Help!!! Sex related...:S....10 points! ?!
Question: Help!!! Sex related!.!.!.:S!.!.!.!.10 points! !?
Hello,
Well, this is sort of a weird question, but I recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend of almost 4 years!. I am 20 years old!. We have had sex maybe 10 times maximum (maybe not even) and sometimes it still hurts me, is this normal!? Also, everyone always says how good it feels, but I don't feel a thing!.!.!.I mean I can obviously feel him inside me, but it doesn't feel good!.
My boyfriend is not small either, average size 6-7" I would say!.!.!.are we doing something wrong!? We have tried different positions!.!.!.but nothing seems to work!.
I was wondering if I could have an infection or something internally wrong with me!. I do always have stabbing pains by my hipbones, but I had an ultrasound that came back inconclusive!.
Serious answers only please!. Thank you!.
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Well, this is sort of a weird question, but I recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend of almost 4 years!. I am 20 years old!. We have had sex maybe 10 times maximum (maybe not even) and sometimes it still hurts me, is this normal!? Also, everyone always says how good it feels, but I don't feel a thing!.!.!.I mean I can obviously feel him inside me, but it doesn't feel good!.
My boyfriend is not small either, average size 6-7" I would say!.!.!.are we doing something wrong!? We have tried different positions!.!.!.but nothing seems to work!.
I was wondering if I could have an infection or something internally wrong with me!. I do always have stabbing pains by my hipbones, but I had an ultrasound that came back inconclusive!.
Serious answers only please!. Thank you!.
??Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Those stabbing pains by your hip bones could be your ovaries hurting during ovulation!. I get these pains with ovulation!. They are normal!.
I don't think sex is really "fun" when it is still new!.
You will need to slow down, relax and take time out to enjoy it!.
Don't focus on why it isn't feeling good!. It doesn't just hit you!. You have to relax and try to enjoy it!.
I would suggest trying oral sex!. Have your bf do oral on you!. Discover your body and find out what you like and then let him know what it is that turns you on!.
Over 80% of woman don't orgasm through sexual introcourse alone!. It usually takes clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm!. If you are just laying back and having him go in and out, ina nd out!.!.!. I highly doubt you will get anything from that much!. Try kissing, rubbing, touching, ORAL**, senual things!.
As you get more comfertable with your body and what makes it tick you will enjoy sex better!. It will come with time!.
And no nothing at ALL is wrong with you internally!. It just takes time!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't think sex is really "fun" when it is still new!.
You will need to slow down, relax and take time out to enjoy it!.
Don't focus on why it isn't feeling good!. It doesn't just hit you!. You have to relax and try to enjoy it!.
I would suggest trying oral sex!. Have your bf do oral on you!. Discover your body and find out what you like and then let him know what it is that turns you on!.
Over 80% of woman don't orgasm through sexual introcourse alone!. It usually takes clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm!. If you are just laying back and having him go in and out, ina nd out!.!.!. I highly doubt you will get anything from that much!. Try kissing, rubbing, touching, ORAL**, senual things!.
As you get more comfertable with your body and what makes it tick you will enjoy sex better!. It will come with time!.
And no nothing at ALL is wrong with you internally!. It just takes time!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like you're not getting the stimulation you need in order to reach an orgasm!. There's this little thing called foreplay, you know!? Okay, yeah, there's kissing and rubbing, whatever but there's so much more to foreplay than that and that's what really stimulates a sexual encounter!. Watch a movie with a hot sex scene, role play, go to the sex store and pick up a vibrator, etc!. Seriously, if you want an orgasm you need foreplay!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well it could still hurt I'd think!. Maybe try different positions!. You can find them on the internet and everything for problems like this!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
It does take a while to get used to!. If you've had tests run then i'm not sure what it could be!.
Are you doing lots of foreplay!? If you are comfortable with it ask your bf to help you out (perform oral sex, or even just touching in such a sensitive area can help) It is also possible that you could be not be wet enough or even too wet which can decrease pleasure in some women!.
Are you getting turned on by your partner!? I know when your not "feeling in the mood" it can make things less pleaurable and undesirable for yourself!. Maybe you just need to relax and enjoy the moments or alternatively you may be lacking in hormones/ libido (there are certain things you can take to get this on track- if you just talk to your doc about it)!.
These are just my suggestions!. Dont forget to relax and take your time during this as rushing doesnt help either!.
Good luck Www@Answer-Health@Com
Are you doing lots of foreplay!? If you are comfortable with it ask your bf to help you out (perform oral sex, or even just touching in such a sensitive area can help) It is also possible that you could be not be wet enough or even too wet which can decrease pleasure in some women!.
Are you getting turned on by your partner!? I know when your not "feeling in the mood" it can make things less pleaurable and undesirable for yourself!. Maybe you just need to relax and enjoy the moments or alternatively you may be lacking in hormones/ libido (there are certain things you can take to get this on track- if you just talk to your doc about it)!.
These are just my suggestions!. Dont forget to relax and take your time during this as rushing doesnt help either!.
Good luck Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well maybe you need a little more foreplay!. Try some lubrication and if your not having fun or find yourself stressed about how it's gonna hurt then it's really hard to enjoy yourself!. You can get some oils and stuff that will lubricate and enhance sensations!. Try doing fun things like body paints or whipped cream!. Just remember to relax!. When I first started having sex I rarely enjoyed and actually enjoyed foreplay more cause I was always sore!. I am a rather small person so even an average sized penis can hurt!. It also sounds like he's going to deep and he needs to try starting really slow to let you adjust to him and he needs to try maybe not inserting himself fully into you!. I hope that some of these ideas help you! Trust me it does it get better the more you do it!. Practice makes perfect as they say!.Www@Answer-Health@Com