Plz help me! i think i can be pregnant?!
Question: Plz help me! i think i can be pregnant!?
hi people!. you are probably gonna think im lying but i just really want you guys to help me out!. k well im only 14 years old and ive had lots of boyfriends but we never really did anything!. then i really liked this hot guy and i told this girl and she asked him out just to be mean! she had sex with him apparently and she told like, the whole school!. she is sooo mean to me and she even knows that i liked him and when i told her she was like, ewww hes ugly!. and so after i like, wore really revealing clothes and i flirted with him a lot and i purposefully like, dropped stuff to pick em up real slow!. yesterday i asked him if he thought i was sexy and he said yeah and he ALWAYS stares at my boobs!. so like, i got him to like me i guess and yesterday we were hugging and we started making out!. she didnt walk by so then while we were in class (we only have two classes with all three of us togather) we happened to have a substitute so i made sure to sit somewhere next to her and we started making out!. she saw and they broke up, YAY! but like, then we had sex last night and i feel bad now!. we didnt use a condom or anything and i had myperiod ten days ago!. can i be pregnant!? im really scared!. oh, and we had sex again this morning and probably tonight all with no condom cuz he said that condoms hurt him!. but this morning we did it in the shower cuz i told him that im scared of getting pregnant and he told me that water washes the sperm off!. but now the whole school knows that im having sex and i already get in trouble a lot!. (its always for being disrespectful or for pda though) so what do i do!?!?!? btw, im on my friends account and she already knows so, ya!. thanx!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Bullshit condoms hurt him! I'm guessing he's around your age, so he ain't gonna be that 'big'!
Don't ever take that bullshit excuse from a man, coz he's lying! If you fell preggers, would he stay with you!?!?!? Um, NO! He's not taking responsibility now, and won't take responsibility if you happen to become pregnant! And that responsibility swings both ways!
Now that your sexually active, get on the pill! And if you can't afford it, think of the costs associated with pregnancy and raising a baby! And since he's slept with someone else (who knows how many people he's slept with), who knows what your gonna catch! Always use condoms even with the pill!
BTW, dressing like a slut, and flirting with a bloke is not gonna earn you any respect, he'll treat you like ****! e!.g: given the fact that he refuses to wear a condom with you, shows he couldn't give a **** about you!.!.!. Move on, find someone else, he's using you! Also!.!.!. how did the whole school find out!?!? Did you tell, or did he!?!? Basically, it's no one elses business what you do, or who you do, so who out of the 2 of you is bragging!?!?!?
Oh, and no, showering after/during sex does NOT remove all of the sperm!! It's inside you, not just on the outside!
ADDITIONAL COMMENTS:
You said you were ready coz you wanted to to make some girl jealous! That's how you wanna remember your first time!?!?!? That is NOT a reason to be ready, seriously mate, start taking care of yourself, you're not a door mat, so don't let this guy treat you like one! If you keep going like this, before you know it, you'll be 20 years old, 2 or 3 kids with different fathers, and you would've missed out on your own life!
Pro life!? The morning after pill does not cause an abortion effect, it is used to assist in the prevention of falling pregnant!. Keep in mind, that this pill doesn't stay in your system (so you can't pop one of these pills, have sex for a week, and think it'll prevent pregnancy), it can only be used once at a time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't ever take that bullshit excuse from a man, coz he's lying! If you fell preggers, would he stay with you!?!?!? Um, NO! He's not taking responsibility now, and won't take responsibility if you happen to become pregnant! And that responsibility swings both ways!
Now that your sexually active, get on the pill! And if you can't afford it, think of the costs associated with pregnancy and raising a baby! And since he's slept with someone else (who knows how many people he's slept with), who knows what your gonna catch! Always use condoms even with the pill!
BTW, dressing like a slut, and flirting with a bloke is not gonna earn you any respect, he'll treat you like ****! e!.g: given the fact that he refuses to wear a condom with you, shows he couldn't give a **** about you!.!.!. Move on, find someone else, he's using you! Also!.!.!. how did the whole school find out!?!? Did you tell, or did he!?!? Basically, it's no one elses business what you do, or who you do, so who out of the 2 of you is bragging!?!?!?
Oh, and no, showering after/during sex does NOT remove all of the sperm!! It's inside you, not just on the outside!
ADDITIONAL COMMENTS:
You said you were ready coz you wanted to to make some girl jealous! That's how you wanna remember your first time!?!?!? That is NOT a reason to be ready, seriously mate, start taking care of yourself, you're not a door mat, so don't let this guy treat you like one! If you keep going like this, before you know it, you'll be 20 years old, 2 or 3 kids with different fathers, and you would've missed out on your own life!
