How cani forget??? PLZ HELP!!!?!
Question: How cani forget!?!?!? PLZ HELP!!!!?
Hi, well, when my mom was pregnant she thought she was only having one baby but when she delivered, we were conjoined twins, which nobody was expecting!. we were eventually sepparated but i really want to stop having the fact that we were once conjoined coming up!. like, i have no problems talking about it but i get annoyed when even my friends say its sooo weird!. like, when i think of my name (which sucks) Violet Hope, my mom only added hope cuzz we were given a 2% chance at survival!. Also, my sisters name is anabelle faith, which also reminds me even though we do go by our first name most of the time!. i have lots or siblings which often make me remember too!. (me, twin, arabella eve, josselyn nicole, skyler love, victoria michelle, and Jacob (jake) nicholas) now my moms pregnant with twin girls and thats just bringing it up more!. i have a scar accross my entire body reminding me of my past and it just doesnt stop!. i cant seem to blend in, is it really that weird!? btw, i hate my name sooo much, what do you think!? which name is best, put in order from best to worst!. thanx guys!!! =) Www@Answer-Health@Com
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You shouldn't want to forget that!. It is very important and you have a very important name!. They're are people who were born conjoined and have scars and some don't make it!. You and your sister are miracle children!. Don't forget something so special!. It happened for a reason!. Don't let it break you!. It only makes you stronger!. And you model!. That's wonderful!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
why would you want to forget!? that is a blessing if you ask me!. That you and your sister only had a 2% chance of survival!. I think you should just be greatful!. It shouldnt be something ur embarrassed of Www@Answer-Health@Com
sweetie you should really talk to your mom if you feel so strongly about this because this is an emotional thing that nobody on here can answer for you, it needs someone who really knows youWww@Answer-Health@Com
You need to stop complaining and realize how lucky you are that you and your sister are both alive right now!. You're names fineWww@Answer-Health@Com
its ok heather u will be fine!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i get ure scar issue that does suck but come on being a conjoined twin ure prettty damn special if u ask me and unique and also barely surving i also think violet is a beautiful name i feell bad that ure frends bring it up alot but its only because they are still in awe that they know someone who 1!.is a twin and 2 was a conjoined twin i am a twin and i notice that people give us more attention and ure so rite it getsss annnnoying people mentioning stuff because uve heard it since u were 3 but wow a conjoined twin thats awwwesome =]] i also think nicole, lisa, christiana and violeta are really prettty names but u should definitely kee p yours message if u want to talk i hope i helpedWww@Answer-Health@Com
First off, I like the name Violet!.!.!. but everyone hates their name at some point- mine is Stormie, and I hated it with a passion in Jr!. High!. Secondly, this isn't something you're going to be able to forget :( if it annoys you to talk about, maybe try talking to your friends/family about discussing other things!.!. if your friends are saying mean stuff, maybe its time to find some new amigas!. That would also allow you to hang out with people who don't know, if they don't know, how will they talk about it!.!. !? :) About the scar, you might want to talk to a doc about the scarring issue!.!.!. I don't think you can make it go completely away, but there are things that can lighten the appearance or diminish the appearance of scars!.!. talk to your doc and see what he says :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
You shouldn't want to forget!. I think it's a miracle that you and your sister survived!. The thing is that in school, kids think anyone who is different than them is weird!. When you're older, people will stop viewing you that way!. I know that's not a lot of help for you now, but it's the best I can tell you!. I can imagine that your mom being pregnant with twins would make you think about things, like maybe these twins will be "normal" and you couldn't be "normal"!. Guess what, normal is boring!. Just be yourself, thats way more fun anyway!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
well, i would stop trying to "fit in!." you are different and you have lived through a very unique experience!! I have a 16 inch scar down my back and i used to hate it, but i eventually grew to love it because it makes me different!. you all have different names, and i don't think one is better than another!. i think violet is a gorgeous name!. my name is kaylee and i used to HATE it because everyone mispronounces it (which to me i don't think it's that hard) but i grew to love it because it's not that common!. i think you are more insecure because you haven't really figured out who you are yet, but once you get over that you will realize that you don't want to blend in, because the people who blend in aren't that interesting!.Www@Answer-Health@Com