answer-Health@Com