GIRL HELP. SEX QUESTION!?!
Question: GIRL HELP!. SEX QUESTION!!?
So, my bf and I have been having sex for awhile now and have joked about trying anal!.!.!.I don't really know how I feel about it!. Sometimes the thought grosses me out and sometimes I wonder what it might be like!? If you've tried it, tell me what it was like!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I have tried it with a small penis and a large penis!. It is easier with a small penis but overal same feeling!.
You really need to relax your anus!. Your anal spincter (spelling wrong I think) is the harder part to get the penis threw!. The way you relax your anus will be to open it up a little, like if you were having a bowel movement but without bearing down!. Then he can enter you!. You can use lubricant or saliva!. Either how its good!.
The best position would be laying on the side and he can stand on the side of the bed entering u!. Once you get use to the feeling and his penis size!. Then you can move to doggy!. I say this because doggy puts pressure on your anus and vagina, it shortens a little so that can make your anus tighten while he's inside and that can hurt a lot!. *ALWAYS* You direct his penis, you hold it and you put it in SLOWLY!.
Now to the feeling!. I will be very blunt!. It litteraly feels like your having a bowel movement but insted of coming out!. Its going in and out!. After a while it will get pleasurable, but depends on the girl!. It doesn't smell like poop and he doesn't get your poop on his penis!. Unless u just had a bowel movement!. Its recomended to have anal sex 1 hour after a bowel movement, not b4!.
Its always ok to try I think!. If your curious to try!. Why not, but if u don't want to its ok too!. Some guys love it, some guys hate it!. It will be and enjoyable expirience for you both!.
Good luck and have fun!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You really need to relax your anus!. Your anal spincter (spelling wrong I think) is the harder part to get the penis threw!. The way you relax your anus will be to open it up a little, like if you were having a bowel movement but without bearing down!. Then he can enter you!. You can use lubricant or saliva!. Either how its good!.
The best position would be laying on the side and he can stand on the side of the bed entering u!. Once you get use to the feeling and his penis size!. Then you can move to doggy!. I say this because doggy puts pressure on your anus and vagina, it shortens a little so that can make your anus tighten while he's inside and that can hurt a lot!. *ALWAYS* You direct his penis, you hold it and you put it in SLOWLY!.
Now to the feeling!. I will be very blunt!. It litteraly feels like your having a bowel movement but insted of coming out!. Its going in and out!. After a while it will get pleasurable, but depends on the girl!. It doesn't smell like poop and he doesn't get your poop on his penis!. Unless u just had a bowel movement!. Its recomended to have anal sex 1 hour after a bowel movement, not b4!.
Its always ok to try I think!. If your curious to try!. Why not, but if u don't want to its ok too!. Some guys love it, some guys hate it!. It will be and enjoyable expirience for you both!.
Good luck and have fun!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I haven't done it, but I just thought I'd put in my two cents!.
Don't let him pressure you into it!. Only do it if you really want to!.
If you do decide to do it, wear a condom!. Use LOTS of lube!. No excuses!. Unlike your vagina, your rectum does not lubricate itself, and you don't want to tear anything!. And take off the condom before having vaginal or oral sex, because you will be spreading bacteria from your rectum!.
You probably don't want him doing the work the first time!. You should be the one thrusting, so you can control the situation, that should make it more comfortable for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't let him pressure you into it!. Only do it if you really want to!.
If you do decide to do it, wear a condom!. Use LOTS of lube!. No excuses!. Unlike your vagina, your rectum does not lubricate itself, and you don't want to tear anything!. And take off the condom before having vaginal or oral sex, because you will be spreading bacteria from your rectum!.
You probably don't want him doing the work the first time!. You should be the one thrusting, so you can control the situation, that should make it more comfortable for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't do it!! It's gross and it's NOT normal!.!. even though it seems like a lot of people do it now a days, what seems popular isn't always right or enjoyable (at least not fun for you)!. Plus, it's degrading to women, and you might feel ashamed after doing that!.
He might lose respect for you after doing something like that, like now that you allowed yourself to be degraded, he could feel like he can slap you around or something!.
For the record, I have NOT done it, so I can't tell you if it's enjoyable or not, sorry!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He might lose respect for you after doing something like that, like now that you allowed yourself to be degraded, he could feel like he can slap you around or something!.
For the record, I have NOT done it, so I can't tell you if it's enjoyable or not, sorry!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have tried it!. I personally hated the feeling!. Even after it stopped hurting, it felt really disgusting to me!. Don't mean to sound graphic here!.!.!. but think about taking a never ending "number 2" in the bathroom!.!.!. Yuck! But that's just me!. Some girls do like it!. Personally, I wouldn't ever suggest doing it!. If you are, you lots of lube, go easy and slow!. Never go from anal to vaginal or you can get infections!. You must change the condom if you are going to switch over!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I agree with the above poster - DO NOT let your bf pressure you into it!. I have done anal sex and I quite enjoy it!. Fact is, there IS a right way and a wrong way to do it!. Do a little research on the right and wrong ways and make sure your relaxed!. The first time is rather painful at first, but it doesnt last long so long as you stay relaxed!Www@Answer-Health@Com
IF you will be his first girl doing this and you love him enough to try this out with him then why not!? go for it!.!. it can be painful at first but when you learn how to relax yourself and anus the pain feeling will turn into pleasureable one!. its not grossed for people who love each other and want to explore new things!. dont mind others whose grosing out of this!.!. thats their opinion!. you should know what you want!. goodluck and oh dont forget to put a lot of lubricants so you wont feel so tight and makes the pain lesser!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Why tell you, do it and find out for your self!. Www@Answer-Health@Com