Ladies please help..you will hopefully understand!!?!
Question: Ladies please help!.!.you will hopefully understand!!!?
okay so i am a cheerleader!. and my friend backspots this girl and i base, so her butt is always near us and my friends face!. and she smells like (not to be rude AT ALL) shes on her period everyday and its kinda like wet dog maybe a little!. it is her as a whole but mainly it is her private area and all down there that stinks!. i cant describe how bad it is (like i said im not trying to be rude, just getting my point across)!. like i cant even breathe when shes around!. im not really sure how to tell her, i told a coach but they dont wanna say anything to her, just in general, and this girl is the type where if they do a general hygiene talk she will think the coach is talking to everyone but her so the general talk wont help!. i dont want to be rude but it is unsanitary and it smells!. please dont tell me to get over it, but its really gross!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Your absolutly right!.
If this is a very potent odor smelled from feet away, its poor hygeine!. If you told the coach & feel bad about telling her in a nice way, try talking to the sports coodinator or principal or school nurse!. They should be able to help you handle the situation!. Maybe its also a medical problem!. Either way, talk to the appropriate people!. If the coach fails to have a talk with her, and the problem persists, I'd talk to the higher-ups!.
I'm sorry you have to go through that!Www@Answer-Health@Com
If this is a very potent odor smelled from feet away, its poor hygeine!. If you told the coach & feel bad about telling her in a nice way, try talking to the sports coodinator or principal or school nurse!. They should be able to help you handle the situation!. Maybe its also a medical problem!. Either way, talk to the appropriate people!. If the coach fails to have a talk with her, and the problem persists, I'd talk to the higher-ups!.
I'm sorry you have to go through that!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would kind of nonchalantly mention a body soap or something, that smells really good!.!.!.you can say you use it, and tell her she has to try it!. Maybe have your other friend around, to tell her to try it too!.!.!.so it doesn't seem like you are singling her out!. I would definitely make a comment to her, though, some people don't realize how bad their Hygiene is, and it is an awkward position to try to bring to somebody's attention!.!.!.!.but, it has to be done!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should approach her in a respectful, girl to girl manner!. You can start it off by saying:
1!. I've noticed a problem u may have and I don't wanna offend you but!.!.!.!.!.
2!. I really have something to tell you and I don't want you to get mad but!.!.!.!.!.
Just pull her to the side, in privacy and explain the situation so she can address it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
1!. I've noticed a problem u may have and I don't wanna offend you but!.!.!.!.!.
2!. I really have something to tell you and I don't want you to get mad but!.!.!.!.!.
Just pull her to the side, in privacy and explain the situation so she can address it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should take her aside and tell her that you are concerned!. Tell her you have detected (kind word instead of "smelled") an odor coming from her during your routine!. Ask her if she has tried using "Product X" - whatever you use or want to suggest!. Hand her a bottle of the stuff and tell her to please use it before your next event, otherwise, somebody else is going to have to hold her or support her!. Yechhh!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
wow sounds like a problem i am a flyer but i don't smell!. i don;t know wat to tell u!. if i were ur flyer u wouldn't have a problem lol try telling her lightly like pull her aside and be like ummm "jst to let you know u should probabally clean your vag it kind of stinks the whole squad is noticing not to be mean but jst letting you know"Www@Answer-Health@Com
Chances are, she already knows about it, and is probably embarrassed by it, it might not be because she has a hygiene problem, it may be from her having an infection, maybe she is too embarrassed to go to the doctor!?!?
Just be gentle if you do tell her!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just be gentle if you do tell her!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
pull her a side and tell her in private!.!.!. or go in there and take it over the coach!.!.the last thing you want to do is hurt her feelings!.!.!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
politely give her some scented products and persuade her to use them saying you liked them alot and thought of your friends or somethingWww@Answer-Health@Com
Unless YOU want to wash her vag for her, then tell her!. Be discrete about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Why don't YOU tell her!?
If I had to stand under a dirty crotch, i'd sure as heck tell the girl to wash herself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If I had to stand under a dirty crotch, i'd sure as heck tell the girl to wash herself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Spray perfume on her one day!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Wait!.!.!.what's the question!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
they make pads that are scented and they actually do smell good (i put them in my purse just for the smell) and you could buy a small package of those and "accidentally" drop a few in her cheer bag and maybe she will use them after she sees they're in there!. that's the only thing i can think of because im not too sure what to tell you either!. you could try talking to her or just casually bring it up in front of her and others saying "omg i hate it when your on your period and it smells cuz then i feel like everyone can smell it" or just something like that or you could even say something like there was this one girl who smelt really bad down there that my friend told me about!.!.!.ya idk!. i used to be a cheerleader too so i know how it is!. but i was a front spot cuz everyone else was a hoss on the team!. good luck and maybe buy some air fresheners to spray on her spankies or somethingWww@Answer-Health@Com
I have had the exact same problem!
Not me personally having the smell but I girl in my science class did!.
And like you said it is putrid and you can smell it from the other side of the class room!. It smelt like fishy period BO!.
I don't think anyone said anything to her face but it eventually went away!. Now this chick was a little on the big side so im not sure if
it has anything to do with that but it does seem like a personal hygiene problem!.
If you do feel you have the guts to say something about it then go for it!.
I have no idea what you should say though!. Maybe just some subtle hints!. Maybe just grab a friend in front of her and say you smell nice whats that and start talking about soaps!.
Hope this helps and good luck!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Not me personally having the smell but I girl in my science class did!.
And like you said it is putrid and you can smell it from the other side of the class room!. It smelt like fishy period BO!.
I don't think anyone said anything to her face but it eventually went away!. Now this chick was a little on the big side so im not sure if
it has anything to do with that but it does seem like a personal hygiene problem!.
If you do feel you have the guts to say something about it then go for it!.
I have no idea what you should say though!. Maybe just some subtle hints!. Maybe just grab a friend in front of her and say you smell nice whats that and start talking about soaps!.
Hope this helps and good luck!!Www@Answer-Health@Com