Women, help me please!!!!?!


Question: Women, help me please!!!!!?
I have a couple different questions!.!.!.please answer them!.

Does everyone bleed there first, second, third or fourth (or higher) time!?

Do you bleed allot during your first time!?

Do the guys bleed!? Or hurt!?

True or False, The older you are the less you will hurt and bleed!.

By the way, me and my BF want to lose our virginity together before he graduats 12 grade in May!. So I was just wondering because he thinks I've all ready lost mine!!~~~


Is it embarrassing!?

Is it like, very noticeable!. (If you bleed!.)

~I can stick a whole middle finger(not my own, eww!) inside of !.!."me" and I don't bleed, so what does that mean!?Will I'll still bleed my first time, even though I can do that!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Hello! I hope I can help!.!.!.

Every woman bleeds the first time her vagina is penetrated because her hymen breaks (the little piece of skin that closes the vaginal opening from birth)!. But if you can fit a middle finger inside, that shouldn't be a big problem (Try using 2 when you're alone)!.

Also I would like to say that it is OKAY to touch yourself and explore your own body!. The more you explore your body the more you will know your body and be in tune with what is going on inside of you It is very healthy and normal to do so, I swear!.

Also, I would like to comments on your comment: "By the way, me and my BF want to lose our virginity together before he graduates 12th grade in May!. So I was just wondering because he thinks I've all ready lost mine!!"

This worries me for a couple reasons: 1!. If he thinks you have lost your virginity already, that means you are not being honest with him!.
I think honesty is super important, especially if you are talking about the man you are losing your virginity to!. Think about telling him the truth so you don't have to be anxious about hiding things while you're being intimate with him!. If you are honest with him ahead of time, you and him will both be able to enjoy everything more including, both of you being excited that it's your first time!.!.
and 2!. You should not be on a deadline!. That puts way too much pressure on you, as you can see!. It really should be a safe and enjoyable act (preferably, not planned)!.

As for the bleeding, if you are not fully, well lubricated and if his member is big then you will probably bleed, but it will not be say like a period, it would be more like a nose bleed it'll stop pretty fast!
It can be a little scary, but you can also avoid this by playing with toys or just playing with yourself (go ahead, get dirty!. Just go in the bathroom and lock the door!. Don't be ashamed to touch and play with yourself, it is VERY NATURAL and healthy!.

One more thing: Buy some KY lubricant, it'll make it so you have almost no chance of bleeding!.

I hope this helps, good luck and stay safe!!!
-Jennifer!.

P!.S!. Think about if you love him enough to give your purity to him, then you should love him or at least trust him enough to tell him the truth!.!.!.:)
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No, not everyone bleeds their first time!.

No, you do not bleed a lot!. If any, you'll only notice a few light pink dots at the most!. It's nothing like a period - not even close!.

Guys typically don't bleed, but their penis can feel a little sore after wards, but it's normal and it goes away!.

False!. It depends on your body, not your age!.

Honestly, I doubt your boyfriend is going to notice if you bleed!. And if he does, he more than likely won't care because it's barely anything, it's nothing to be ashamed about, and it's completely normal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If your hymen is intact, you will bleed, some girls bleed for a day!.
You only bleed for the 1st time!.
Guys do not bleed!. It feels good to them!.
It can be noticeable!.
Look at your middle finger, hopefully your boyfriend is bigger than that, if your boyfriend is normal, then you need about 3 or 4 fingers!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i didnt bleed untill the 3rd time
i did bleed quite a lot and i bled a couple of times after that so its good if you use a towel underneath you the first couple of times
my boyfriend had sex before me,
and he understood and helped me out and it wasnt embarrissing cuz i was comfortable around himWww@Answer-Health@Com

There is very little, or no blood the first time!. Men don't bleed,{although they should!}!. And, the older you get, the better it is!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

1!. - no
2!. - not everybody
3!. - not really
4!. the older you are - better you are prepared
Read below about types of hymen and first time sex - after reading you will understand everythingWww@Answer-Health@Com

1 no, but most
2 YES
3 No, not unless they have a problem
4 True
5No
6 DUH
7 Yes a peepee is a LOT bigger than your middle finger!Www@Answer-Health@Com

stop worrying about that ****
and start to worry about your grades and your future
Www@Answer-Health@Com

bleed as in period or bleed as in first time sex!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

some girls bleed a few times!.!.
some never do
besides that i dont know what to tell you!.!.
im a virgin tooWww@Answer-Health@Com

the bleeding is you hymen breaking or 'cherry popping' and it's completly normal!. Btw your boyfriends penis WILL be bigger than a middle finger, so just be prepared!.Most people bleed when the have sex for the first time,but not all!. If you find it painful make sure you have some lube at hand to ease it in!.When i lost my virginity i didn't bleed until an hour after the sex so i don't think your boyfriend will notice, he'll be too busy getting over the feeling that he just lost his virginity to you! ;) And if you bleed on your boyfriend i'm sure he wont mind!.!.!.

good luck, and use a condom :)
p!.s make sure you 2 are in love before having sex, as he could be using youWww@Answer-Health@Com

1!. some girls do, some don't, depends on the person and how gentle the guy is as well and if your hymen as already broken or not
2!. again depends on the girl , some may bleed lot while others there is only a little bit of blood
3!. No they don't!
4!. True i would say coz the older you are the more developed you are and also you may not be as tight down there either
5!. no it shouldn't be embarrassing at all if he sees you bleed, if you close enough to be having sex then you should be able to talk about things that may happen after sex
6!. it may be noticeable, depends on how much blood there is if there is any
7!. you may still bleed either you can stick a finger up there, it is a lot bigger!
just make sure that your completely ready and are very relaxed when you do it as this can make sure that your not tensing up your muscles and make sure that you do plenty of foreplay before as you need to make sure that you are completely turned on, otherwise it will hurt anyways! my first time was about a month ago, i didn't bleed but it was quite painful and uncomfortable for a while but then it got better!. I did bleed on the third or fourth time but i think that was because it was abit rough
hope i helped! Good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Okay, I'll try to help as much as I can, but I'm still a virgin!. From what I've heard from my femal family members:
You do bleed the first time but usually only the first time if your bf goes in far enough- you break a protective layer of skin that is commonly known as the "cherry"
As far as I was given information, no the guys don't bleed just liket hey don't have periods, they may feel really sore though when it's over!.
True, after about your thrid time (I was told) it doesn't hurt at all and is the best feeling you could have, but it may differentiate between people
the bleeding is as much noticable as having a medium period -have stain remover ready for the sheets once you are finished-
I'm able to do that too (although it was my own, my doctor was checking on my growth) the "cherry" is further in you, he's going to have to go pretty far to break it and it will be painful when he does break it
If you don't bleed after the first time you try it, he may not have gone far enough or used enough forceWww@Answer-Health@Com





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