My girlfriend is getting fat! How can I make her stop?!


Question: My girlfriend is getting fat! How can I make her stop!?
seriously, we've been dating for two years now and in the last 6 months shes put on over 15 pounds!.

im getting pissed off because i go to the gym everyday and keep in shape but she sits at home and eats and watches tv!. im not even attracted to her anymore!. its sick, because most of the fat is gaining in her butt!

what can i do to smarten her up!? should i just dump her!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
are you worried about her becoming obese and getting ill!?
i'm just going to assume you are!.
you could invite her to go to the gym with you and tell her that you are concerned about her weight gain!.
don't say it grosses you out or you find her less attractive, but say you are concerned about her overall health!.
if she is easily fatigued tell her that a good healthy diet and exercise will give her a lot of energy!. also, she can improve her skin and i think she will just feel better about herself!.

women will just get upset if you say they are fat!.
but if you show that you are concerned about her health and well being she may just decide to change!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ask her if she wants to come to the gym with you because you get bored alone, or maybe go for a long walk in the morning with her and only buy healthier food!.

Or you can be straight out honest and tell her she's been getting chubby!.

But if I were you, I'd just keep getting her to exercise with you!. Are you guys living together!? You could put some effort in and make the meals for you two for a while and make the meals healthy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes, you should break up with her!.
She deserves better than you, you obviously were only in it for the physical/sexual part of the relationship!.
She might have something going on that you don't know about!.
You don't deserve to be in a relationship!. It would be different if you were concerned for her health but you couldn't care less about that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You're probably pretty shallow and don't really love her for who she is!. How does she feel about the weight she's gained!? Does it bother her!? If it doesn't bother her, you shouldn't say anything!. But if it is, then why not suggest that she go to the gym with you so you can work out together!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

You work out!. Good for you!.
She doesn't!. Sucks for you!.

If you're going to be an ****** about her gaining weight, just leave her!. She deserves someone better who can respect how she is, whether it fits their lifestyle or not!.

Jerk!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Do you love her!? Obviously you don't because you wouldn't care what she looked like!. If your not happy leave her!. Maybe you can talk to her about going to the gym with you once in a while!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

don't do anything!.!.!. if you keep up with this attitude you have she will dump you soon enough and her weight won't be your "problem" anymore!.
grow up!.
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The way you could make her stop is by finding her a new boyfriend that isn't shallow like you areWww@Answer-Health@Com

You are very mean!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

your not very nice-what you are saying is very hurtfulWww@Answer-Health@Com





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