I saw a penis, and it freaked me out?!
Question: I saw a penis, and it freaked me out!?
My close male friend and I!.!.we were in my bed playing with his psp!.!.!.Then he had a b0n3r and I started making fun of him!.!.!.Then after a while he just flashed his penis at me!.!.!.!.
We both laughed!.!.!.and I was like "WHOA!.!.KEEP THAT AWAY BUDDY"
However I was scared shitless when I saw that thing resting like on his lower belly!.!.It was long!.!.!.and THICK! ugh
Before you worry!.!.I'm almost 19 (I'm not some 12 year old or anything)but I never had a bf!.!.!.I'm still a virgin BUT I have seen di^ks before like in pictures and porn videos *shh* but that was the first erect penis I have seen!. And it really scared me!.
Whats shocking for me, is the fact that I have imagined myself-sooo many times being with my first bf and when the time came to have sex I would be ready!.!.!.give him a hand job or something-like it was nothing!. But I truly doubt it now!.!.That thing was soo discusting and wierd looking!.!.I feel like I'm scarred for life!.!.how do I expect to ever unlock my inner fantasies when I'm fricking intimidated by a penis!?!!!!
I know I must sound immature!.!.But I don't know what to think!. I don't mean to offend guys!.!.I know vaginas aren't really the most attractive thing out there!.!.But still!.!.penises are like!.!.!. all out there!. And wierd-now I can't imagine myself ever touching or even putting my mouth on that for that matter!.
What I'm feeling, is this normal!? Are there any girls out there that have felt like this before!? Will this pass!? GUys!.!.do you think I'm wierd!?
Please people!.!.word of advise!.!.anybody!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
We both laughed!.!.!.and I was like "WHOA!.!.KEEP THAT AWAY BUDDY"
However I was scared shitless when I saw that thing resting like on his lower belly!.!.It was long!.!.!.and THICK! ugh
Before you worry!.!.I'm almost 19 (I'm not some 12 year old or anything)but I never had a bf!.!.!.I'm still a virgin BUT I have seen di^ks before like in pictures and porn videos *shh* but that was the first erect penis I have seen!. And it really scared me!.
Whats shocking for me, is the fact that I have imagined myself-sooo many times being with my first bf and when the time came to have sex I would be ready!.!.!.give him a hand job or something-like it was nothing!. But I truly doubt it now!.!.That thing was soo discusting and wierd looking!.!.I feel like I'm scarred for life!.!.how do I expect to ever unlock my inner fantasies when I'm fricking intimidated by a penis!?!!!!
I know I must sound immature!.!.But I don't know what to think!. I don't mean to offend guys!.!.I know vaginas aren't really the most attractive thing out there!.!.But still!.!.penises are like!.!.!. all out there!. And wierd-now I can't imagine myself ever touching or even putting my mouth on that for that matter!.
What I'm feeling, is this normal!? Are there any girls out there that have felt like this before!? Will this pass!? GUys!.!.do you think I'm wierd!?
Please people!.!.word of advise!.!.anybody!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Well, to tell the truth, an erect penis is quite a sight!. You are not alone in feeling this!. It looks weird, and it moves strangely, and it doesn't seem possible that it can be good!.
However, never say never!. When you and your partner are ready to have sex, have patience with yourself and with him!. Take it slow!. Touch it gently!. Do some exploring!. When you are ready!.
When the moment comes, that weird looking thing can give you a lot of pleasure!. Don't be intimidated by it!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
However, never say never!. When you and your partner are ready to have sex, have patience with yourself and with him!. Take it slow!. Touch it gently!. Do some exploring!. When you are ready!.
When the moment comes, that weird looking thing can give you a lot of pleasure!. Don't be intimidated by it!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
a lot of girls don't feel comfortable around them - i'm one of those girls!. it's completely normal!. it's just like getting used to anything new and unknown!. eventually with experience it will go away!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
At first, yea I did think it looked weird!. I didn't want to even go near my ex boyfriend's penis!. Only touched it like!.!. twice!. But with my current boyfriend!.!.!. I dunno!. I guess I got over it!. I think it looks pretty, lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
when i first saw my first penis lol
i was scared of it and didnt want anything to do with it actually!.
but its just something to get used to i guess!.
im fine now!.
hell im pregnant!.
hahaWww@Answer-Health@Com
i was scared of it and didnt want anything to do with it actually!.
but its just something to get used to i guess!.
im fine now!.
hell im pregnant!.
hahaWww@Answer-Health@Com
Its not that weird!. And honestly, maybe he did have an enormous ugly penis!. Its either something you will become used to with exposure or you won't!. Time will tell!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do all men a great favor, and stay away from them!.
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maybe if you got a close look at it you would not be so scared of it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
don't worry!.!.!.i feel the same way!. i don't think i'll get over it but u probably willWww@Answer-Health@Com
I dont know that I'd call you weird but to me it sounds like your friend wanted a piece (of you)!. I dont really know how to tell you to get over your fear of penis it's understandable for a virgin I guess, but its something you have to overcome unless of course you are gay!. It wont bite its totally normal and at the end of the day every guy has one get used to it!. For the record I dont think vagina's are ugly in fact I love them lol!. if you have some attraction towards your friend obviously he has some for you maybe you two should hook up and experiment!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Aww!.!.!.honey it's ok!. Really!.!.!.!.!.
