Septate hymen issue..?!
Question: Septate hymen issue!.!.!?
I'm an almost 18 year old virgin with well, a septate hymen!. I'm going to have sex with my long distance boyfriend of almost 6 months when he moves in with me in November!. Just basically, should I get it fixed at the doctors!? [I really REALLY don't want to] or should I just tell him!? he's really very understanding and stuff but it's just something I hate!. Nobody really knows, I've tried talking to my mum but it's like she just wants to ignore it!. Will my first time hurt more if I have this!? Or will it be the same if he goes slow!? or what!? And how much do you think I'd bleed!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
My advice would be for you to go to the doctor (your Obstetrician/Gynecologist) and have the tissue removed!.
If you did not, then I would tell your boyfriend and ask him to go slowly!. I would also suggest plenty of foreplay to make sure you were properly "lubricated" and have a jar of KY Jelly or other vaginal lubricant handy in case you cannot produce enough yourself!.
Yes, it would probably hurt ( a good 75-90% chance) and almost certainly there will be some bleeding -- how much is always a variable with individual girls!.
A third option is to break your hymen yourself by fingering yourself -- first with one finger, then two then three followed by using a tampon!. Pain and bleeding will most likely occur, but you can do it as your own pace and in your own time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you did not, then I would tell your boyfriend and ask him to go slowly!. I would also suggest plenty of foreplay to make sure you were properly "lubricated" and have a jar of KY Jelly or other vaginal lubricant handy in case you cannot produce enough yourself!.
Yes, it would probably hurt ( a good 75-90% chance) and almost certainly there will be some bleeding -- how much is always a variable with individual girls!.
A third option is to break your hymen yourself by fingering yourself -- first with one finger, then two then three followed by using a tampon!. Pain and bleeding will most likely occur, but you can do it as your own pace and in your own time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Go to a gyno and have it removed!. I'm sure your boyfriend will understand!. You're 18, so you should be able to go and have it taken care of yourself!. Www@Answer-Health@Com