How to cope with a miscarriage?!


Question: How to cope with a miscarriage!?
I just had a miscarriage and feel miserable!. I want my baby back!. How do I deal with the pain of losing a child!? I lost it at 12 weeks, which was to be my first child!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I am so sorry!. The best way to cope is to make time to grieve!. Talk with other people who have had miscarriages and always have a special place for the lost baby!. I lost twins at 23 weeks!. I still have a stuffed toy I had purchased for the nursery!. I have since had a baby and I have been able to get past much of the pain!.!.!.but there were so many that told me to be glad that some babies miscarry because they have something wrong with them!. Do not listen to people that say that!. You probably do not know why you miscarried!.!.!.but you loved the baby just the same!. I am again so sorry!. I know it hurts!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I wish I could help you besides to say I am so sorry!. I think it must be much worse if it is your first child (I don't have any, but this is always one of my biggest fears)!. The only thing that I can say is that your body knows if the baby was healthy or not, and even though it might not help you much, it would make you said if your baby was born with horrible medical problems and had to suffer!.

Any child would be lucky to have a mother who cares this much! Www@Answer-Health@Com

first off, i'm so sorry this happened to you!. take time to mourn the loss of your child!.!.!.trust me if you try to just go back to doing everything like you did before you lost your baby, you're going to be worse off!. just take all the time you need and do whatever you need to do to properly grieve the loss!. and make sure you have a great support group of maybe family and friends!.!.!.they'll definitly help you thru this!. good luck to you!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I don't know what to tell you!. I know it has to be painful! I wonder if I ever miscarried (I was young) and think about how old s/he would be right now!.!.!.It's okay to let out your feelings and be sad, but everything in life happens for a reason!. Maybe she wasn't going to be a healthy baby, and won't have to grow up struglling!. You have to take this, give yourself time to recover, and try again but not too soon!. I'm very sorry again for your loss!.

What helps me with anything painful is writing!. If you're a literature type person, write a poem to your baby and put it somewhere safe!. Or even a letter of what you wanted for her and cry, and mourn etc!. Or you can listen to music, loudly ort softly!. Music can sometimes be healing!. :) Don't be afraid to take a day off from work either!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

First, I'm so sorry!. Nothing can describe that pain!.

To answer your questions there are many things you can do!.

When i come across hard times i turn to God!. I dont want to shove my religion down you throat but always remember that He is there and he is always ready to heal you and make you whole!.

You should try to get some type of grief counseling!. i knoe, i know!. evryone say counseling but it truly can help you, even if it is just getting all of your feelings off your chest!.

i hope that this has helped you!. again i'm sorry!. and you will be in my prayers!. i hope you can find some way to begin to heal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Its not something that is ever easy to deal with!. Talking helps!. Being alone helps too!. So many people don't know what to say and end up saying stupid things!.

You should talk, but it may be hard to find someone to open up to in real life!. The internet can help with that!. You are welcome to talk to me, or a whole host of people in support groups!.

I'm sorry for your loss, but please don't suffer alone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Time is the only thing that helps there are books but you have to work it out yourself but just try and believe that just because you lost your baby you didn't lose your baby's soul i like to believe that I lost the body but his soul came later in the next childWww@Answer-Health@Com





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