I just had sex for the first time with my bf... is this normal?? still in pain?!
Question: I just had sex for the first time with my bf!.!.!. is this normal!?!? still in pain!?
so last night i finally had sex with my bf!. at first he got it in but hurt so bad so i made him pull out!. then we got lube and that helped a little but it still hurt so bad!. the worst was when he would go really deep it just hurt so bad i almost was pushing him off of me!. and the very opening of my vagina hurt too!. i was able to let him do it long enough that he came!. then this morning we tried again but it hurt so bad i made him stop as soon as he got it in because the opening hurts so bad!. i tried putting my finger in there it feels a tiny but loser but it hurts and the opening is really sore!.!. is this normal!? sex is soooooo painful when is it supposed to get better!? am i doing something wrong!?!? is he!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
oh my gosh!. i feel you honey!. Im 16, and I thought it was weird it hurt so bad too, it was like the worst pain of your life, right!?
Yeah, i made my boyfriend pull out too the first time!. Um I heard like around the fourth time it will get better, but don't like do it the next day of your first time because yeah your sore and it will hurt worse than the first time!. I know how bad it hurt though ): I was there too!. I mean i was scared something was wrong with me because it hurt so bad!. Just wait atleast 3 days until you try again because your gonna be sore!. Good luck (:
!.!.!. my bad!. heating *pad!. not bad!. lol!.
Try putting a heating bad near your vagina !.!.it helps the soreness!. !. thats what I did!. I remember mine was so bad that night I cried my self to sleep!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yeah, i made my boyfriend pull out too the first time!. Um I heard like around the fourth time it will get better, but don't like do it the next day of your first time because yeah your sore and it will hurt worse than the first time!. I know how bad it hurt though ): I was there too!. I mean i was scared something was wrong with me because it hurt so bad!. Just wait atleast 3 days until you try again because your gonna be sore!. Good luck (:
!.!.!. my bad!. heating *pad!. not bad!. lol!.
Try putting a heating bad near your vagina !.!.it helps the soreness!. !. thats what I did!. I remember mine was so bad that night I cried my self to sleep!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well idk maybe he was being to rough, like when me and my gf go at it sometimes we don't notice how rough were going until the next day were reallly sore like I always leave bruises all around her hips, thighs, and chest but it'll start feeling better soon you just have to get the hang of itWww@Answer-Health@Com
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It is different for everyone!. He most likely broke your hymen (thin peice of skin that breaks during the first time you have sex or sometimes before from extreme exersize or tampon use!.!. anything)
Anyway, sex didn't hurt much for me and I had if for the first time at 16!. Everyone is different!. You need to make sure that before you have sex he makes you very aroused and "wet" You also need to make sure you use plenty of lube and he should play with you for a while before having ANY sex!.
Does all that make sense!? Don't have sex again until if feels all better!. Then do what I told you!. You must really ease into it!. Men are ALWAYS ready far before women! Good luck and with practice and time it will feel much better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Anyway, sex didn't hurt much for me and I had if for the first time at 16!. Everyone is different!. You need to make sure that before you have sex he makes you very aroused and "wet" You also need to make sure you use plenty of lube and he should play with you for a while before having ANY sex!.
Does all that make sense!? Don't have sex again until if feels all better!. Then do what I told you!. You must really ease into it!. Men are ALWAYS ready far before women! Good luck and with practice and time it will feel much better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com