My boyfriend thinks ky jelly is for old people? WHAT?!
Question: My boyfriend thinks ky jelly is for old people!? WHAT!?
i just got in a argument with my boyfriend!.!. hes very inconsiderate of us women!.!. and thinks I am weird bc I requested for us to use ky jelly during sex bc it becomes a bit to dry and leaves my vaginal feeling raw and sorta painful like a yeast infection!.
i have no stds, no vaginal infections as Ive been tested and so has he!.!.
my question is!.!.!.he had the nerve to insult me by saying im not like every girl who is normally "wet" down there, so bc i asked for us to use ky jelly, he thinks "im weird" and "that it is for old women!" WTF!? my doctor uses ky jelly on me during vaginal examinations and it feels so much better!.!. im very pissed that my bf said that!.!. i refused to ever have sex with him bc he juss sounded selfish!.
has any female experience this before when asking their bf!? im assuming i must have some problem then if im not lubricated enough!? bc honestly, i dunno if it was the condom we used that i could of gotten a irritation from or wut!. and we are young here!.!.im 22!.!.hes 23!.!.
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i have no stds, no vaginal infections as Ive been tested and so has he!.!.
my question is!.!.!.he had the nerve to insult me by saying im not like every girl who is normally "wet" down there, so bc i asked for us to use ky jelly, he thinks "im weird" and "that it is for old women!" WTF!? my doctor uses ky jelly on me during vaginal examinations and it feels so much better!.!. im very pissed that my bf said that!.!. i refused to ever have sex with him bc he juss sounded selfish!.
has any female experience this before when asking their bf!? im assuming i must have some problem then if im not lubricated enough!? bc honestly, i dunno if it was the condom we used that i could of gotten a irritation from or wut!. and we are young here!.!.im 22!.!.hes 23!.!.
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Your boyfriend made that comment because he thinks it's HIM that isn't making you wet, so has made a horrible comment to make you feel less of a woman, to make himself feel more of a man!.
I'm not kidding!.
Lots and lots of women don't get as wet as men wished - in fact some men believe that women get so wet from what they've seen in a porno where the woman hes been lubed up, with KY Jelly!
Condoms can make you feel dryer, and lack of foreplay!.
Tell him that if he's going to be a nob about you using lubrication, then he better start doing better to make you wetter!.
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I'm not kidding!.
Lots and lots of women don't get as wet as men wished - in fact some men believe that women get so wet from what they've seen in a porno where the woman hes been lubed up, with KY Jelly!
Condoms can make you feel dryer, and lack of foreplay!.
Tell him that if he's going to be a nob about you using lubrication, then he better start doing better to make you wetter!.
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its definitely not an age thing but what everyone else is saying is right!. he should focus alittle bit morre on foreplay and you wouldnt even ahve to worrry about buying a lubricant but he probably skips all of that and expects you to be all wet and nice!. its his own fault so tell him to be mature and a little bit more considerate!. just because he doesnt feel any pain it's not fair that he insults you just because you want to get some pleasure also -___-Www@Answer-Health@Com
your boyfriend is a retard!. it makes me mad just reading this!. your probably not getting wet enough because HE cant turn you on sufficiently, or hes too rough and selfish when it comes to his pleasure!. Honestly i dont think i could be with someone so ignorant, selfish, and rude!. If he refuses to compromize with the lubricants, you should ditch him fast!. Good luck girl!Www@Answer-Health@Com
humm!.!.thats strange! Me and my hubby use KY because at times Im a bit dry down there too! Sounds like your guy is being alittle selfish and lazy!. (He simply doesnt want to deal with that) Its your comfort!
(its just hard to get me "excited some times lol) But I say if he isn simply going to tease you, find a new guy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
(its just hard to get me "excited some times lol) But I say if he isn simply going to tease you, find a new guy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
This has nothing to do with age!. It can be very natural especially if you are at it for a little while that dryness can occur!. If he is not mature enought to get this speaks volumes for him and his treatment of you!. If mine said please as it feels better would be bathing in it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well, I would say at your age, he isn't taking the time to get you fully arroused, or you would be plenty wet down there!. He sounds like a thoughtless jerk, and I would kick him to the curb!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Another uninformed boyfriend!. You are with him because!.!.!.!.!?
And I agree with Kay_floo if he was doing foreplay right or long enough, chances are you wouldn't be so dry!.
So have him go buy "Wet" or Astro-Glide!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And I agree with Kay_floo if he was doing foreplay right or long enough, chances are you wouldn't be so dry!.
So have him go buy "Wet" or Astro-Glide!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You're boyfriend is an idiot, and an asshole!. He doesn't know what he's talking about!. At all!.
Women are not faucets! We can't constantly be wet down there!. We only produce lubrication every three or four minutes and after a while we dry out!. It's not unusual at all, and it doesn't happen to only "old women!."
And if he is insulting you for wanting to make sex better and use lube, which is completely normal, then I really think you should find someone better!.
My boyfriend and I use lube all the time!. He never thought that it was just for old ladies!. And your boyfriend should know that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Women are not faucets! We can't constantly be wet down there!. We only produce lubrication every three or four minutes and after a while we dry out!. It's not unusual at all, and it doesn't happen to only "old women!."
And if he is insulting you for wanting to make sex better and use lube, which is completely normal, then I really think you should find someone better!.
My boyfriend and I use lube all the time!. He never thought that it was just for old ladies!. And your boyfriend should know that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well you can tell him that he's an ignorant jerk, and that if he thinks he's going to have a good sex life when he goes around telling women they should stay wet, well!.!.!. lol!. He's not going to get very far!.
Also, if he's one of those guys who gets all his experience from watching porn, he probably knows far less than he thinks!.
It's completely normal for us to dry out, and while I've heard KY Jelly isn't the best option (we don't get it where I live so I don't know much about it), other, approved lubricants are fine!. Not only that, they make it loads more pleasurable!. So you can tell him you were right, and he's full of ****!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Also, if he's one of those guys who gets all his experience from watching porn, he probably knows far less than he thinks!.
It's completely normal for us to dry out, and while I've heard KY Jelly isn't the best option (we don't get it where I live so I don't know much about it), other, approved lubricants are fine!. Not only that, they make it loads more pleasurable!. So you can tell him you were right, and he's full of ****!.Www@Answer-Health@Com