First of all, you weren't quite expecting this!.!.!.trust me, all of us jump when a guy randomly brings it out!. :p
Everyone is akward at first!. It's NORMAL! Anyone who says otherwise was either drunk their first time or fibbing!. The first time anyone gets naked with a guy it's just!.!.!.!.!. weird!. It's a new thing you've never done before!. Think of how you felt on the first day of kindergarden or the first time you drove on the highway!? New things scare people until we're used to them!.
You're not immature!. It's totally different to see a picture of someone you don't know, and think of sex as an abstract concept than it is to see it up close and realize it's no longer abstract, you know him, and "it" could be happening right now!.
There's nothing gross about penis or vanigas!. They're kinda attached ya know!? Like your mouth (full of germs and bacteria) or your toenails!.!.!.!.!. :p Just take things slow - don't do anything until you feel ready!. I'm sure your b/f will understand (if he doens't, time for a new one!) !. Don't be scared!.!.!.!. just go slow, and one step at a time!. Most people start with kissing/making out!.!.!.then being naked!.!.!.then oral sex!.!.!.!.!. there are steps involved ya know!? It's not like any (reasonable) guy would expect you to jump into bed, be ready to go and have sex with him before you're both comfortable making out!.!.!.
Just calm down!. Like I said, most people are a little freaked at some point!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
First of all, you weren't quite expecting this!.!.!.trust me, all of us jump when a guy randomly brings it out!. :p
Everyone is akward at first!. It's NORMAL! Anyone who says otherwise was either drunk their first time or fibbing!. The first time anyone gets naked with a guy it's just!.!.!.!.!. weird!. It's a new thing you've never done before!. Think of how you felt on the first day of kindergarden or the first time you drove on the highway!? New things scare people until we're used to them!.
You're not immature!. It's totally different to see a picture of someone you don't know, and think of sex as an abstract concept than it is to see it up close and realize it's no longer abstract, you know him, and "it" could be happening right now!.
There's nothing gross about penis or vanigas!. They're kinda attached ya know!? Like your mouth (full of germs and bacteria) or your toenails!.!.!.!.!. :p Just take things slow - don't do anything until you feel ready!. I'm sure your b/f will understand (if he doens't, time for a new one!) !. Don't be scared!.!.!.!. just go slow, and one step at a time!. Most people start with kissing/making out!.!.!.then being naked!.!.!.then oral sex!.!.!.!.!. there are steps involved ya know!? It's not like any (reasonable) guy would expect you to jump into bed, be ready to go and have sex with him before you're both comfortable making out!.!.!.
Just calm down!. Like I said, most people are a little freaked at some point!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
hehehe!.!.!. You remind me of myself as a teenager!. I remember seeing an erect penis for the first time, and it was huge, like a horse, and I remember my eyeballs bugging out like nobody's business, I was thinking, "Holy Sh*t!!!" And I remember, I was not a virgin, it was like my second time doing it, but I had never actually seen "it" before!. It still hurt alot at first, but he was gentle and did alot of foreplay, and then after a few minutes it was nice!.!.!. After that, seeing a penis was not a big deal!. I got over it!.!.!.
It sounds like your friend thinks of you as a little more than a friend!. Maybe you should consider him in this way, too!. Seems as though you are pretty comfortable with him, enough to lounge around in bed together playing video games!. Maybe he doesn't fit your image as a perfect boyfriend, but then again, nobody ever will be the perfect boyfriend!. Maybe he might be just what you want and need, you just don't know it yet!.!.!.!. Maybe it was not too polite to show you his hard penis, but maybe that was his way of telling you that he wants you!.
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It sounds like your friend thinks of you as a little more than a friend!. Maybe you should consider him in this way, too!. Seems as though you are pretty comfortable with him, enough to lounge around in bed together playing video games!. Maybe he doesn't fit your image as a perfect boyfriend, but then again, nobody ever will be the perfect boyfriend!. Maybe he might be just what you want and need, you just don't know it yet!.!.!.!. Maybe it was not too polite to show you his hard penis, but maybe that was his way of telling you that he wants you!.
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I have to laugh, not at you but you remind me of!.!. well me!. I have now been with my boyfriend for 5 years, I've been with guys before him!.!.!. 2 others and I've never seen one before and It scared the heck out of me too!. Don't look at it and you don't have to do anything you don't want too!. Also if your too freaked out about it, maybe its not time for sex!? I mean you'll be more comfortable with it once your with someone for a while!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
First thing, you are NOT Weird! This may be normal for some girls, They think its ok when they see a pic or a porn video, but in real life they find it weird!
Second, maybe it's because you don't have feelings for him! He's just a friend and you don't feel that way!
Third, if you find someone and you love him, you would do anything to make him happy! So maybe you wouldn't be scared of his, but if you still are then tell him about it! I'm sure he will comfort you and tell you it's ok! ( if he is a kinda guy like that)
But I would also tell your friend that what he did offended you and that you would not want to see that again!
I hope what I said made sense!
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Second, maybe it's because you don't have feelings for him! He's just a friend and you don't feel that way!
Third, if you find someone and you love him, you would do anything to make him happy! So maybe you wouldn't be scared of his, but if you still are then tell him about it! I'm sure he will comfort you and tell you it's ok! ( if he is a kinda guy like that)
But I would also tell your friend that what he did offended you and that you would not want to see that again!
I hope what I said made sense!
I am sure it will pass! Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think U r not weird!.Regardless wether or not what u will do wrong!. It happened coz u dont have an experience yet!. Why did I say wrong!? Cos, in my culture and religion there are strict rule, that is, people who want to make love must be married first!. People who make love without being tied by marriage is like animal!. So I suggest that U must marry first before going to make love!. After marrying U can, step by step, do that experience!.Www@Answer-Health@Com