How can I deal with this? (Relationship problem)?!
Question: How can I deal with this!? (Relationship problem)!?
So my girlfriend of 8 months is very friendly towards her guy friends!. Sometimes it seems like she is happier and pays more attention to them than to me!. This is causing a problem since I am very irritated by this, but it is not like I don't want her to have guy friends, it is just she is very flirty around them you know!? I want to solve this issue on my own because I am very mad at her to the point where I don't even want to see her at school!. I want to solve this on my own or else I will seem "controlling", but please help!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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You sound like a very nice, informed young man!.
Frankly, I am way out of high school, but when I was younger (and I don't think girls have changed much), I always got along better with boys than girls!. As an adult I have always had more really good male friends than women!. Oh, and have been happily, faithfully married for many years!.
Girls are "catty and viscous" at any age, even me sometimes, and they can sometimes not be very fun!. They gossip and tattle and compare each other, etc!.
Boys on the other hand just tell it like it is most of the time!. They laugh and kid and have fun being teenagers!. Lots more fun than girls!.
If she hasn't done anything like kiss someone or make out with someone or something really off the wall, don't worry about it!. A little harmless flirting should be ignored!. However, if she has crossed that line, then you need to decide how bad you want this girl and tell her she did not do the right thing!. You can do that in an adult way without controlling her every move!.
Best of luck!. Hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Frankly, I am way out of high school, but when I was younger (and I don't think girls have changed much), I always got along better with boys than girls!. As an adult I have always had more really good male friends than women!. Oh, and have been happily, faithfully married for many years!.
Girls are "catty and viscous" at any age, even me sometimes, and they can sometimes not be very fun!. They gossip and tattle and compare each other, etc!.
Boys on the other hand just tell it like it is most of the time!. They laugh and kid and have fun being teenagers!. Lots more fun than girls!.
If she hasn't done anything like kiss someone or make out with someone or something really off the wall, don't worry about it!. A little harmless flirting should be ignored!. However, if she has crossed that line, then you need to decide how bad you want this girl and tell her she did not do the right thing!. You can do that in an adult way without controlling her every move!.
Best of luck!. Hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just tell your girlfriend that you feel a little upset when you see her flirting with her guy friends!. And if she gets defensive and says something like "I'm not flirting with them, they are just my friends!" then tell her that you're sorry you thought that, but that's just how it looks to you!. Maybe she'll rethink how she acts with them!. Good luck! And just be honest with her about how you feel, I'm sure if she knew it was bothering you, she wouldn't be intentionally hurting you're feelings like that!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have the same problem with my boyfriend and I hate it, but you just have to tell her that you don't like how she is acting and perhaps she will stop!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to sit your GF down and tell her how you feel!. Without her knowing what's going on inside your head, she's NEVER going to know that it bothers you or that she should stop it, or why you're always pissed off!.
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Tell her that it hurts your feelings, don't argue, or get mad, just be honest with her!. She might not even realize shes doing it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you should just talk to her about it n tell her how u feel n that its bothering u a lil bitWww@Answer-Health@Com
Just tell your gf that your not happy; That she's spending more time with her guy friends than you, but tell her in a nice and calm way though; Don't go at her in a bad, mean, or nasty way because some guys and girls can do that!. You're not really sure if she's cheating on you on you or not, but don't assume either!. In the end, She's your gf and she should spend time with you and not her guy friends!. Her guy friends aren't really all that respectful if their flirting with her too; They should have more respect for you and her if they know you guys are dating!. She should have the most respect for you and her too; See if I had a man, I wouldn't dare do that to him!. Don't question her in the middle of friends either; That's you guys bussiness; Pull her to the side after school or something!. If she doesn't like what your saying; Psshhh!.!.!.Be gone than!Www@Answer-Health@Com