Is this in any way normal?!
Question: Is this in any way normal!?
I just got my period (I'm 13) and i've been having these sleep dreams and daydreams about me kissing my best friend (we both fancy each other, but are not dating)!. I am a kiss virgin, and i don't wanna as my mum, or my dad (who has a PhD in psychology) or, more excruciatingly, my best girl friend!.
All my sleep dreams about me kissing him are smack in the middle of one of my horror stories (I am an author of horror stories for my school newspaper)!. All my daydreams are pretty much a figment of my imagination, and They sort of come at completely random points in time, and if he's in the room, i end up looking at him and giving him a stupid, goofy smile!. Am I too young for this!? I'd like professional answers, thanks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
All my sleep dreams about me kissing him are smack in the middle of one of my horror stories (I am an author of horror stories for my school newspaper)!. All my daydreams are pretty much a figment of my imagination, and They sort of come at completely random points in time, and if he's in the room, i end up looking at him and giving him a stupid, goofy smile!. Am I too young for this!? I'd like professional answers, thanks!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Fantasies like that are both a normal and healthy part of human development!. Don't worry so much!. There's also nothing wrong with giving someone that 'goofy' smile as you put it!. Some boys find it attractive b/c it lets them know you are interested, you may find him reciprocating too!. At 13, being attracted to someone of the same sex is totally normal!. Its when you act on those feelings that it becomes more of a concern!. Eventually, as you mature you start to realize what's appropriate and not!. Until then enjoy the fact that you have such a wonderfully vivid imagination!. Use that to create your stories because it may someday yield positive results in terms of your writing!. Hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Of course it's normal!. All girls your age start to have these thoughts as they are going through puberty!. However you don't have to act on these thoughts until you feel as if you ready - but there's nothing wrong with the way you are feeling!. It would be abnormal if you WEREN'T having these feelings!.
Don't give much attention to these dreams!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
just forget them!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't give much attention to these dreams!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
just forget them!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Of course it's normal!. All girls your age start to have these thoughts as they are going through puberty!. However you don't have to act on these thoughts until you feel as if you ready - but there's nothing wrong with the way you are feeling!. It would be abnormal if you WEREN'T having these feelings!.Www@Answer-Health@Com