How come I never have an orgasm?!
Question: How come I never have an orgasm!?
My partner and I have sex intercouse twice a week but I never had an orgasm!. What could be possibly wrong!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I use to have this same problem try doing other positions other than the ones you use he might not be hitting your "spot" if that doesn't work maybe talk to a doctor about it!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
All women are different!. I have NEVER been able to achieve an orgasm through penetritive sex/sexual intercourse with my boyfriend (he's my first and only sexual partner by the way), as much as we've tried, even with him prolonging his orgasm!. I really wish I could because I would LOVE to orgasm while he's inside of me, even better were we to do it the exact same time!. I hope it will happen!. However, I have an orgasm through other means!. Sorry to get graphic or explicit but it works for me through him going down on me and using his fingers to stimulate inside me!. It works like a charm and feels wonderful!. Perhaps ask your partner to perform oral sex on you!.
You will find a way to achieve one - although I must say I've heard that some women NEVER get to experience them in their lifetimes :(!. If nothing works with you and your partner in the bedroom, then consider seeing a sex therapist or someone who can help you!. Also, make sure that when you're about to have an intimate moment, you're completely relaxed and turned on too!. So get going with some foreplay beforehand :)
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You will find a way to achieve one - although I must say I've heard that some women NEVER get to experience them in their lifetimes :(!. If nothing works with you and your partner in the bedroom, then consider seeing a sex therapist or someone who can help you!. Also, make sure that when you're about to have an intimate moment, you're completely relaxed and turned on too!. So get going with some foreplay beforehand :)
Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try this and see if you like it, it will help you know the feeling, and learn to know your body:
Make yourself very very comfortable, take a hot bath or something, then go to your bed, or other nice place!. Start massaging yourself, stimulate your clit!. you can already reach an orgasm this way!. If you want to, please do, after that, insert your finger, and inside your vagina, curl it upwards, so that the top of your finger pushed upwards in your belly!. Feel around a bit there, and you will find your g-spot!. Stimulate this spot until you feel like you have to pee!. Never mind that feeling, and just continue!. The orgasm you will reach then (especially if it is your second), will be much intenser, and can even cause you to ejaculate!. If you want to go even further, then use the moist from your vagina, and stroke the small place between your vagina and anus (perineum)!. If you dare trying this, most women enjoy this really alot, once they put aside their fears for it: stroke your wet finger around your anus, going more and more towards the middle!. Then, when you feel like it is the right time, gently push it in!. Very gently, very slowly, very carefully!. If you feel like it, you can combine it with vaginal or clitoral stimulation for extreme pleasure!.
You should try to get past the peeing feeling!. I know you are afraid, and are holding it all up, because you do not want to pee at that time!. But you should just relax, go with the flow, totally relax, and play!. Then, you will come, and ejaculate!. It will perhaps even feel like peeing, and fluids will come, but it is not pee, I promise you! And most of all, you will have had an orgams that you will never again forget!.!.!.
I noticed btw that ejaculation orgasms are seldom the first, first is a normal orgasm, then slow down a bit, but do not stop, and gradually increase stimulation, then you will reach a "higher" orgasm!.
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Make yourself very very comfortable, take a hot bath or something, then go to your bed, or other nice place!. Start massaging yourself, stimulate your clit!. you can already reach an orgasm this way!. If you want to, please do, after that, insert your finger, and inside your vagina, curl it upwards, so that the top of your finger pushed upwards in your belly!. Feel around a bit there, and you will find your g-spot!. Stimulate this spot until you feel like you have to pee!. Never mind that feeling, and just continue!. The orgasm you will reach then (especially if it is your second), will be much intenser, and can even cause you to ejaculate!. If you want to go even further, then use the moist from your vagina, and stroke the small place between your vagina and anus (perineum)!. If you dare trying this, most women enjoy this really alot, once they put aside their fears for it: stroke your wet finger around your anus, going more and more towards the middle!. Then, when you feel like it is the right time, gently push it in!. Very gently, very slowly, very carefully!. If you feel like it, you can combine it with vaginal or clitoral stimulation for extreme pleasure!.
