Need advice about my best friend doing risky sexual behavior?!


Question: Need advice about my best friend doing risky sexual behavior!?
My best friend recently turned 16 and today i found out that she is now seeing a 21 who she just started seeing last weekend!. After their first so called date she started hooking up with him and giving him oral sex!. Despite being illegal I am really worried about her and dont know what to do because in the past 3 months she has been with 3 different guys and had oral sex with all of them!. The horrible thing is she barely even knows these guys and she starts hooking up with them!. She even took nude pictures of herself and sent it to these guys!. I don't know what i should do because shes my best friend and needs to know that horrible things can happen to her from this stupid decisions!. Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Depending on what state you are in, the age of consent could be 16, which means their relationship is perfectly legal, whether anyone approves or not!.

You could tell her how you feel, however it could affect your friendship!.

If you talk to her, just tell her your concerns!. Explain how she can get diseases by doing that (find resources on the net if you can)!.

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I am sorry but most probably you are loosing your friend!. If there is somebody she trust (relative, older friend, anybody with life experience) - speak with this person and ask for support!.
Tell her that even with oral sex she can get a lo of sexually transmitted infections including HIV!. Read safer sex below and tell her about all info concerning oral sexWww@Answer-Health@Com

it isnt the place to ask , she is an adult in the eyes of the UK and she is a woman willingly doing things!. Posting her sex life details, on yahoo answers isnt exactly going to stop her , just embarrass her if she reads your daily questions!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think she behaves this way to feel wanted to accepted by men!. The age factor really scares me, one of these days, she is going to meet someone that isn't so nice and may harm her!.

Talk to your friend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Talk to her, tell her you're worried - but it's really none of your business what anyone else's sex life is like!. Even your friend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

She must like oral sex!.

Talk to her and explain your worries!. She might understand!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

have you talked to your friend to let her know how you feelWww@Answer-Health@Com

talk to your friends parents about itWww@Answer-Health@Com

She's got to have some type of mental or emotional issues to be suddenly acting up like this!. Does she have problems at home!? You should talk to her!. Make it clear that you are by no means judjing her or the decisions she makes, that you are only worried about her!. These guys are obviously taking aadvantage of her!. Ask her what's bothering her!. Something must be hurting her inside!. Trying to fill a void!.

I had a friend who started seeing and having sex with her step dad's friend who lived at her house with her family when she was only 13!. He was 23!. She had a really bad family life and was releasing her stress, anger and sadness through her behavior!. Her mom found out about them and the guy went to jail!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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