Am I wrong to dump my friends that have STI's?!
Question: Am I wrong to dump my friends that have STI's!?
People with STI's make me feel sick and I cant bear to be anywhere near them, so when 2 of my friends confided in me that they had contracted an STI, they were history!.!.!.!.don't get me wrong!.!.!.I drove one of them to a clinic, ( I covered the passenger seat of my car with polythene) and waited with her for three hours while she had her gross genital warts seen to!. But afterwards I told her I wanted nothing more to do with her!.
I firmly believe there is no reason now for anybody to catch an STI unless they're very promiscuous and don't use protection!.
I would have to emigrate if I contracted an STI!.!.!.but there is little chance of that!. My boyfriend knows if he cheated, there would be consequences Www@Answer-Health@Com
I firmly believe there is no reason now for anybody to catch an STI unless they're very promiscuous and don't use protection!.
I would have to emigrate if I contracted an STI!.!.!.but there is little chance of that!. My boyfriend knows if he cheated, there would be consequences Www@Answer-Health@Com
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You sound incredibly immature and I'd be embarrassed to know you!.
Your boyfriend could cheat on you one time and give you herpes, HIV, HPV (the virus that causes genital warts AND cervical cancer), etc!. It only takes once!.
Did you know:
- Unless a man displays warts, you have no idea whether he's HPV free!. Why!? There is no male test for HPV!. In a monogomous relationship, the man can give the woman HPV and it could lead to cancer!.
- Condoms do not always protect against HPV or herpes!.
- Almost 1/4 of all women have at least one strain of HPV by the time they are in their 50s!.
- The American Cancer Society estimates that in 2008 about 3,870 US women will die from cervical cancer caused by HPV!.
One time is all it takes!. And condoms can't necessarily save you!. If your boyfriend wants to cheat, he'll cheat!. No matter the consequences!. Men with everything to lose STILL cheat on their wives!. You're not special!.
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Your boyfriend could cheat on you one time and give you herpes, HIV, HPV (the virus that causes genital warts AND cervical cancer), etc!. It only takes once!.
Did you know:
- Unless a man displays warts, you have no idea whether he's HPV free!. Why!? There is no male test for HPV!. In a monogomous relationship, the man can give the woman HPV and it could lead to cancer!.
- Condoms do not always protect against HPV or herpes!.
- Almost 1/4 of all women have at least one strain of HPV by the time they are in their 50s!.
- The American Cancer Society estimates that in 2008 about 3,870 US women will die from cervical cancer caused by HPV!.
One time is all it takes!. And condoms can't necessarily save you!. If your boyfriend wants to cheat, he'll cheat!. No matter the consequences!. Men with everything to lose STILL cheat on their wives!. You're not special!.
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It's a personal choice!. It is difficult to have friends with different values!.
However, condoms are not 100% effective in preventing STIs!. Especially with genital warts you can contract them from just skin to skin contact!. Just because you have an STI doesn't mean you are necessarily promiscuous!.
Just bare in mind if a friend of yours trusts you enough for them to confide in you about something so shameful, they must really look up to you!.
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However, condoms are not 100% effective in preventing STIs!. Especially with genital warts you can contract them from just skin to skin contact!. Just because you have an STI doesn't mean you are necessarily promiscuous!.
Just bare in mind if a friend of yours trusts you enough for them to confide in you about something so shameful, they must really look up to you!.
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It is so sad that all these young people get these STD's!.
You can't catch genital warts off the car seat you have to have unprotected sex!.
You are probably like me do not really know much about these things!. I think you are being a bit harsh on your friends!. That is your prerogative of course!. It is no use being friends with them if you feel like that!. Perhaps the person only had sex once, it is that easy to get a STD!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can't catch genital warts off the car seat you have to have unprotected sex!.
You are probably like me do not really know much about these things!. I think you are being a bit harsh on your friends!. That is your prerogative of course!. It is no use being friends with them if you feel like that!. Perhaps the person only had sex once, it is that easy to get a STD!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
People don't choose to have an STI - and sometimes it's out of their control, for instance, if a partner did not tell them they had one before having sex with a person!. I do believe it was a little unfair of you to ditch your friends, but if that's how you really feel about them then they may be better off without you by their side!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I personally wouldn't dump my friends as they most likely need support through their treatment!.
you also seem naive, "I covered the passenger seat of my car with polythene" It's very rare to catch an STI without intercourse, and no protection is 100% protective
just food for thought what about those who get STI's through rape, abuse or medical staff who contract them through needle sticks ect!.
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you also seem naive, "I covered the passenger seat of my car with polythene" It's very rare to catch an STI without intercourse, and no protection is 100% protective
just food for thought what about those who get STI's through rape, abuse or medical staff who contract them through needle sticks ect!.
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Yes it is wrong, your friend is not the STI, she is not the disease!. You sound completely obsessive and paranoid
"!.!.!.I drove one of them to a clinic, ( I covered the passenger seat of my car with polythene) and waited with her for three hours while she had her gross genital warts seen to" (!!)
Your being quite unnecessary! You also need some STI educating too!.
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"!.!.!.I drove one of them to a clinic, ( I covered the passenger seat of my car with polythene) and waited with her for three hours while she had her gross genital warts seen to" (!!)
Your being quite unnecessary! You also need some STI educating too!.
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No!.
Because you will be saving them from a horrible person!. You can have your morals, but decent people don't dump there friends because they have a infection!.