Pro life!? The morning after pill does not cause an abortion effect, it is used to assist in the prevention of falling pregnant!. Keep in mind, that this pill doesn't stay in your system (so you can't pop one of these pills, have sex for a week, and think it'll prevent pregnancy), it can only be used once at a time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm confused!. You had sex, so you're not a virgin!.!. And yeah you could be pregnant if you didn't use a condom!. Wow!.!. 14 year olds are having sex in the shower!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
JUST GO 2 UR LOCAL STORE AND GET A PREGNANCY TEST
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its bad!.!.!. you are only 14 but you are pregnant!. Feeling every one will have, but very few will have control capacity!. ya, 14 to 16 year!.!. we will get many feeling to have sex but that is the time you need to control your self!. At least you need to use precaution before having it!. No problem, any way control your self and if you want baby then, do not spoil the pregnant other wise remove it!. do not feel bad and feel this is the one of the lesson you learn for the life book!. take care!. byeWww@Answer-Health@Com
alright!. number one you're a super sl*t!. number two you're freaking stupid for drinking AND trying to get back at that girl!. also you can get pregnant at any time and water doesnt wash off ***!. and condoms dont hurt guys! chances are his man part is too small for one anyways!. three you're 14 so thats seriously stupid!. four, learn grammar!. im suprised you made it to the 9th grade!. god freshmen i swear!. and last pro life vegan!? what the h*ll does being vegan change about you being pregnant!?
wow!. grow upWww@Answer-Health@Com
wow!. grow upWww@Answer-Health@Com
Sweety i really hope u didn't believe they when he told you condoms hurt becasue there's probably a 90% chance you could be pregnant!. As a married guy who used that same line and knew plenty of other guys who did the same thing i'll tell you it's a damn lie!.
If you're not pregnant try your best to be a lil more cautious and picky in the men you date let alone have sex with!. Boys will always harass you for sex but the ones who actaully like you and want to be with you and make you happy will wait till you(the girl) is ready!. Good luck with ur baby and hopefully you're not showing, u just ruined your lifeWww@Answer-Health@Com
If you're not pregnant try your best to be a lil more cautious and picky in the men you date let alone have sex with!. Boys will always harass you for sex but the ones who actaully like you and want to be with you and make you happy will wait till you(the girl) is ready!. Good luck with ur baby and hopefully you're not showing, u just ruined your lifeWww@Answer-Health@Com
No offence or anything but you saying your ready because your making another girl jealous!? Thats not ready to be honest!.
And seriously, get to the doctor, get some emergancy contraception (morning after pill) and tell your new boyfriend that he needs to start wearing a condom!. Your too young and if hes been sleeping around he could of caught an STI and passed it on to you!.
You could always go on the pill but condoms protect you from STIs too!.
Also, yes!. It does kinda make you a slut- Sleeping with someone to make someone else jealous!.!. sorry to break it to you but i am being honest!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And seriously, get to the doctor, get some emergancy contraception (morning after pill) and tell your new boyfriend that he needs to start wearing a condom!. Your too young and if hes been sleeping around he could of caught an STI and passed it on to you!.
You could always go on the pill but condoms protect you from STIs too!.
Also, yes!. It does kinda make you a slut- Sleeping with someone to make someone else jealous!.!. sorry to break it to you but i am being honest!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There's nothing you can really do if you're pregnant and don't want to take an after pill or get an abortion or anything (gooo vegans)!. Get a pregnancy test and stop having sex, especially unprotected sex!.
And this is way off topic but damn!.!.!.lucky a$$ sophmoreWww@Answer-Health@Com
And this is way off topic but damn!.!.!.lucky a$$ sophmoreWww@Answer-Health@Com
Okay, is it possible!? yes!.!.!. if he won't wear a condom then he is telling you that he doesn't care about protecting you from a possible std or pregnancy!. There are female condoms!.!.!. if you don't want to use them at least get an over the counter contraceptive gel or foam!. Go to the school nurse and talk with her!.!.!.!. you should consider talking with your mom about getting a more permanent form of birth control if you feel you are grown up enough for sex, then you are grown up enough to be responsible about it!. There is emergency birth control in the form of a pill that you can take to prevent implantation !. But you have to go and get it, that might require an adult where you live, because it could have serious side effects!. Take care of yourself and be careful what you expose your body to!.!.!.!.!.
Does it make you a slut!.!.!. in my book it make you promiscuous and irresponsible, but you are young!. Just be wise in your decision making!. If you were my daughter I'd hate to see you throw your youth away chasing tail!.
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Does it make you a slut!.!.!. in my book it make you promiscuous and irresponsible, but you are young!. Just be wise in your decision making!. If you were my daughter I'd hate to see you throw your youth away chasing tail!.
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does any of this make me a slut!?
My dear!.!.!. At fourteen you should only just be discovering boys!.!.!. not shagging them to get back at a girl you hate!.
You obviously have no intention of doing things sensibly!.!.!. not using a condom because it hurts! How ridiculous!.!.!. men wouldn't have invented them if they hurt them!.!.!. mind you!.!.!. this guy is a just a young boy!.
