What can i do to make her feel good?!
Question: What can i do to make her feel good!?
well my gf bday is coming up and i really want to make her feel good (sexually) by like pleasuring her what are sme things i should do to make her feel really good!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Well, people are different, but if I were your girlfriend, this is what I'd like (and then some):
First, pampering - non-sexual, that is!. This is important to most women as a warm-up for sex!. Delicious food, candy, flowers, compliments, sweet words, things that help her relax (like doing her favours), of course a nice present, and so on!.
Then, a massage!. Good and long!. Use oil, preferably proper massage oil with a nice smell!. Although, if you massage her scalp and fondle her hair (which you should!), leave out the oil!.
After having massaged her "non-sexually" for a while, make it more erotic, changing into soft strokes, perhaps make it slower, and focus more on her erogenous zones!. When you think she's ready for it (read the signs!), make it all-out sexual!. The most important thing is to not rush it unless she asks you to (in a manner of speaking)!. Stroke her private parts, rub her clit, put your finger(s) inside!. Find the g-spot (about 10 centimeters in, on the front "wall", facing her belly - you'll feel it as a sorta swollen spot) and press it a little, moving your finger(s) around!. While you do that, lick her outside and/or caress her nipples with your other hand (a bit difficult for you, but it can be done), preferably with wet or oily fingers!. Not too hard!. You should sort of nibble at them with your finger tips, circle them, and stroke them back and forth!.
Other suggestions: Suck her nipples, of course!. Maybe bite them a little, gently, if she likes that!. Kiss her neck, maybe bite the back of it a little, too!. Not too hard! Caress (tickle) the place where her butt cheeks meet her thighs!. Kiss/lick the back of her knees and thighs!. Blow (breathe) very softly in her ear, cup your mouth around it, maybe lick it (but make sure your tongue is not too wet!), or lick/kiss behind it!. Cup her breasts with your hands and "move them around" a little, but do NOT twist and turn them hard!!!
A funny tip: When licking her p****, try spelling out the alphabet with your tongue!. :o) Seriously, it sometimes works well!. Vary your tongue, using it sometimes like a cat's and sometimes like a wet finger, so to speak - in other words, soft and broad as well as "pointed" and harder!. Remember that the area AROUND the clit is very sensitive too, including the bit above it!. If you can, look up at her at least once in a while while doing it!. Lick her as long as you can, or until she stops you, of course!. If she has hair, you can scratch it a bit (not too fiercely)!. Another good idea is to place your entire hand over her ("closed up") p**** and the Venus mountain and move it back and forth and around, slowly and/or quickly!.
Remember to give attention to her entire body AND her face (most women love having their face caressed), look into her eyes, give her compliments!.
Some women like to be "taken" - perhaps somewhat roughly - and some don't!. Read her body language and her sounds, or simply ask her!.
When she seems ready, enter her!. Make it last as long as possible, hold back, vary the pace, the depth, the position, and the angle - but don't go from one way to the other too often, as that may be frustrating for her!. Think about hitting her g-spot!. Touch her other sensitive parts all along!. Kiss her softly, lick her lips (make sure your mouth doesn't feel slimy!!! Wet, yes, but not slimy), play with her tongue, kiss the rest of her face!. Kiss her deeply and passionately, too, but don't try to ram your tongue down her throat!.
A good position is the one where you lie down on your back, and she lies outstretched on top of you, pushed down towards your feet a little, so the root of your d*** rubs her clit!. Let her be in control!.
Letting her ride you is great as well, as she can be in control - and you can, too!. Be active and passive in turns!. Hold her hips, kiss/suck her breasts, tell her how sexy she looks, stroke her body, kiss her!.
Another great position: She lies face down with her legs together, you sit on her thighs and come in from behind!. That feels sooo good! :o) She can use her hands on her clit at the same time (if she doesn't on her own accord, suggest it)!.
I prefer it when a man makes sounds that tell me how much he enjoys it!. Don't be afraid to let it out! Also, don't be afraid to laugh about things or tell her what you like!.
If she performs oral on you, don't press her head against you!. Having one's gag reflex released is NOT NICE, and it isn't sexy either!. Make it clear how you like it, tell her when it feels good!. Caressing her hair and face is good!.
Take breaks if you can! Stop and just kiss or hug or lie together, and then start again!. That feels great and makes it all last longer!.
Lastly: Remember to enjoy it yourself! It's okay to be a little selfish some of the time, as long as you don't pressure her!.
I could go on and on, but I have other things to do now!. :D Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
First, pampering - non-sexual, that is!. This is important to most women as a warm-up for sex!. Delicious food, candy, flowers, compliments, sweet words, things that help her relax (like doing her favours), of course a nice present, and so on!.
Then, a massage!. Good and long!. Use oil, preferably proper massage oil with a nice smell!. Although, if you massage her scalp and fondle her hair (which you should!), leave out the oil!.