Also, what if your boyfriend went out with a girl before you, didn't use a condom, didn't tell you, and then your condom split and you got something!? Or you were raped!? you could get an STI!.
Grow up love!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Because you will be saving them from a horrible person!. You can have your morals, but decent people don't dump there friends because they have a infection!.
Also, what if your boyfriend went out with a girl before you, didn't use a condom, didn't tell you, and then your condom split and you got something!? Or you were raped!? you could get an STI!.
Grow up love!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Anyone can get an STI even WITH protection, you must be really dumb as both a friend and in sexual education!.!.!.they're better off without you!.
If you have any guts at all show them your true colours by showing them what you wrote here on YA!.
You're right there will be consequences and for you it'll be you on your own without a boyfriend, or pals living in your own ignorance!.
Well Done schmuck!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you have any guts at all show them your true colours by showing them what you wrote here on YA!.
You're right there will be consequences and for you it'll be you on your own without a boyfriend, or pals living in your own ignorance!.
Well Done schmuck!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Are you sleeping with these friends with STI's!? If not, then there is no need to dump them, they are not going to pass on any infections to you by being your friend!. Let them learn from their mistakes!. It sounds like there must be more to it than just them having an STI, you're just using that as an excuse to stop talking to them!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, yes and no!. It's wrong to be that judgemental of your friends, but at the same time you didn't really know the "real them" before this happened!. I wouldn't want to be friends with "promiscuous" types either!. I guess they just hid it really well!? haha You have to remember though, if they are your reallly good friends, you're supposed to be there for them and hey, maybe they just made one mistake!?
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Short answer!.!.!. yes!. yes you are wrong!. Very very wrong!.
Gee how judgemental are you!?!?!?!? I wouldnt like to have a friend like you - having an STI is embarrassing enough without your friends ditching you!.
You can get an STI from having sex once - condoms break you know!. And some can be passed from person to person even with condoms!.
I hope one day you have an embarrassing medical condition so that you can see that judging other people for something that they can't help is wrong!.
My god!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Gee how judgemental are you!?!?!?!? I wouldnt like to have a friend like you - having an STI is embarrassing enough without your friends ditching you!.
You can get an STI from having sex once - condoms break you know!. And some can be passed from person to person even with condoms!.
I hope one day you have an embarrassing medical condition so that you can see that judging other people for something that they can't help is wrong!.
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yes you are wrong - STIs are not contagious (unless with sexual conatct obviously), but i guess you re not sexual with them!.
everybody makes mistakes ! maybe even you will one day!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
everybody makes mistakes ! maybe even you will one day!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
yea its wrong!. you are just a ***** then!.
they confided in you and you turn them away like they are a piece of trash!. i hope that karma bites you in the *** and you end up just like them!Www@Answer-Health@Com
they confided in you and you turn them away like they are a piece of trash!. i hope that karma bites you in the *** and you end up just like them!Www@Answer-Health@Com
you are seriously out of order i think you should sort out your proritys mate, if somebody has a std it doesnt make them any more less than a person, thery are still the same friend i think you need to get realWww@Answer-Health@Com
you obviously havent been taught about sex and sexual health omg you sound so ignorant your friends are better off dumping you smh i feel sry for you i just want my 2 point and what and easy 2 points this was thanksWww@Answer-Health@Com
LOL thts pretty harsh
wats wrong with that neway, as long as they dont go sleeping with, nd giving it to you, why u so worried bout it!?!
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wats wrong with that neway, as long as they dont go sleeping with, nd giving it to you, why u so worried bout it!?!
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It must be wonderful being so perfect!. I am surprised you have any friends! Maybe they are your disciples!? Can you walk on water!? Www@Answer-Health@Com
Karma is going to come bite you in the *** one day!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
You either have extreme OCD and need some professional help, or are making this up!.
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Sweety thats means!.!.!.If you were in their shoes how would you feel if they said I cant be your friend anymore because you have a disease!.!.!.Thats so mean how could you do that!.!.You truly are a horrid person!.!.!.GOSHHWww@Answer-Health@Com
u sound like a ***** honestly
if u had a STI would u like it if they did that to u !?
put urself in there shoes
ur not a true freind u dont just drop freinds like that
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if u had a STI would u like it if they did that to u !?
put urself in there shoes
ur not a true freind u dont just drop freinds like that
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wow that is soooo greedy and self centered of you if they were your true friends it shouldn't matter what they have!. That is soooooo wrong dude!Www@Answer-Health@Com
you're a bad person!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
are you for real!? thats so narrow mindedWww@Answer-Health@Com
I bet they only said they had sti's just to get rid of you as a "friend" You sound horrible!Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you're that stuck up I wouldn't want to be your friend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can catch a STI without being promiscuous or not using protection!. All it takes is 1 time, you could lose your virginity and get an STI, just like with pregnancy!.!.you can get pregnant your first time or even while the male wears a condom!. I honestly think that that is wrong!. They are your friends and you should be more sensitive to them!. If they told you that they think they have an STI they must be very close to you and think that you are a really good friend!. They trust you!. And although it is good that you took them to the clinic I still think it is wrong they you "dump" them because of something they could not control!. They could have not had sex at all, but they didn't know the person had a disease did they!? It's not their fault!. I feel bad for your friend tbh!. She came to you for help and support and yet you helped her, you want nothing to do with her!. That's not how a friend should be!. :/Www@Answer-Health@Com