Unbearable pain when attempting to have sex, is there something wrong? please he!
Question: Unbearable pain when attempting to have sex, is there something wrong!? please help!!?
I'm 15 years old and me and my boyfriend have tried many times over the past year to have sex, but it hurts so bad he has to stop!. it also hurts when i get fingered and i can't use a tampon i don't know if its because of nerves or because it wont go in!. i always hear stories of how other peoples first times don't hurt at all, but when ever we try it hurts horribly and i don't understand whats wrong!. i want to go to an obgyn but ive been reading about there procedures and it sounds like it will hurt especially for me!. do you think there is something wrong!? or maybe im just being a baby about the pain!? but honestly im good with handeling pain its just that that pain is pretty unbearable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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you are obviously not relaxed enough!.!. your vagina is surrounded by a muscle and if you are tense or nervous, you'll tighten up!.!. it could very well be your mind telling your body that you are not ready to have sex yet!.!. if you think you're totally ready ( and using protection ), then you just need to relax more!.!. have your boyfriend finger you while you're making out!.!. first with one finger, then with 2!.!. when you are feeling more relaxed, have him put a condom on, use some lube (like KY) and try again
but really, I suggest waiting until you're really ready because it sounds like you're notWww@Answer-Health@Com
but really, I suggest waiting until you're really ready because it sounds like you're notWww@Answer-Health@Com
Try buying a lube for when you want to have intercourse or use a tampon!. If this dosnt help go to a gyno!. its really not that badWww@Answer-Health@Com