I'm scared of the pain to have sex?!
Question: I'm scared of the pain to have sex!?
i'm totally ready to have sex with my boyfriend of 6 months!. i'm just kind of a baby when it comes to pain!. i'm so scared of the pain of losing my virginity that every time we get close i start freaking out!. we have been talking about doing it soon, but still i am scared that it will hurt me a lot!.
any girls have suggestions besides relaxing and making sure you use lubrication!? we are using condoms!.!.obviously!.
thanks!Www@Answer-Health@Com
any girls have suggestions besides relaxing and making sure you use lubrication!? we are using condoms!.!.obviously!.
thanks!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
hmm
well that's good =]
and lubrication is a good thing
maybe before having sex
have him finger you, this might hurt too =/ but have him use one finger, and then move up to two, and then when you feel like your ready, then go for the sex
and i'mma suggest a sex position i think all first timers should use
Girl On Top
because that gives you the girl the chance to control how you want things to go [:
good luck
and try not to think of the pain, besides good sex, kinda alleviates pain [:Www@Answer-Health@Com
well that's good =]
and lubrication is a good thing
maybe before having sex
have him finger you, this might hurt too =/ but have him use one finger, and then move up to two, and then when you feel like your ready, then go for the sex
and i'mma suggest a sex position i think all first timers should use
Girl On Top
because that gives you the girl the chance to control how you want things to go [:
good luck
and try not to think of the pain, besides good sex, kinda alleviates pain [:Www@Answer-Health@Com
Make sure you are ready; mentally and physically!. Most people don't know that you actually have to get "turned on" before you are ready to have sex!. Kissing and touching should work!. When you get "in the mood" you're body produces its natural lubricants that will help prevent you from getting hurt!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
For some women, sex the first time to few times, may be painful, but for others, not so much!. This may be because the hymen has already been broken from tampon use, riding a bike, horse, etc!. It is very important your boyfriend goes slow and you both have a lot of foreplay!. Make sure you use a lot of lubricant as well!. Go slow!. Do not rush anything!.
Someone suggested your boyfriend should finger you!.!.!.that is a great suggestion!. You may even want to do that for a little while to help prepare you a bit before you actually have sex with him!.
As I said, take it slowly!.!.no need to rush anything!. You've waited a long time!. A little more time is just fine :)!.
Good luck! Have fun and be safe!! :)
Me
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Someone suggested your boyfriend should finger you!.!.!.that is a great suggestion!. You may even want to do that for a little while to help prepare you a bit before you actually have sex with him!.
As I said, take it slowly!.!.no need to rush anything!. You've waited a long time!. A little more time is just fine :)!.
Good luck! Have fun and be safe!! :)
Me
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well like other said do a lot foreplay and of course u should use lubrication thats make easy to go deep!.!.!.!.!.!.!.it is 1st time it may hurt lil bit but i think that pain is also good feeling when having sex!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.and of course tell ur boy fren to really slowwwww ok hav fun but u told u'll do safe sex but it is 1st time so may be feeling could go out of control think abt that ok Www@Answer-Health@Com
when i had sex the first time i tried to think of the worse period pain i ever had!. i also think that when i get a blood test done!. just think i've had worse pain than this!.
my advice: lots of foreplay, lubricant and relax!. it may still hurt but once it's over it will never feel that painful again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
my advice: lots of foreplay, lubricant and relax!. it may still hurt but once it's over it will never feel that painful again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
tell him to take it slow!. and i mean ssllooww!. (atleast for the first minute) =)you guys have to communicate and if you dont like it tell him and he'll stop!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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don't be worried just try slowly and use lubricator and be careful
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don't be worried just try slowly and use lubricator and be careful
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