Tips for first time sex!!!! : ] ....?!


Question: Tips for first time sex!!!! : ] !.!.!.!.!?
ok well im planning to have se x with my bf reall soon!.!.were both 16 and have been goingout for 3 n a half years!.!.!.real close!.!.!.i need sum tips and pointers!.!.!.or could someone run me thrugh what there first time was like
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I also had sex with my bf when I was young (15) and I went on to marry him have a child and get divorced but I regret having sex so young!. I was totally in love, he wanted to get laid!.

Make sure you really want to have sex with this boy and realise that this will not guarantee that things work out!.

OK, if you decide to go ahead, be sure to use condoms, even if you are both virgins!. Be sure you have privacy and time, nothing is going to kill the moment quicker than mum coming home!. Take it slowly, lots and lots of petting and kissing and touching, foreplay is so important the first time because you will be scared and nervous!.

Lots of foreplay will turn you on physically and your body will respond!. You need to be aroused before your bf tries to enter you or it will really hurt!. Be sure your boyfriend uses a lubricant with the condom as this will help!. Take it slowly when he enters you and it might be a good idea if he masterbates before you start so he won't be "ready to explode"!. Keep up the touching, kissing and loving talk while he slooooowly pushes into you!. you on your back with knees pulled up a bit will probably be the most comfortable position!.

The first time it rarely good, but it is different for everyone!. Some girls bleed, some don't, some just a spot, so be prepared with tissues or something!. Be sure your bf holds the condom in place when he pulls out because you can get pregnant if it comes off!.

Talk these things through with your boyfriend!. Don't have any drugs or alcohol before as this can affect your judgement!. Be sure your bf knows you can tell him to stop at any time and you must trust that he will stop if you say so!.

Again I would say to you wait a while, but you are a sixteen year old girl and I have never met one who likes to take advice from an old girl like me (41yo), so be sure of yourself, stay safe and good luck!. :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just make sure that you want this too!. Sex can change a relationship, so take that into account!. Other than that, DEFINITELY use a condom!.!.!.don't do it unless you have one!.!.!.maybe bring an extra just in case!. On that note, also make sure you know how to use a condom!. Don't trust that all guys know how to put one on properly!.!.!.you should know too!. While you're getting the condoms, I suggest buying some KY too!. Since it's your first time, you'll probably be nervous and you may not be able to get "wet" as they say!. Having lube handy will make it a lot more comfortable for you!.

Since it's his first time too (I'm assuming), it most likely won't last very long, but I hope it's a good experience for both of you!. Just be safe and communicate with each other!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

First thing first!.!.!.!.
Do you feel you are ready!?
You may be Emotionally ready but are you physically!?
Do you know and understand your body and his!?
Has he been tested!?
Are you on a method of birth control !? ( Other than Condoms)
Do you have everything you need!?
Everything such as CONDOMS, Lubricant, and Birth Control!?

Your First time should be special!. Please use utter caution, Condom use is a must, No Glove no love!.
A lubricant may be desired as you put a foreign object namely a penis inside your vagina!. A lubricant like KY Jelly will aid in your comfort!. Ask your boyfriend to go extremely slow and have him stop if you are uncomfortable in any way!. During sex you may be overwhelmed with emotion, Pleasure, please use your head about this!. Safe Sex Only no exceptions!.

Please use Condoms <---------------------------------------!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

by not doing it, we already have too many underage parents, first it starts off with condoms, then it moves onto just the tip(with out the rubber) then it goes to pulling out before the pay off, and pretty soon your like wtf just happend when your barfing your guts over a toilet and then your on YA asking ppl what did you do do wrong and how should you tell your parents that your prego!.!.!.to avoid all this just hold off until you know every single consequence that starts off with the simplest mistake!.!.!.temptationWww@Answer-Health@Com

It's going to hurt, and you may bleed a little!. Not alot, just a little!.

After a while tho it starts to feel good!.

Use a condom cause I woud'nt want you to come back on YA and say that you are pregnant young lady!. LoL!. Just be calm about it!. If your calm, trust and really love this guy then go for it!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

just take it slow hun!.
make sure its what you want and your not just doing it because you think you should because you've been together for so long!.
and make sure you use protection either condoms or if your not already on the pill, go on it!.

Good luck with it chick :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Lots of fore play, let him eat at the Y to get wet , lube for easy inter-
Go slow and know what you want!.not him!. You will bare the load in the end !. Most of the time it feels better to wait for that special one!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ugh im 19 && still a virgin!. To know he if he reale loves you for you , tell him your gonna wait ! IF HE GETS MAD, then there's yo answer, atleast be married, or be with this guy for a couple years then have sex with him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Get married First!. First, get married then do what you are planning to do!. But First, get married!. If not do not do it, he will run away after tasting you and do it again on another girl!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Go at your pace! Take it slow, it'll probably hurt!. Use lots of foreplay to help open you vaginal walls and make your vagina lubercated!. Make it special! It is your first time!. Good Luck! Www@Answer-Health@Com

seriously, save it for prom, SOOO MUCH MORE WORTH IT!!! , also take it slow the 1st time!.!.!. it prolly will hurtWww@Answer-Health@Com

iam also want to do this
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USE A WRAPPER DO IT ONLY IF U WANT TOWww@Answer-Health@Com

take it very very slow and make sure you are ready and yes please wear a condom! good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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