My friends are starting to know something is up, what can i do?!


Question: My friends are starting to know something is up, what can i do!?
lately i haven't been able to eat much!. i'm not anorexic!. i'm not pro-ana or anything!. i'm not even skinny, i'm 5 foot 8 and weight 118 pounds!. i just need to be in control of things!. my life is spinning out of control right now, and i know that i can control my body, this feels good!. i hate having fat on my body, it feels like a disease!. all i want is to be able to see my lovely, clean bones!.

when i get really stressed out, i've started to make myself throw up!. it's disgusting and i'm ashamed of it, but it feels like i'm ridding my body of all the pain and hurt!. i need to be in control of the pain and hurt!. i can use it in my favour, not against me!.

my friends are starting to notice that my clothes are fitting looser, but i feel like i keep getting fatter and fatter and as i lose weight, i gain more and more control!. i hate this so much, please help me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
You do have an eating disorder!. It seems like you do have anorexia (wanting to see clean bones) and your description of throwing up purposely is exactly what bulimics aim for!. Please, please get help!. Eating disorders can kill you if you don't get the right nutrients, and you seem to want to stop this before it gets even more out of hand!. Tell anyone-your closest friend, a therapist, and they can help you out of this hole!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are in a mental freak-out and your stress is getting the best of you!.
Don't feel the need to take it out on your body :) I understand what you are going through, because I have those same urges but I stop myself before I actually commit to throwing up or hurting my body!.
Go to a therapist!. This sounds like something you need to mentally work out of your system!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you need to get professional help!.

it's a misconception that not eating and throwing up will rid your body of fat!. you may be losing weight, but your body still has a high percentage of fat!. you should really be focusing on building muscle as opposed to losing weight because at your height and weight you are NOT fat!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

What you should do is admit anorexia to your parents and doctor!. You've just admitted it to us!. The description you have provided is a description of anorexia, so that's what you are!. Hurting your body is not a good way of healing your heart!. Talk to your parents and doctor, they will help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It sounds to me like you have bulimea!. Please go and seek help, my mum used to be bulimic and then it progressed onto anorexia!.
It will only get worse if you don't accept whats going on and get some help!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to face the fact that you have an eating disorder!. We can't help you and you need to seek professional help ASAP before this eating and vomiting causes serious organ damage!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You do have an eating disorder honey, I really believe you should tell someone!.!.!.it's not good to keep throwing up!. The acids from your stomach will eat away at your throat :( Your teeth will start to rot, you'll have bad breath :( not prettyWww@Answer-Health@Com

Honey it is gonna take more than us to help you,we are here for you for moral support but you need profesional help and quick you are to little for your ageWww@Answer-Health@Com

I Think You DO Have An ED!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Honestly do you think weighing 118 pounds is considered fat!? I would suggest you see a doctor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you've got a disorder!. eat a big mac and call it a day!Www@Answer-Health@Com

First of all you are way too thin!.
Second of all being in control is one thing but being in control and abusing that power is another!.
You are the god of your body what are you doing to it!?
It is not just a body but individual little cells that live and work hard to keep you alive and you are starving them and hurting them beyond repair!. Is that what you call control!?
Seems to me that because you are hurting emotionally you want to hurt yourself!.
I feel for you and your pain but hurting your body is not the solution!. There are many other areas that you can be in control of!. You can choose to have control by acheiving well in school and becoming a success you can be in control by using your talents to good use and you can be in control by learning to overcome whatever is causing you pain by changing your perspective!.
Look up affirmations and look up some a past answer I have given that also might help you

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kay so i had a similar problem and i refused to go to therapy!.!.!.i would sit there and cry everysingle night!.!.!.and i would be depressed for years!.!.!.i finally told my friends about it and they made me feel a hell of alot better!.!.!.and i stopped!.!.!.then a year later i started thinking about it again and i told my friends and they took me to therapy!.!.!.at first i was really angry at them but at the end i thanked them i didnt think therapy would help that much!.!.!.and if u dont like it dont go again but i think u should try talking to ur friends and going to therapy!.!.!.good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

118 and 5-6 is means your Anorexic!. If you look in the mirror and weight scale a lot then your Anorexic!. Being in control of things and under stress is another sign!. Why are you fighting with yourself!. Fat on your body being a disease!? And you think you don't have a problem!. Listen to your friends and family or your going to end up in the hospital!. Being skinny is not sexy!. Being over weight is not sexy!. Stay in the middle for goodness sakes!. At 5-8 you should be around 130 to 135 pound!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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