Ok im 18 and lost my virginity yesterday?!
Question: Ok im 18 and lost my virginity yesterday!?
I didnt plan on it but it just happened, The guy took a few pics of me without asking while we were doing it, I told him to delete them like 50 times and he keeps saying he would but he wasnt i called him this morning too make sure and his phone was disconnected, what should i do, i was crying for like 3 hours this morning!.
Another question, Do you think hell do anything serious with those pics!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Another question, Do you think hell do anything serious with those pics!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Wow!.!.!. wait until you're 18 to have sex and the guy does some awful crap like that to you!!? I'm not sure what he will do with the pics besides show them to a few of his friends!. That would be embarassing for you but take this as a lesson learned!. No matter what anyone says about sex it is not something that should be taken lightly!. Unfortunately for whatever reason you chose a creep to be your first!.!.!. just be more careful next time!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, from my experience guys are assholes!. there's a good chance he won't do anything major with the pictures, but there's also a good chance he'll show his friends and he probably won't delete them despite anything you'd say!. Honestly, just take it as a mistake and lesson learned and make sure next time you have sex it's with someone who wouldn't do that to you!. There's no point in stressing over it unless there's something you can do!.!. I'm sorry, good luck!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
ok, so now that you feel guilty and bad, you aren't gonna have sex with someone without thinking about it long and hard next time right!? Sex is never to be taken lightly as there are heavy consequences!. I am not just saying this to say it either, i have experience with the consequences of sex!. And, no one can answer your picture question, hopefully for your sake and dignity, he won't!. I never let a guy do anything like that when we have sex!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
First of all, you are (and anyone else) is worth far more than what you've allowed to happen to you!. Sharing that with someone is a very personal thing, even if it doesnt feel like it now it usually does in retrospect!.
However, you cant dwell on mistakes but only learn and grow from them, hopefully this is an eyeopener to the type of people that are out there (male and female)
As for the pitcures, my honest suggestion is to report this to the police before it becomes a huge headache for you!.
I mean this in the most caring way possible so please dont take offence, but treat yourself with a little more respect in the future!.
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However, you cant dwell on mistakes but only learn and grow from them, hopefully this is an eyeopener to the type of people that are out there (male and female)
As for the pitcures, my honest suggestion is to report this to the police before it becomes a huge headache for you!.
I mean this in the most caring way possible so please dont take offence, but treat yourself with a little more respect in the future!.
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he probably will show them to all his friends, text them to people etc!. why would you have sex with someone who would even think of doing this!? i know this wont make you feel any better but you set yourself up to be taken advantage of!. all you can do now is learn from this situation- next time you will see this guys type coming from a mile away!. steer clear of slimy guys and maintain your self respect!. you deserve to have sex with someone who actually cares about you!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
well, this is why sex is not something to be taken lightly and not to be done with someone you obviously can't trust!. But i won't make you feel any worse then you already do!. Just hope and pray he doesn't do anything, and if worst comes to worst, just deny!. Photo shop does wonders and you could just blame it on him being a perve and making the pictures up himself!. His word against yours!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
he is definatly going to either put them online which will ruin ur life or show his friends!. if he is older than u i would tell the police and the sexual herrassment department and if they find the pics on his cell or camera or anywhere he will be screwd so go right awway if collages will find those pics of u, u wont get in!.!.!. so run! go! NOW!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
that sounds pretty serious!. you need to find another way to get in touch with him!. i definatly think hes gonna show people!.Www@Answer-Health@Com