Orgasm problems =[ Sorry I need advice?!


Question: Orgasm problems =[ Sorry I need advice!?
For some reason when we first started having sex i could orgasm real fast!. Now for some reason I can't have an orgasm!. he gets mad and tells me "I'm not good in be anymore right!?" and I don't know what to tell him!. it's not that I don't enjoy it because I do but I get mad because he has his orgasm pulls out and it's like ok we are done!.

The other day he went to wash his sperm off and we went at it again!. and it went soft!.! I was so pissed!. But now what do i do about it!?
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Nope nothing's wrong u just have to relax,and think of things that make you hot!.Then everything will fall into place!.And do it for the fun of it!.Here are some tips!.Hope i helped!.Good luck!.

How to Have an Orgasm Step 1: Tense Up

The type of tension that helps women reach orgasm is muscle tension (myotonia)!. Many women have the mistaken impression that they should relax and "just lie there" because they've heard that relaxation during sex is important!. But it turns out that muscle tension is often necessary for an orgasm!. In my experience, the majority of women learn to have their first orgasm by incorporating a fair amount of leg, abdominal, and buttock tension!.

Not surprisingly, women report that the most orgasm-inducing muscle contractions are in their lower pelvis!. These are the same muscles you squeeze to stop the flow of urine midstream (a conscious contraction of this group is called a Kegel exercise)!.

What is the connection between tensing muscle groups and having an orgasm!? Arousal!. Contracting (or tensing) certain muscles increases blood flow throughout the body and often to the genital area!. And arousal, of course, is the road map that helps lead most women to orgasm!.
How to Have an Orgasm Step 2: Wind Down

So, where's the relaxation part of this equation!? In the brain!. During sex, a woman should be focused simply on feeling the sensations of the stimulation!.

Have a hard time relaxing!? Think of a Times Square billboard in which words stream into view from the left-hand side to the right edge, and then disappear off the screen!. During sex, many women find it helpful to program their own Times Square news crawl with a repetitive mantra such as "I can take as long as I want" or "This really feels great" on their mental silent radio!. It keeps the brain occupied -- but with a thought that will encourage sexual arousal rather than with a nervous, negative thought that might decrease arousal!.

After this first lesson, I send my clients away with a homework assignment!. During sex, they are to tense up their muscles and let their minds go silent!. This technique takes practice, but it can work over time!. And more often than not, my clients return to a future session with their own good news to report!.

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nothings wrong, i have the same problem sometimes!.

maybe you should try different positions to where hes hitting your gspot!.!.!.doggy style is a good one, or you being on top!.!.!.if youve done those then just research and try other ways!.!.!.!.try rubbing your clit while you are having sex, or have him do it!.

does he *** really fast!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Because he is only thinking of his own pleasure!. Also not taking precautions, maybe another thing on your mind!.A woman's pleasure center starts in her brain!. You need to be stimulated, and be ready!. You need to find a more considerate lover!. Someone kind, compassionate, wants to give your pleasure!.!.!.!.a little romance always help set the scene!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hes a 2 minute man!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

No, thats quite common for most women!. We last longer in sex, its just natural!.

If your stupid boyfriend is giving you attitude for being a woman, kick him out of the bed and see how much he complains when his only sexual partner is his fist!.

My advice is don't jump directly into sex, work your way up!. Have him stimulate other areas besides your vagina!. Work with your clitoris and anus (if you're comfortable with it- if you've never tried, give it a shot!.)

Have longer fore-play so that you can get more sexually worked up, rather than just making out and having sex!.

If anything, he should last LONGER!

My fiancee and I have sex once or twice a week, and while its not a twelve hour marathon, its about an hour to an hour and a half!. Your boyfriend just needs to be more aware of YOUR needs and not just his own!. We aren't as simple as the in out/up down motion as they are!.

We're the Rubix Cube Of Love!

ADD> Well, while you may be beautiful, thats not why he orgasms so fast!. Chances are, he has an orgasm issue that prevents him from lasting longer, and needs to work on his stamina!. Most men are good for at LEAST 30 minutes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if there is THAT much stress in the bedroom- than I dunno if I'd be feeling anything close to orgasmic!. Women tend to take longer to reach climax than men and especially if your man is selfish in bed!. he MAY need to "take care of you" first with oral pleasure and get you worked up- dont let him touch 'those" areas for a while, but lightly touch other areas surrounding!. Few women are able to climax thru vaginal sex alone and furthermore!.!.!.it should NOT always be about who's climaxed or not!. dont keep score in the bedroom- its about connecting with a person you love!.

The BF sounds a little naive when it comes to how to treat a woman in the bedroom, if he asks such dumb questions!.

I dunno about the relationship you two have!.!.!.mentally or physically!.

The BF needs to spend a little more time taking care of you- more foreplay the more worked up you are- the more you may respond to him!.

On the flip side!.!.!.depending on his age and lifestyle for the guy!.!.!.dont get mad because he went soft!.!.!.that's pressure on him too- ask if he would please you in other ways!.

a little graphic for our underage readers, but there it is!. Www@Answer-Health@Com





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