If you don't want to use a condom then be prepared, especially as you get older, for STDs!.!.!. I suggest you read up about them in preparation!. As you claim to be a vegan and refuse to take the pill!.!.!. how about you ask for one that is suitable for vegans- there are plenty of different types out there I'm sure if you bothered to look you'd find some to your satisfaction!.
If not then try a female condom, or spermicide!. ANYTHING! Just dont get pregnant and abort your child!.!.!. because you could live to regret that!.!.!. not getting pregnant at all is far better!. And obviously you dont need a child in your life!.!.!. you are still a child yourself!.!.!. and it sounds to me that your parents have enough on their plate without having to look after your child too!.
Now, about this whole shagging someone to get back at someone else!. YES that does make you a slut!. It is one of the lowest levels a person can sink to- sex in form of revenge!. Does this boy know that!? Or does he know that you like him!?
Either way you need to start behaving in public!.!.!. because your behaviour is very animalistic at the moment!. Sex to mark your territory!. Snogging in class!.!.!. like your hormones are too strong to control!. You have obviously acted without thinking rationally!.
Take a step back!. THINK!. Do you want to end up with children from all different men!? Not being respected by someone you love!? Being bitched about by the town about your behaviour!? Making your family ashamed of you!?
Or would you like to be successful, happy, safe, and secure in your life!? If so, buckle down!. Get on with your work!. Stop getting in trouble at school!. And leave the other girl to get pregnant and mess up her life!.
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YOU DRESSED SLUTTY, BENT OVER LIKE A WHORE, AND SHOWED HIM YOUR BOOBS!!?!!?! You are possibly the most degrading person to females I have ever heard of! Acting like a whore to get a man!?! Obviously you have no respect for yourself or any other girl!. Perhaps you should close your legs for a while and think about how you want to be seen, how you want to be treated!.
Acting like a whore!.!.!. looking like a whore!.!.!. sounding like a whore!.!.!. often makes one thing!.!.!. and that is something you do not want to happen!. EVER!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My dear!.!.!. At fourteen you should only just be discovering boys!.!.!. not shagging them to get back at a girl you hate!.
You obviously have no intention of doing things sensibly!.!.!. not using a condom because it hurts! How ridiculous!.!.!. men wouldn't have invented them if they hurt them!.!.!. mind you!.!.!. this guy is a just a young boy!.
If you don't want to use a condom then be prepared, especially as you get older, for STDs!.!.!. I suggest you read up about them in preparation!. As you claim to be a vegan and refuse to take the pill!.!.!. how about you ask for one that is suitable for vegans- there are plenty of different types out there I'm sure if you bothered to look you'd find some to your satisfaction!.
If not then try a female condom, or spermicide!. ANYTHING! Just dont get pregnant and abort your child!.!.!. because you could live to regret that!.!.!. not getting pregnant at all is far better!. And obviously you dont need a child in your life!.!.!. you are still a child yourself!.!.!. and it sounds to me that your parents have enough on their plate without having to look after your child too!.
Now, about this whole shagging someone to get back at someone else!. YES that does make you a slut!. It is one of the lowest levels a person can sink to- sex in form of revenge!. Does this boy know that!? Or does he know that you like him!?
Either way you need to start behaving in public!.!.!. because your behaviour is very animalistic at the moment!. Sex to mark your territory!. Snogging in class!.!.!. like your hormones are too strong to control!. You have obviously acted without thinking rationally!.
Take a step back!. THINK!. Do you want to end up with children from all different men!? Not being respected by someone you love!? Being bitched about by the town about your behaviour!? Making your family ashamed of you!?
Or would you like to be successful, happy, safe, and secure in your life!? If so, buckle down!. Get on with your work!. Stop getting in trouble at school!. And leave the other girl to get pregnant and mess up her life!.
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YOU DRESSED SLUTTY, BENT OVER LIKE A WHORE, AND SHOWED HIM YOUR BOOBS!!?!!?! You are possibly the most degrading person to females I have ever heard of! Acting like a whore to get a man!?! Obviously you have no respect for yourself or any other girl!. Perhaps you should close your legs for a while and think about how you want to be seen, how you want to be treated!.
Acting like a whore!.!.!. looking like a whore!.!.!. sounding like a whore!.!.!. often makes one thing!.!.!. and that is something you do not want to happen!. EVER!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
wow your life is so messed up,im 15 and i am no where as close as a s***t as you, i am a virgin and i am planning to do so until God tells me so, you should seriously be ashamed of yourself, how did you have sex in a shower do you even live with your parents, being drunk at 14, wearing revelling clothes to snacth another girls boyfriend, do you know your whole school now know you as the school bit*h , give yourself a life check!Www@Answer-Health@Com
ok honestly you are a child yourself and you can not raise one yet!. just go the the dr!. and tell them that you need the day after pill or if your city has a family planing center they will give you one for free and they wont even tell your parents the pill is called plane B you should realy look in to getting the day after pill you have up to 72 hr for it to work and it will not harm you or a fetus (saying you are alredy preggo) Www@Answer-Health@Com