Embarrasing, please be serious?!
Question: Embarrasing, please be serious!?
Just wondering about a few things I've heard!.!.!.
If you're a virgin, and afraid your first time will hurt, does masturbation help prepare you!? So that it hurts less, and you know what to expect!?
Also, is it true that if a female masturbates too much/too often she will "desensitive" or "spoil" herself (this is just what I've heard) so that she doesn't feel anything with a man!?
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If you're a virgin, and afraid your first time will hurt, does masturbation help prepare you!? So that it hurts less, and you know what to expect!?
Also, is it true that if a female masturbates too much/too often she will "desensitive" or "spoil" herself (this is just what I've heard) so that she doesn't feel anything with a man!?
Thanks, I know these are awkward questions!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Masturbation does prepare a girl for sex!. Assuming she practises penetrative masturbation, this will slightly prepare her, perhaps help her relax a bit when the time comes but it's no comparison really!.
The second point is not true!.
Not all men are the same, not all women are either!. Some women orgasm quickly, some women may never orgasm!. It's generally easier for men because their genitals and sensual sites are external and easily reached and stimulated, women's sensual sites are kinda unrelated to the genital anatomy which is designed for childbirth!.
There's nothing wrong with being curious, but this probably isnt the best medium to try and seek answers about this sort of thing!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
The second point is not true!.
Not all men are the same, not all women are either!. Some women orgasm quickly, some women may never orgasm!. It's generally easier for men because their genitals and sensual sites are external and easily reached and stimulated, women's sensual sites are kinda unrelated to the genital anatomy which is designed for childbirth!.
There's nothing wrong with being curious, but this probably isnt the best medium to try and seek answers about this sort of thing!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Masturbation won't help you prepare for your first time unless you pop your own cherry (your hymen)!. That's what generally hurts the first time you have sex because when he enters you, he rips it (it's only a little flap of skin surrounding the vaginal opening but will generally only let something the size of a tampon through)!. There may be a little bit of bleeding!. For some girls it hurts a lot more than for other girls!. Just expect a little bit of pain!.
Also, it def is possible to spoil yourself!. If you're body gets used to getting off to one way, and your guy doesn't know that way, or doesn't know how to please a woman, its going to be harder for you to orgasm!. But the first time is bound to be a little loopy!. Mistakes will be made but let it be fun! Everyone takes it too seriously!. AND DON'T FORGET TO USE PROTECTION!!!!!!
(not awkward, serious questions!)
And it does suck that men can usually orgasm easier than woman! hahaha
Much luck to you!. Don't take it too seriously, have fun!!!
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Also, it def is possible to spoil yourself!. If you're body gets used to getting off to one way, and your guy doesn't know that way, or doesn't know how to please a woman, its going to be harder for you to orgasm!. But the first time is bound to be a little loopy!. Mistakes will be made but let it be fun! Everyone takes it too seriously!. AND DON'T FORGET TO USE PROTECTION!!!!!!
(not awkward, serious questions!)
And it does suck that men can usually orgasm easier than woman! hahaha
Much luck to you!. Don't take it too seriously, have fun!!!
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no, just because you are afraid doesn't mean that it will hurt more, what it's going to make you feel that it hurts more it's because if you are tense and not relax, and yes masturbation can help if you used a toy inside of you, it will hurts less, and about if a female masturbates too much she will desensitive herself, that it's totally false sweety!.!.!.!. about the last question, it because some man think that just because they are inside of you, you are going to feel or have a orgasm but there are forgeting one part that it's the clitoris and some man doesn't try to turn you on, like start kissing and touching, mostly of man just take away your cloused and start doing it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It might help to masturbate, but that only depends on if you are using a sex toy!.!.!. simple clitoral stimulation probably wont prepare you for that pain at all!. BUT- foreplay will produce more lubrication or make the vagina stretch out more so it isnt so difficult to get it going!.
She will only desensitize herself if she uses sex toys!. Simple manual stimulation will not do any harm!. If anything, it will help you know your body betterWww@Answer-Health@Com
She will only desensitize herself if she uses sex toys!. Simple manual stimulation will not do any harm!. If anything, it will help you know your body betterWww@Answer-Health@Com
ok, i am a virgin so i may not have the best experience but i will give you my best input!. masterbation may help depending on how you do it!. you will not desensitize yourself!.!.!.lol!. i think that this is something that guys made up so that girls wont masterbate!. its only harder bcuz our g-spot is hard to find!. and a guy cant know when he is hitting the rite spot so!.!.!.it is something that comes with practice in dif!. positions and knowing what angles and stuff like that!. but if you rip your hymen during masterbation then you lost your virginity to yourself!.!.!.lol!. i think that if you are afraid that it will hurt, dont be so afraid, it will but every girl has to go through it sometime!.!.!.!.its your choice haha!. i hope that i helped you :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Really depends on the type of masturbation you do!. If you just rub on your clit!.!.wont really help much!. But if you go out and buy a dildo/vibrator that would REALLY help!. I think fingering will be fine!. Just get used to the feeling of something up there you know lol!. It will "desensitive" you a little bit but not alot!. Kinda like your first kiss!.!.!.remember all the emotions and fast heart beat!. Now kisses are still good but nothing like your first!.
There is no real explaination on why it is harder for women to orgasm!.!.!.it just is lol!. Hopefully u will find a guy that knows good foreplay and isnt scared to go down south on you!.!.!.!.never understood that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There is no real explaination on why it is harder for women to orgasm!.!.!.it just is lol!. Hopefully u will find a guy that knows good foreplay and isnt scared to go down south on you!.!.!.!.never understood that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Masturbation definitely helps - I broke my hymen through masturbating, so there was no pain at all the first time I had sex!. Masturbation helps you to know what feels good!. It doesn't desensitise you at all!. Female orgasm isn't required for getting pregnant!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i have a friend who does that and she said that it doesn't make any difference because when you do the main thing it is totally more pleasurable!.!.!. really akward answerWww@Answer-Health@Com
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no for both questions and its harder for a women to get an orgasm because its harder to get to her sensitive pointsWww@Answer-Health@Com
It might not help, but it won't spoil you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I never did that but I bet it would be easier!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
WTH go away pls!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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