Am I freak for thinking about sex like this?!


Question: Am I freak for thinking about sex like this!?
I am almost 18 and haven't ever really had a boyfriend before!.!.!.!.so I haven't done anything!. Kissed once!. ONCE lol!. But, I know that my raging hormones are normal but I find myself thinking about it so much lately that I can't always take it!. In my mind I just wish my morality wasn't so important so I can have some! Is that bad to think and abnormal to think about it so much!?! I don't act upon my urges!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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No!.

Just do whatever you REALLY feel is right, and will make you feel happy in the long-term, whether it be abstaining from sex until you find the right guy, abstaining completely, or having sex like a trillion times a day!.

And remember, you are 18, you should not have to feel guilt about sexual urges, or participating in sex acts, so long as you are safe about it, and use a condom!. No one will judge you!.

And, I know this seems hard to accept as an absolute truth, but listen to EXACTLY what YOU want-your sex life is no one's business but your own!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Not at all it's human nature!. Here in the UK we're not as religious as you in the states, and as such I'd say 95% of people have had sex by the age of 18!. If you have religious beliefs or for whatever reason don't want to have sex yet that's fine, but you're bound to have urges!. The atheist would say it's natural, the Christian might say that it's hard but worth it; but neither would consider it abnormal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

same, im 17, kissed a girl once, could have done alot more but tht was it, i dont masturbate but i still get those urges, and u really must have a will power to just try to forget it and occupy urself with sumething else, i recommend masturbation, if its that bad but unless ur lose ull just gonna have to deal with, and its not neccissarily a bad thing in keeping to ur values, becasue then u have clearity and ur aim is true and ull get urself in alot less trouble by keeping them,Www@Answer-Health@Com

No, it's perfectly normal! I was almost 19 when I lost my virginity!. I didn't have my first bf until I was 18, and I wanted to wait until I knew it was with someone I loved!. But before we started dating I used to think the same thing!. My friends would have sex with anyone, where I wouldn't do that!. But my hormones were going crazy and I used to think, gosh I wish I was like them and just do it with someone!. But trust me, you will be glad you waited!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Your human and YOUR STILL A TEENAGER, of course your going to feel that way!. Its part of human nature!. It definitely isn't bad to think about it!. EVERYONE in their lives have over thought on the topic, i can guarantee you that!. So keep on thinking =D it wont hurt no1 and your definitely not a freak because of it!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

what are you talking about!? im a 21 year old guy and only kissed once too!. Yes i always wish i didnt want sex also!.!. i think about sex too much also and have to look at soooo much porn but even that is getting old!.!.!. what i do is just jack off as much as i can in the morning then im too tired to think about it during the rest of the day!.!.!. but i still wish i could **** somthing other than bottles and ****!.!.!. oh well! its life get used to itWww@Answer-Health@Com

No, it's not abnormal!.!.!. it's so normal you wouldn't believe it!. Acting upon your urges is *necessary*, but it should take the form of frequent masturbation if you're determined not to have sex yet!.!.!. and those thoughts of yours are perfectly suited to masturbating!.

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have you had nocturnal emissions!? wet dreams are not just for boys , i wake up with my vagina going haywire!? wet and throbbin it must be a hormone flucuation or something casue i was not dreaming about sex i just wake up with a sensation so i figure my body wants it so i just go PP and it stops smile Www@Answer-Health@Com

It is not abnormal at all!. Teenagers are supposed to be horny as hell!. Don't worry about that kind of stuff!. Worry more about your education (if you are in / planning to attend college) or focus on your job!.

The other stuff will come in time!. Until that time, you may as well do something productive!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Have SOME!?!?!? Wow!. you are SOOOO sexist!. You say you have Morality, well how do you think boys feel about being treated like sex objects!?!?!? Has the fact that men have rights ever occured to you!?!?!? Hmph!.
















Just kidding lol!.
We dudes like it when girls want to get some of our!.!.!. Anyways, your not a freak!. Your just almost 18!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

one piece of advice i can give is NEVER FEEL PRESSURISED! you are your own person, your own flesh and blood and never feel like you have to do anything you don't feel ok with!. Feel free in yourself and enjoy yourself!. NEVER EVER feel obliged to feel like "one of the crowd"!. Do what feels right and the right guy will respect that!. RESPECT #1 x xWww@Answer-Health@Com

you're not a freak!. you're a young adult w/ raging hormones!.!.!.its normal!!! You're just Horny!.!.!. not to mention, society has make sex THE MAIN TOPIC of everything!. its in advertisements and everywhere else, so sex is on the brain constantly!.!.!.

its normal!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

okay so im like in the same predicament!. 17 kissed only once!.!.!.think about sex a lot lately butt umm i have no idea what to do about it!.!.but your not a freak just leetting you knowWww@Answer-Health@Com

It's normal just stick to your values!. A lot of people think thoughts it doesn't mean anything unless you act on them or the thought intrigues you then I would worry!. But you'll be fine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

now you know how almost every boy feels

don't worry about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

awh don't worry you ain't a freak and yeah it happens to every teenWww@Answer-Health@Com

Well im 12 and i think of it a lot too,its totally natural,i solve it with mastrubation!.!.!.sorry if i sound like a pervWww@Answer-Health@Com

i thought like that when i was 15!.
no, i never had sex!. i masturbated :DWww@Answer-Health@Com

Pretty normal!. Kudos for not doing anything stupid ; )Www@Answer-Health@Com





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