Question about sex. Trying to find out if this is normal for some women?!


Question: Question about sex!. Trying to find out if this is normal for some women!?
Ok!. Im going to go into deep details so please dont go all eww and i want serious answers please!. This might be normal for some girls and if its not normal then im sure that there are ways to make this better!.

Ok i havent had sex in forever which im like cool with because im glad!. I enjoy having it with someone i care about and i choose to be careful!.
The last time i was with someone though, i would say my ex was pretty big guy and yes i realized that before being with him i had not had sex in forever!. So when he went in it hurt not bad but it did!. Now here goes my issue after being with him for months maybe i didnt get use to his size but sometimes when he was inside i would hurt and we would have to stop because of the pain!. The pain was bad and it felt like it would hit my belly and it hurt, the worse was when he was behind me and it felt bad!. [i know you must be thinking dummy but im being serious] The pain wasnt always and only when he would like go all the way in or when it was rough!. Could it have been that im sensative, is that normal, could it be that im not as wet enough!?

Please answer in a serious manner!? lol
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Answers:
Well I have this problem with My fiancee, the exact way you described it even the from behind thing!. We have tried to use lubricants like KY but it doesn't help, it actually lessens the good feelings for both of us!. Ive just learned to not go in as Deep not to hurt her and things have been great since, sometimes its hard to in the heat of passion but that's what you do for someone you love!. Not everyone is the same internally and I guess that is the reason!. I hope that helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com

First of all, you honestly don't know if he's big or not because you haven't had anyone else!. He doesn't know what he's doing if it makes you feel like he's hitting you in the belly!. Seriously!. He needs to learn some finesse or something, because that's just awful technique or lack thereof!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

This sounds normal to me!. I have experienced the same thing and it was not always with the man with the bigger unit!. Just seems to hit somehting deep in there!.!.!.!.!.and it is not good!. But no long term effects, we jsut did nto get carried away in the futureWww@Answer-Health@Com

it sounds like he was just being too rough and going in to deep!. guys tend to do that sometimes!. it is a normal feeling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

normal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

sounds normal to me =D
nothing to worry about!.
hes just big and some people arent made to handle bigg-ness!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah it hurts for me sometimes when my bf is behind me!. Normal!. If it is really bad though, go to the doctor because you could have an inflamed cervix and they will give you antibiotics!. Maybe he is just really big and can't go all the way in with you!. I would see your gyno just in case =)Www@Answer-Health@Com

That happens to me and my boyfriend and i never knew if it was something that was "normal" or not so i'm glad you asked!. He is also, "well endowed" so i always thought it had to do with his size too!. I know exactly what you mean when you were talking about the from behind thing!. That's the worst, and it hurts my stomach like where i get cramps when i'm pmsing!.
Anyways we've tried to correct it so i don't hurt anymore!. Basically he has to start really gentle and slow, not going deep at all!. Then eventually we can work up to him being all the way in and i don't get that feeling!. We haven't tried it from behind yet but maybe this will help you!?
Good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah that sounds perfectly normal!. My sister's husband is Very large too and he couldn't go in all the way when they were having sex either!. I wouldn't worry about it too much unless you had Very bad pain Every time you had sex in Every position, because that could be a sign of something more serious, sometimes endometriosis!. However, there are more symptoms with this disorder, so don't freak out! I think it was just because he was Literally too big for your bodyWww@Answer-Health@Com





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