You should try to get past the peeing feeling!. I know you are afraid, and are holding it all up, because you do not want to pee at that time!. But you should just relax, go with the flow, totally relax, and play!. Then, you will come, and ejaculate!. It will perhaps even feel like peeing, and fluids will come, but it is not pee, I promise you! And most of all, you will have had an orgams that you will never again forget!.!.!.
I noticed btw that ejaculation orgasms are seldom the first, first is a normal orgasm, then slow down a bit, but do not stop, and gradually increase stimulation, then you will reach a "higher" orgasm!.
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Vaginal intercourse alone doesn't do it for very many women: the clitoris - not the vagina - is the centre of sexual feeling in a woman's body!.
If you know how to orgasm alone, you just have to incorporate the things that get you there into your lovemaking with your man!.!.!. and if you don't have orgasms alone, now's the time to learn!.
Masturbation is having sex with the only person you'll ever meet who knows *exactly* what you feel and what you like, even if that changes every second!.
One thing you can do to find out is check out these webpages:
http://www!.clitical!.com/female-masturbat!.!.!.
http://www!.clitical!.com/female-masturbat!.!.!.
Read the pages all the way through, and try some of the things suggested!. Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels best for you!.!.!. it's fun!. Sooner or later, you'll have an orgasm, and they get better each time if you're one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again!.
It can take anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach orgasm!.!.!. both of these are unusual but normal, and anything in between is just fine!.
Just before orgasm, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it's not quite the same, and when your orgasm first happens, there'll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your vagina and then through your whole lower body!. Then very quickly your clitoris, your vagina, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you!.
During all this, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can't really control!. You might "squirt" or "ejaculate" a lot of fluid from your urethra (don't worry, it's not pee)!. The whole time, it's just about the best feeling there is!.
(Everything you "might" feel or do above isn't always going to happen!.!.!. some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable!.)
As that feeling becomes more gentle and starts to go away (after maybe 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will begin to relax, your skin will flush pinker (especially over your chest) and you might feel sort of like having a nap!.!.!. or like just lying there and letting your mind drift!.!.!. or even like doing it again (and again!.!.!. etc) right away!.
It's not often, but it might happen that there'll be no interruption at all between orgasms, and it can feel like one single orgasm that lasts anywhere from 30 or 40 seconds to several minutes!.
Have fun and don't worry!. Masturbating is normal and healthy, and learning what pleases you sexually is good for you!.!.!. especially because you'll know what to tell (better yet, to show) your man about how to please you when you have sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you know how to orgasm alone, you just have to incorporate the things that get you there into your lovemaking with your man!.!.!. and if you don't have orgasms alone, now's the time to learn!.
Masturbation is having sex with the only person you'll ever meet who knows *exactly* what you feel and what you like, even if that changes every second!.
One thing you can do to find out is check out these webpages:
http://www!.clitical!.com/female-masturbat!.!.!.
http://www!.clitical!.com/female-masturbat!.!.!.
Read the pages all the way through, and try some of the things suggested!. Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels best for you!.!.!. it's fun!. Sooner or later, you'll have an orgasm, and they get better each time if you're one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again!.
It can take anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to reach orgasm!.!.!. both of these are unusual but normal, and anything in between is just fine!.
Just before orgasm, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it's not quite the same, and when your orgasm first happens, there'll be a very strong (sometimes intense and *powerful*), warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your vagina and then through your whole lower body!. Then very quickly your clitoris, your vagina, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you!.
During all this, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can't really control!. You might "squirt" or "ejaculate" a lot of fluid from your urethra (don't worry, it's not pee)!. The whole time, it's just about the best feeling there is!.
(Everything you "might" feel or do above isn't always going to happen!.!.!. some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just *very* pleasureable!.)
As that feeling becomes more gentle and starts to go away (after maybe 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will begin to relax, your skin will flush pinker (especially over your chest) and you might feel sort of like having a nap!.!.!. or like just lying there and letting your mind drift!.!.!. or even like doing it again (and again!.!.!. etc) right away!.
