CRYING WHILE HAVING SEX?!


Question: CRYING WHILE HAVING SEX!?
my girlfriend started crying while we were having sex!. i mean we had sex on saturday, it was her first time, but does it still hurt that bad the second time you have sex!. she's 15 and i'm 17, i am large in that area, could that be why she was crying!. she was complaining that she was sore from the first time we had sex, but i didn't force her to have sex, i mean it seemed like she wanted to!. i did stop though, and got off of her, when she started crying and tried to talk with her, but she wouldn't say anything, she just covered her eyes and kept crying, and then when she finally stopped, we just went to sleep, i wasn't going to try and bother her again and her start crying again!. what do you think is wrong with her or is this something that girls do!? what can i do that would make her stop crying or make her feel better!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
You should try to get her to talk to you about what is wrong, communication is key in a relationship!.

Anyways, it could be that it hurts her, if that's it then I would just have a bit more foreplay and use some water based lubricant!.

Or it could just be emotions!. Being a girl loosing your virginity is kind of a big deal and girls can get emotional about it!. Besides, to be honest she is a bit young, she may just be overwhelmed!. Its great that you care and are concerned, try talking to her again, see if you can get her to open up!. And make sure she knows that you wont get 'mad' or whatever about whatever it might be so she doesn't have to be worried about telling you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

stop having sex with her!
ask her gently about it!. from what it sounds like, she isn't comfortable having sex yet!. don't pressure her into doing it; make sure she wants it 100%!. she's only 15 and if she decided to tell her mother, you could be in trouble for having sex with an underage (if it applies) person or even rape!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Having sex for the first time is very emotional event !.Plus she is very young !.Even women who are married and have sex for the first time cry!.She might have been in pain until she starts to loosen up!.I suggest that you guys stop having sex if I'm not mistaken that is statutory rape!.That you involve in!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

maybe you should have taking it easy, and not force it all the way in , if you are that huge! you have to have compassion for your partner, and talk things through, it takes time for her to adjust to the size, sex is more than you just cramming your penis in!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think she could be possiably afraid of getting preganant or has a secret that she is keeping from you but idk if she crys again i just say to dump her not to mean but yah just talk to her as much as you can and treat her like a princess okWww@Answer-Health@Com

you should have sex with people your own age what if you got her pregnant huh!? Www@Answer-Health@Com





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