So scared, anyone else being through this and had everything be ok?!
Question: So scared, anyone else being through this and had everything be ok!?
Hi, i am new to this and have no idea what i am doing so here goes!. I have just siffered my third miscarrige this year!. I went off birth control pill at beginning of year, fell pregnant straight away but lost it at 5wks, natural m/c - blighted ovumn!. I actually fell pregnant again straight away after this with no period in between, had an early scan at 6wks 5days, saw fetal pol and heartbeat, was so excited from here on in!. I went for my next scan at 12wks only to be told it measured 8wks and no longer a h/b, i was completely devastated, i had been tracking the growth of the baby every week and what it would look like only to find out it had died 4wks before, D&C was required this time!. I had a period between this and fell pregnant again only to start bleeding again 5days later, natural m/c once again in the form of a chemical pregnancy!. I have had blood tests done and so far only got 3 results back, bloodclotting, rubella and one for antibodies all of which have been normal, i am still waiting on another 4!. I am 26 years of age and am so scared at the prospect that i will never have a baby of my own!. I still think about all 3 m/c BUT it is the 2nd one that has affected me the most and although this happened in July i still get really upset about it!. I have no problems getting pregnant, its just holding on to it thats the problem
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Hi I am a man so you'll probably thinks its inappropiate to comment!. My wife had one miscarriage and I know from our experience its like normal grief!. You are doing the right thing, talking about it to whoever will listen, thats very important in the grief process!. The most important thing is to give yourself permission to go through this process, you sound like a very caring person so be kind to yourself and please understand this is not your fault, you did everything you could!. You need to rest and give your body and mind time to heal and recharge its batteries!. You will come out of this a stronger person ready to take on the challenges life throws at us!. We are all supporting you!.!.!.take care FredWww@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe you should see a fertility specialist!. I believe they can will be able to tell you when it is the best time for you to conceive!. And myabe they can even be able to inform you as to why you are unable to carry a child to full term!.Www@Answer-Health@Com