1st time help..and how old were u when u first did it?!


Question: 1st time help!.!.and how old were u when u first did it!?
Im 18 and im still a virgin and i'm just wondering how it feels the first time cuz im considering doing it but i don't know just yet cuz the guy im dealing with doesnt live where im at anymore and he has a lot going on female wise and i dont want to waste my 1st time on someone who's not worth it!. i want to lose my virginity when i fall in love and get in a serious relationship or possibly even when i get married!. Ive had people tell me how it felt but i want more reactions/stories than the ones ive had!. and what positions were the most comfortable and how did you feel after the fact!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Please keep waiting!

I waited until I got married and I have no regrets!. Its such a special, intimate thing to share!. I can't imagine sharing myself that way with someone that I didn't love and trust completely!. Virginity is not something to get rid of, its something that you should protect until you find the right person!. Because of my religious beliefs, that person was my husband!.

My first time was painful!. We took it slow, but I still tore and bled!. My husband stopped immediately and thankfully didn't freak out when he saw the blood both on him and the sheets!. It was still a little sore for about a week and it just keeps getting better as we learn and explore (only been married 6 months)!.

Please don't give yourself to this player!. You'll just be a forgettable notch on his headboard!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

dont do it for pressure, share it with a guy who never had it either, its a expirience u want to share together, most comf for first time would be missionary guy on top, i was 16, wasnt a big deal some ppl it hurts some doesnt, i didnt bleed, & it wasnt painful, was just a bit uncomf the next day!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

i wish i would have waited till i was 18, i was 15 and it hurt, i don't remember much but i do remember that it wasn't as good as people think it is!. i respect you for waiting, it takes a big woman to do such a thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I was 17 and it was not all that great!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i was 18 and i barely lost it!. I'm proud of that because mostly all my friends lost it at a young age and others during high school and middle school!. They would make fun cause of that like they couldn't talk about that stuff around me cause "the virgin" was around!. i didn't care cause at least i wasn't stupid and ho's like them!. though it did make me feel like i had to do it cause they would tell me stuff[peer pressure] but i never did cause i was better than them and that!. Don't lose it to that guy, he doesn't seem worth it!.

my first time :) he made me feel special and confident!. it was with my current bf!. the best position is missionary or you on top or him sitting and you straddle him!. It hurt a bit the first time but he went slow for me!. The first time won't hurt as much as the second or third time, maybe even forth!. It hurt alot more the 3rd time like alot i almost felt like crying and i hurt after, still for about a week!. i should've waited longer though!. but i don't regret it that much cause i wanted it to happenWww@Answer-Health@Com

Only you can decide what's best for you, but!.!.!.
I think you should wait until you fall in love and are at least in a long-term relationship!.

You need to completely trust the guy, feel completely comfortable with him and he must treat you with respect!. Also, if he loves you he WILL wait for you!.

I was 17 and I was one of the last ones but I'm glad I waited because most of my friends regretted their first times!.

My first time- The act itself wasn't great!. He wasn't very experienced, but it wasn't bad!. It didn't hurt at all!. Your first time will never feel amazing!. But what made the actual evening perfect was the fact that I was so comfortable, the mood was right, and we took a shower together afterwards which is the most romantic thing ever!.!.!.and then we cuddled all night :)

But it does get a lot better after your first time :)

For your first time you might want to try the missionary position as it can make you feel more secure!. If you feel like it you can go on top and you are fully in control!. If you want to try something fancy get a miniature kama sutra and you can have a lot of fun selecting random pages and trying out the positions- just if you are feeling a little nervous, it could be a great laugh!

To sum it all up, just wait until you're 100% sure it's the right time for you, place and person!. good luck!
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I was in college my first time, 20!. I felt alot like you do!. But I think you know exactly what you want to do!. Save it for someone that you are in love with and loves you back just as much!. A lot of younger people see sex as a sport or a hobby and not the special act that it is!. Yes, sex is wonderful and feels great!. It is even better with someone you love!. There is nothing wrong with waiting!. I applaud you! If you decide to go ahead and have sex!. PLEASE use birth control!. For your sake! Wait for someone that is worth it!. Sounds like you already had your answer! Good Luck to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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