It's not often, but it might happen that there'll be no interruption at all between orgasms, and it can feel like one single orgasm that lasts anywhere from 30 or 40 seconds to several minutes!.
Have fun and don't worry!. Masturbating is normal and healthy, and learning what pleases you sexually is good for you!.!.!. especially because you'll know what to tell (better yet, to show) your man about how to please you when you have sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Have you ever tried stimulating the clitoris instead of just penile penetration!? 1/4 of women can not have an orgasm just by regular sex! I know, because I am one of them and thought I was unable to until my bf suddenly happened to hit the right spot!.
Have you ever had an orgasm at all!? You need to communicated with him and let him know you guys need to try something different!. I finally let my bf know after faking it for half a year, and BAM! hehe!.
You really have to experiment, because everyone is different!. It's hard to explain, but google around and you'll see LOTS of info on it! I never knew that I wasn't alone, I thought I was like a defect!.
PS it helps if you're extra aroused!.!.your clitoris is supposed to swell up and he should gently lick it in a figure 8, different patterns, find out which one works best for you!. It helps to have sex first before he licks it because it always makes it swell first!. We actually got a mini vibrator and through practice and my suggestions, he does it PERFECT every damn time!
Read here for more info! http://womenshealth!.about!.com/cs/sexuali!.!.!.
There's a lot more to it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Have you ever had an orgasm at all!? You need to communicated with him and let him know you guys need to try something different!. I finally let my bf know after faking it for half a year, and BAM! hehe!.
You really have to experiment, because everyone is different!. It's hard to explain, but google around and you'll see LOTS of info on it! I never knew that I wasn't alone, I thought I was like a defect!.
PS it helps if you're extra aroused!.!.your clitoris is supposed to swell up and he should gently lick it in a figure 8, different patterns, find out which one works best for you!. It helps to have sex first before he licks it because it always makes it swell first!. We actually got a mini vibrator and through practice and my suggestions, he does it PERFECT every damn time!
Read here for more info! http://womenshealth!.about!.com/cs/sexuali!.!.!.
There's a lot more to it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
1 Did you have bad sexual experiences this can effect it!. 2 Maybe you don't love the guy!. I only had one girlfriend that had that problem and I found out later she had been abused!. 3 Try relaxing as much as possible light some candles or something!. Good luck If you still cant figure it out I am always looking to donate my time for good causes, lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
I had the same problem, never could have an orgasm with a partner!. However me and my vibrator, that's a different matter!! Get one and experiment by yourself, then you can let your partner know what you like and maybe he will listen!. (Mine didn't)Www@Answer-Health@Com
lots of girls don't just by intercourse alone!. Try stimulation of the clit!. even better if he can do the 'wrap around' and stimulate you while having intercourse at the same time!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please try to read Masters and Johnsons' Human Sexual Response published in 1996!. It will tell you all the information you need to know to have satisfactory sex!.
Hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
http://www!.centerforfemalesexuality!.com/!.!.!.
this should help , hopefully!.
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this should help , hopefully!.
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well do you have one through masterbation!?
there are alot of reasons as to why thats the case!. he might not be doing it right, or you may just not have them properly!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
there are alot of reasons as to why thats the case!. he might not be doing it right, or you may just not have them properly!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Oral sex is the way!. You and your partner should explore your body and find your g spot!. Usually oral works way better then intercourse for a women!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it takes longer time for girls to reach their orgasm!.!.!. to achieve it,, you must masturbate while he made sex with you!.!.!. try it,, you'll enjoy better than the regular sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ma'am, i believe your lover suffers from "Infinitesimallis Peni"!.!. This is very serious, take him to the nearest plastic surgeon at once!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Funnily enough not everyone does have one!. Nothing peculiar at allWww@Answer-Health@Com
your not playing with ur clit at the same time are u!.!.!. its rare ull have an orgasm without thatWww@Answer-Health@Com