Girlfriend too used to Quickies...?!


Question: Girlfriend too used to Quickies!.!.!.!?
I put this in the woman's section for a reason!.!.!.most of my homeboys think one way and one way only, I really need a female's perspective on what's happening!. Hope I'm ok here for a sec!. Anyway my girlfriend and I have a pretty healthy love life, we do a lot of things together, just that she doesn't know how to just relax and make love!. I try to demostrate when I'm with her what I mean and she enjoys it a lot but then goes back to quickie mode!. Every now and then I want to savior the moment and take it slow cause the end factor is more enjoyable!. I thought most girls enjoyed that!. She likes to come in and slob my ear down and then ask me if I'm ready!. When it doesn't work she gets mad and tells me she doesn't feel like she pleases me!. I tell her all the time, don't think so much about it just slow down and enjoy!. Every now and then she will try something different and it works wonders and I admit to her, I like that, do that more often!. Then later its the same old thing!. I met her when we were both going thru love dramas and she told me she was used to guys just wanting to get in and get out so to speak so its hard for her to get used to someone ready to go more than a few moments!. Basically I feel like if I was a 2minute guy I'd be the luckiest guy in the world to have found her!. If I can get some ladies perspective on this that would be nice!. What's going on here!? Is this psychological!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I would say yes, this sounds like a little bit of a psychological problem!. I wouldn't be too worried about it although I do understand your frustration!. Just be patient and keep telling her to slow it down and enjoy it!. It might take her a while to fully understand that concept!.

Sounds like she thinks that if it isn't "fast and furious" that she feels like she isn't please you!. This sucks for girls!. We love to see our boyfriend/husband enjoying what we are doing!. It is what makes us confident!. So when you are taking it slow do something a little extra for her so she sees it can be amazing for her as well!.

Sounds like she just needs a little more reasurance!. I hope this helps you!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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