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Question: Pleasee help!! girls mostly!.!.but guys to!.!.!?
okayy im sooo pissed!!
so, i had to go in yesterday for an ultrasound on my lower abdomen!. i told 2 people that i know wouldn't tell anyone, and 1 gurl that might possibly tell!. well anyways, today i came in to school, and this one really hot guy (that i kinda likee :]] ) and his friend-my ex, came up to me and was like "so Jordan!.!.!.I hear you're preggo!.!.!." and i was like "eww no! who told you that crap!?!" and he was like "Aujinea" which is not someone that i told!.
so i confronmted her and she was like "ooh yeaa!.!.but it doesnt matter" and i told her off and didnt say anything to her for the rest of the day!. but then after 2nd hour the guy that i like came up to me and was like "i believe you, i would never believe her" and hugged me for a really long time and all that good stuff, which mad me feel better!. but his friend-my ex!.!.keeps bringing in up, and now the entire 8th grade keeps asking me if im preggo and keeps making jokes!. the guy i like has been really nice and supportive, he's told me that he believes me a gazzilion times, he gives me hugs when i need 'em, and he is soooo freaking amazing!!!
so i have 3 problems: 1st, people think that im a slut and that im preggo-which is such a lie!! 2nd, i really like this one guy but he's going out with my best friend!. 3rd, my ex is a douche bag (idk how 2 spell tht) and im really tired of him!! he still likes me but i hate him with a deep burning passion and i regret ever goin out with him!! so he tries to be "kool" which makes him look even worse!.
please help!!!!
i need some serious guidence!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
so, i had to go in yesterday for an ultrasound on my lower abdomen!. i told 2 people that i know wouldn't tell anyone, and 1 gurl that might possibly tell!. well anyways, today i came in to school, and this one really hot guy (that i kinda likee :]] ) and his friend-my ex, came up to me and was like "so Jordan!.!.!.I hear you're preggo!.!.!." and i was like "eww no! who told you that crap!?!" and he was like "Aujinea" which is not someone that i told!.
so i confronmted her and she was like "ooh yeaa!.!.but it doesnt matter" and i told her off and didnt say anything to her for the rest of the day!. but then after 2nd hour the guy that i like came up to me and was like "i believe you, i would never believe her" and hugged me for a really long time and all that good stuff, which mad me feel better!. but his friend-my ex!.!.keeps bringing in up, and now the entire 8th grade keeps asking me if im preggo and keeps making jokes!. the guy i like has been really nice and supportive, he's told me that he believes me a gazzilion times, he gives me hugs when i need 'em, and he is soooo freaking amazing!!!
so i have 3 problems: 1st, people think that im a slut and that im preggo-which is such a lie!! 2nd, i really like this one guy but he's going out with my best friend!. 3rd, my ex is a douche bag (idk how 2 spell tht) and im really tired of him!! he still likes me but i hate him with a deep burning passion and i regret ever goin out with him!! so he tries to be "kool" which makes him look even worse!.
please help!!!!
i need some serious guidence!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
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You're in 8th grade!. If those people have any common sense and know you well enough, they should know you wouldn't do anything as drastic as having sex with tons of people!. Don't worry about people thinking you're a slut!. Things will blow over eventually!. As long as you and your friends know the truth (and the hott guy ;] ) who cares about the rest!?
#2
Okay!. This is a tough one!. My (ex)best friend dated or got with 3 of my ex boyfriends after i did!. She actually had sex with my ex a week after we broke up!. It definitely hurt our relationship!. if your friend's boyfriend tells you he likes you and wants to break up with your friend, make sure you talk to her before you do ANYTHING and see that she's okay with it!. Wait a little while too before you do anything with that guy or date him because I'm sure she'd still be upset!.
#3
Haha, you spelled douche bag correctly!. Seriously!. He's not worth worrying about!. Forget about him and how he tries (and fails) at being cool, and go for another, much cuter guy!. It'll make him jealous and maybe he'll leave you alone :]Www@Answer-Health@Com
You're in 8th grade!. If those people have any common sense and know you well enough, they should know you wouldn't do anything as drastic as having sex with tons of people!. Don't worry about people thinking you're a slut!. Things will blow over eventually!. As long as you and your friends know the truth (and the hott guy ;] ) who cares about the rest!?
#2
Okay!. This is a tough one!. My (ex)best friend dated or got with 3 of my ex boyfriends after i did!. She actually had sex with my ex a week after we broke up!. It definitely hurt our relationship!. if your friend's boyfriend tells you he likes you and wants to break up with your friend, make sure you talk to her before you do ANYTHING and see that she's okay with it!. Wait a little while too before you do anything with that guy or date him because I'm sure she'd still be upset!.
#3
Haha, you spelled douche bag correctly!. Seriously!. He's not worth worrying about!. Forget about him and how he tries (and fails) at being cool, and go for another, much cuter guy!. It'll make him jealous and maybe he'll leave you alone :]Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tell people the real reason thhat you had to get an ultrasound!.
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tell all of em except the hot guy to go screw themselves!!!!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know exactly how you feel!.!.
You can't listen to what they say, and hopefully you learn from your mistakes, and know that people will talk!. In your lifetime you'll probably only meet a handful of people that you CAN TRUST anything with!.
Some people will believe you, some won't!.
If you want you can simply explain to them THE REAL reason you had an ultrasound, and tell them that plenty of people get ultrasounds for many various reasons!. They're just ignorant for assuming that YOU getting an ultrasound automatically makes you preggs!.
Sweetie, in all honesty you DO NOT have to explain yourself to anyone!. If they want to believe rumors, shame on them!.
And next year, in high-school things will be completely different, and much better, a variety of different people, and less rumors!.!.
Good-Luck babe, you'll get through it!
Just don't listen to what they say, and in several months, when they see you're OBVIOUSLY not pregnant, they'll realize they made fools out of themselves!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can't listen to what they say, and hopefully you learn from your mistakes, and know that people will talk!. In your lifetime you'll probably only meet a handful of people that you CAN TRUST anything with!.
Some people will believe you, some won't!.
If you want you can simply explain to them THE REAL reason you had an ultrasound, and tell them that plenty of people get ultrasounds for many various reasons!. They're just ignorant for assuming that YOU getting an ultrasound automatically makes you preggs!.
Sweetie, in all honesty you DO NOT have to explain yourself to anyone!. If they want to believe rumors, shame on them!.
And next year, in high-school things will be completely different, and much better, a variety of different people, and less rumors!.!.
Good-Luck babe, you'll get through it!
Just don't listen to what they say, and in several months, when they see you're OBVIOUSLY not pregnant, they'll realize they made fools out of themselves!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you sound like a normal 8th grade girl
but
problem one:
Dont give people a reason to think these things, if you are doing things with guys, thats your fault, if your not then you have to just let it go you know you are a good person!.
problem two:
i know what its like to like your friends guy but girllll dont do it!.!.!.there are plenty guys out there and if you take him that only gives people more room to call you a slut!.!.!.
problem three:
alll girls have that problem, he has a letting go problem so he is the loser in this delima not you!. He will eventualy get over the fact you dont want him and hes is wastin his time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
but
problem one:
Dont give people a reason to think these things, if you are doing things with guys, thats your fault, if your not then you have to just let it go you know you are a good person!.
problem two:
i know what its like to like your friends guy but girllll dont do it!.!.!.there are plenty guys out there and if you take him that only gives people more room to call you a slut!.!.!.
problem three:
alll girls have that problem, he has a letting go problem so he is the loser in this delima not you!. He will eventualy get over the fact you dont want him and hes is wastin his time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com