After having massaged her "non-sexually" for a while, make it more erotic, changing into soft strokes, perhaps make it slower, and focus more on her erogenous zones!. When you think she's ready for it (read the signs!), make it all-out sexual!. The most important thing is to not rush it unless she asks you to (in a manner of speaking)!. Stroke her private parts, rub her clit, put your finger(s) inside!. Find the g-spot (about 10 centimeters in, on the front "wall", facing her belly - you'll feel it as a sorta swollen spot) and press it a little, moving your finger(s) around!. While you do that, lick her outside and/or caress her nipples with your other hand (a bit difficult for you, but it can be done), preferably with wet or oily fingers!. Not too hard!. You should sort of nibble at them with your finger tips, circle them, and stroke them back and forth!.
Other suggestions: Suck her nipples, of course!. Maybe bite them a little, gently, if she likes that!. Kiss her neck, maybe bite the back of it a little, too!. Not too hard! Caress (tickle) the place where her butt cheeks meet her thighs!. Kiss/lick the back of her knees and thighs!. Blow (breathe) very softly in her ear, cup your mouth around it, maybe lick it (but make sure your tongue is not too wet!), or lick/kiss behind it!. Cup her breasts with your hands and "move them around" a little, but do NOT twist and turn them hard!!!
A funny tip: When licking her p****, try spelling out the alphabet with your tongue!. :o) Seriously, it sometimes works well!. Vary your tongue, using it sometimes like a cat's and sometimes like a wet finger, so to speak - in other words, soft and broad as well as "pointed" and harder!. Remember that the area AROUND the clit is very sensitive too, including the bit above it!. If you can, look up at her at least once in a while while doing it!. Lick her as long as you can, or until she stops you, of course!. If she has hair, you can scratch it a bit (not too fiercely)!. Another good idea is to place your entire hand over her ("closed up") p**** and the Venus mountain and move it back and forth and around, slowly and/or quickly!.
Remember to give attention to her entire body AND her face (most women love having their face caressed), look into her eyes, give her compliments!.
Some women like to be "taken" - perhaps somewhat roughly - and some don't!. Read her body language and her sounds, or simply ask her!.
When she seems ready, enter her!. Make it last as long as possible, hold back, vary the pace, the depth, the position, and the angle - but don't go from one way to the other too often, as that may be frustrating for her!. Think about hitting her g-spot!. Touch her other sensitive parts all along!. Kiss her softly, lick her lips (make sure your mouth doesn't feel slimy!!! Wet, yes, but not slimy), play with her tongue, kiss the rest of her face!. Kiss her deeply and passionately, too, but don't try to ram your tongue down her throat!.
A good position is the one where you lie down on your back, and she lies outstretched on top of you, pushed down towards your feet a little, so the root of your d*** rubs her clit!. Let her be in control!.
Letting her ride you is great as well, as she can be in control - and you can, too!. Be active and passive in turns!. Hold her hips, kiss/suck her breasts, tell her how sexy she looks, stroke her body, kiss her!.
Another great position: She lies face down with her legs together, you sit on her thighs and come in from behind!. That feels sooo good! :o) She can use her hands on her clit at the same time (if she doesn't on her own accord, suggest it)!.
I prefer it when a man makes sounds that tell me how much he enjoys it!. Don't be afraid to let it out! Also, don't be afraid to laugh about things or tell her what you like!.
If she performs oral on you, don't press her head against you!. Having one's gag reflex released is NOT NICE, and it isn't sexy either!. Make it clear how you like it, tell her when it feels good!. Caressing her hair and face is good!.
Take breaks if you can! Stop and just kiss or hug or lie together, and then start again!. That feels great and makes it all last longer!.
Lastly: Remember to enjoy it yourself! It's okay to be a little selfish some of the time, as long as you don't pressure her!.
I could go on and on, but I have other things to do now!. :D Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
give her a full body massage with essential oils, that helps stimulate the blood flow right before sex, it also act as fore play if your doing it right!.!.!.!.!.!.!. and eat something with freash garkic in it i know its stinky but its and afrodisac, me and the hubby had it one night and we couldnt keep are hands off each other, you can try toe sucking and or tossing the salad, its jsut a suggestion!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
How sweet are you, most girls would just be pleased to have a boyfriend who cares like that!. Just spoil her with attention, tell her she's beautiful and really take your time to show her that every little bit of her is special!. Kiss her all over and really watch her reactions too cos they'll tell you loads about what she likes!.? Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would go with a romantic dinner!.!.!.!. a nice hotel!.!.!. and see what happens!.!.!.
If ya low on budget i would go for a nice candle lit chinese take away in the dinning room, and then lead her to the bedroom teasing her playfully!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If ya low on budget i would go for a nice candle lit chinese take away in the dinning room, and then lead her to the bedroom teasing her playfully!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
watch a lezbo prono , s how they lick the pu**Y and learn from it, Www@Answer-Health@Com