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Question: Can someone help be realatioship problem!? best answer will be picked!!?
ok im 13 and my bf wants to finger me!?what is that!?how do you do it!?is it bad!?Please tell me everything about it!?
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Basically, he wants to put his hand in your underwear and touch your privates!.

Yes, it may sound exciting but remember you two are still very young, and one thing can easily lead to another!. But if you two want to be intimate that way, him fingering you is a lot safer than sex!.

He may just touch you there, rub the outside, or insert a finger inside, for your enjoyment of course!. You don't have to do anything, he basically does all the work!. If you don't feel comfortable with this, don't worry!. I didn't even feel comfortable with it when I was 15!. You don't have to let him, just tell him you aren't ready to take your relationship to that step yet!. It's your choice, don't let him influence your decision!.

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I would be careful, especially being 13, you don't want to get too involved sexually with a boy!. Fingering means that he wants to stick his finger in your vagina!. Its can be dangerous, because germs can be stuck under the fingernail, and he could scratch you and get infected!. Honestly, i would say no to getting fingered!. You are not ready for sexual stuff like that!.!. You are to young to get involved!. If he really loves you he will not push you!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

At 13, no boy should have his finger or any other body part near any of your 'body parts!' Fingering means using his finger to do what he really WANTS to do with his penis!. You must value yourself more than to let any guy use you like that!. Plus, what may start with just a finger is really likely to end up with the whole works!. Are you ready to risk sexual infections, shame, fear, pregnancy, bad reputation, and all that!?
Tell him you know other girls may be easy, but you are not selling yourself in the bargain basement!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

First of all, I think you're a bit young to be doing things so sexual!. Both because of your age and your level of immaturity!. I'm not trying to be offensive!. But if you don't even know what it is then I don't think you should be taking part in it!.
I'm going to tell you what it is just so you're more informed of your own body!. Fingering is when a guy will put one or more fingers into your vagina, to please you in a sexual way!. He'll probably rub the outer part also!.
This is a big step to take in a relationship and should be considered long and hard!. If you're not ready, then tell him no!. This is manual sex!. That will soon lead to oral, and vaginal, most likely!. And if you do this now and you're not ready, chances are you may regret it, as well as when you start doing more with him!. Maybe not now, but later!.
It's your choice!. But you're still so young and you have so much time to get serious with a guy!. I wasn't fingered until I was eighteen and I was with a man who I've been with for a year now!. I wouldn't let him touch me for a long time!. And I'm glad I didn't!.
Make sure you make a decision that is 100% yours!. Don't let anyone pressure you or make this decision for you!. Okay!?

And know that I have never once heard a girl who regretted waiting or saying no, but I've heard way too many who regret letting something happen that she wasn't ready for!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well, if you don't know what it is then i think you are not ready and should not do it!. But it is when he puts one or two fingers in your vagina, they move there fingers in and out or around and around or whatever they want, lol!. Um no it's not bad, but if you do, do it make sure he washes his hands first, alot of people i know got infections because there boyfriends didn't clean there hands!. Anyways, if he does it gentle it does feel really good!. So if you want to then go ahead, but just to let you know, most guys get really turned on when they do it!. So he may try and have sex with you right after or while he is doing it so be prepared!. And if your not ready then you shouldn't let him!. goodluck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well I'm an NOT going to suggest to a 13-year old to try this!.!.!.but with my experience fingering feels great!. It's when your "bf" takes a finger or two and insert it into your vagina and massage the inside walls!. With him doing this you will become easily aroused and "wet"!. It's your body's way of making intercourse easier for penetration!. So what does this means!?!.!.!.Fingering can lead to more "advanced" sexual activity and for your age that's definitely a no-no! If you want to know more of what it feels like, then try it yourself (masturbation) and experiment!. And if you're not comfortable with this whole idea then DON'T DO IT! Your "bf" should respect you enough to wait until you are ready!. I hope this is the answer you're looking for, and by all means sweetie, be safe whatever you do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ok so im a doctor so i shoul d get the best answer!.
Fingering is him sticking his finger in your vagina it will feel good and you will like it and so will he but he is probably just in it to see you naked so if you are fine with this sexual activity then go right ahead and have lots of harmless fun Www@Answer-Health@Com

on the scale of bad things, it isn't very bad!. only problem is that if you start doing this type of thing at age 13, you are likely to go a lot farther, a lot faster!. it leads to a lot other things!.!.!.!.

i wouldn't encourage it!. but anyway!. it's just where he sticks his finger in your vagina and kind of moves it around!. it's kind of weird that i'm writing this because i'm 16 and i haven't done that!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

everyone who answered above me has done a good job at describing "fingering"

but to be honest with you!.!.!.!. fingering is more of a turn on for him than it will be for you if you want it to feel good for you have him stimulate your clittoris!. this requiers no penetration so you dont have to worry about him tearing your hymen and it will feel a lot better!Www@Answer-Health@Com

well its not that bad, as long as he cuts his fingernails, all it does is make you wet, and gets you turned on, my bf started doin that to me about 7 months ago, its not that bad, theres nothing wrong with it, just be sure to let him know when it does hurt, cause some guys can be rough without realizing it, alriteWww@Answer-Health@Com

you are only 13 tell the guy NO! and speak to your parents about it, this guy will tell you he loves you and if you love him you will do it, and that is crap, Www@Answer-Health@Com

it's him sticking his fingers up your vagina it's not bad Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't be in such a hurry to grow up it will happen sooner than you think Don't do anything you are not ready forWww@Answer-Health@Com

i agree with the others but what really gets u going if he fingers ur clitoris!. Www@Answer-Health@Com





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