Sex Female Orgasm help!!!!?!
Question: Sex Female Orgasm help!!!!!?
OK me and my bf have been together a year now and i remember the first 2 months of sex was so good but the thing is it is weird i don't think i have ever had an orgasm before like if i did would i know it and what would it feel like and like we have sex and in the beginning it is really good but then like he wants to switch positions and then it is like sore and i kinda don't wanna have sex anymore after that !.!.!.its not fare to him tho Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
If you "dont' think" you've had an orgasm, it's dead certain that you haven't!.
It can take anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach orgasm!.!.!. both of these are unusual but normal, and anything in between is just fine!.
Just before orgasm, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it's not quite the same, and when your orgasm first happens, there'll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your vagina and then through your whole lower body!. Then very quickly your clitoris, your vagina, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you!.
During all this, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can't really control!. You might "squirt" or "ejaculate" a lot of fluid from your urethra (don't worry, it's not pee)!. The whole time, it's just about the best feeling there is!.
(Everything you "might" feel or do above isn't always going to happen!.!.!. some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable!.)
As that feeling becomes more gentle and starts to go away (after maybe 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will begin to relax, your skin will flush pinker (especially over your chest) and you might feel sort of like having a nap!.!.!. or like just lying there and letting your mind drift!.!.!. or even like doing it again (and again!.!.!. etc) right away!.
It's not often, but it might happen that there'll be no interruption at all between orgasms, and it can feel like one single orgasm that lasts anywhere from 30 or 40 seconds to several minutes!.
One thing you can do to find out is check out these webpages:
http://www!.clitical!.com/female-masturbat!.!.!.
http://www!.clitical!.com/female-masturbat!.!.!.
Read the pages all the way through, and try some of the things suggested!. Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels best for you!.!.!. it's fun!. Sooner or later, you'll have an orgasm, and they get better each time if you're one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again!.
Then you'll know what having one is like, for sure!.
Have fun and don't worry!. Masturbation is having sex with the only person you'll ever meet who knows *exactly* what you feel and what you like, even if that changes every second!. It's normal and healthy, learning what pleases you sexually is good for you, and when it comes to having sex with the one you *want*, you'll be able to tell them (or to show them if you like) the things you like best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It can take anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach orgasm!.!.!. both of these are unusual but normal, and anything in between is just fine!.
Just before orgasm, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it's not quite the same, and when your orgasm first happens, there'll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your vagina and then through your whole lower body!. Then very quickly your clitoris, your vagina, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you!.
During all this, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can't really control!. You might "squirt" or "ejaculate" a lot of fluid from your urethra (don't worry, it's not pee)!. The whole time, it's just about the best feeling there is!.
(Everything you "might" feel or do above isn't always going to happen!.!.!. some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable!.)
As that feeling becomes more gentle and starts to go away (after maybe 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will begin to relax, your skin will flush pinker (especially over your chest) and you might feel sort of like having a nap!.!.!. or like just lying there and letting your mind drift!.!.!. or even like doing it again (and again!.!.!. etc) right away!.
It's not often, but it might happen that there'll be no interruption at all between orgasms, and it can feel like one single orgasm that lasts anywhere from 30 or 40 seconds to several minutes!.
One thing you can do to find out is check out these webpages:
http://www!.clitical!.com/female-masturbat!.!.!.
http://www!.clitical!.com/female-masturbat!.!.!.
Read the pages all the way through, and try some of the things suggested!. Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels best for you!.!.!. it's fun!. Sooner or later, you'll have an orgasm, and they get better each time if you're one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again!.
Then you'll know what having one is like, for sure!.
Have fun and don't worry!. Masturbation is having sex with the only person you'll ever meet who knows *exactly* what you feel and what you like, even if that changes every second!. It's normal and healthy, learning what pleases you sexually is good for you, and when it comes to having sex with the one you *want*, you'll be able to tell them (or to show them if you like) the things you like best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The major sex organ in your body is in your mind!. You need to have your head in it, your heart in it and then your body in it!. Achieving an orgasm I believe, is something that takes both of you!. He can't be a 'wham bam thank you mam' kinda guy!. He needs to take it slow, and his goal should only be to bring you pleasure!. I was married for 24 years and didn't realize until I married my second husband, that I had never had a knock your socks off orgasm before!. Position plays an important part but I think you need to be emotionally aroused first and the rest is easier to receive!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
oh, you would definitely know!. it's like a feeling you get through your whole body!.!.!. you will know!. but unfortunately some women NEVER have one and others only have one from pleasing themselves!. the best way to have one, in my opinion is the woman on top or in any position with manual stimulation, or oral sex!.!.!.try it!. nobody should live through life without having an orgasm!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i think you might be much more able to acheive an orgasm if your bf doesnt make you change positions!. I say try it again, make him go slower, or faster whichever feels better to you, and when it starts to feel good dont let him change positions!. TRUST me - he will be able to have an orgasm from any position!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i actually have the same problem
all i can suggest is talking to himWww@Answer-Health@Com
all i can suggest is talking to himWww@Answer-Health@Com