Girls who are sexually active, please asnwer!?!
Question: Girls who are sexually active, please asnwer!!?
kso, me and my bf had sex for the first time yesterday!. but i didnt feel much!. like my cherry didnt pop, and it didnt hurt, but i didnt feel good!. either!. is it always gonna be like this!? whats going on!?, we tried doggie style and the normal way, but i just didnt feel any pleasure!. idk what to do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Well, be glad it didn't hurt!. My first time was absolutely terrible and I was bleeding for a few hours and sore for days! Actually, my first few times were not all that good!. The earth-moving, mind-blowing, amazing stuff didn't come until later on!. Sex isn't something that just automatically feels good, despite what the movies try to paint it as!. It takes some getting used to, and some experimenting to find out what feels best for you and your partner!.
A little advice: don't ignore foreplay! My first bf was always in a rush to get to it, and although it was good sometimes (when he could last for more than 5 minutes, lol) it wasn't great!. My current bf knows how to get me all worked up so that I'm practically begging him to put it in already, and let me tell you, it makes for much more enjoyable sex for both of us once he does :)!. It also helps to get you relaxed and in tune with your body, so that you can really feel he pleasurable sensations!. Sex is as much emotional and mental as it is physical, and chances are if your mind is occupied with worrying what he thinks and what-not, then you will not fully enjoy the sensations that your body is experienceing!.
If you continue to feel this way, either there is something physically wrong with you (see a doctor), or maybe you are just not with the right guy!. The best lover in the world (physically) could leave you feeling nothing if there isn't that deep emotional connection between you, while someone who doesn't have a clue what they are doing can really turn you on if you are in love with them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
A little advice: don't ignore foreplay! My first bf was always in a rush to get to it, and although it was good sometimes (when he could last for more than 5 minutes, lol) it wasn't great!. My current bf knows how to get me all worked up so that I'm practically begging him to put it in already, and let me tell you, it makes for much more enjoyable sex for both of us once he does :)!. It also helps to get you relaxed and in tune with your body, so that you can really feel he pleasurable sensations!. Sex is as much emotional and mental as it is physical, and chances are if your mind is occupied with worrying what he thinks and what-not, then you will not fully enjoy the sensations that your body is experienceing!.
If you continue to feel this way, either there is something physically wrong with you (see a doctor), or maybe you are just not with the right guy!. The best lover in the world (physically) could leave you feeling nothing if there isn't that deep emotional connection between you, while someone who doesn't have a clue what they are doing can really turn you on if you are in love with them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had sex for the first time around 15 and didn't really start to enjoy it until about 23!. I think it depends on how invested you are, what your emotional attachment is, and physical sensations of foreplay/experimenting/being comfortable with your body are!.
In short, I don't think you'll always be "doomed" for boring sex!. It's just the first time!. In fact, most first times can be painful!.
And I second the person above me: you won't necessarily break your hymen ("cherry") during sex, since it may have happened before!.
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In short, I don't think you'll always be "doomed" for boring sex!. It's just the first time!. In fact, most first times can be painful!.
And I second the person above me: you won't necessarily break your hymen ("cherry") during sex, since it may have happened before!.
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I don't know if you mean Missionary as "normal" but try with him laying on his back and you on top of him!. That way, you'll be able to put all your weight on him!. Mostly, you need to be comfortable and open!. It's supposed to be fun and a way to share your most love for each other!. You might be trying to hard or probably expecting too much!. I'm sorry your first time wasn't wonderful!. For anyone, even veterens of love-making, it takes time getting used to a partner and knowing what feels good and what doesn't with him!.
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your hymen doesn't necessarely have to break when u have sex; i know a lot of ppl think that, but the truth is, many girls "pop their cherry" when inserting a tampon!. another way is playing sports (gymnasts tend to break theirs at a very early age!.)
as for the pleasure, try again, if that happens again, then u really need to see a doctor b/c that sould b something serious!.
good luck! hope this helped! Www@Answer-Health@Com
as for the pleasure, try again, if that happens again, then u really need to see a doctor b/c that sould b something serious!.
good luck! hope this helped! Www@Answer-Health@Com
This also happened to me!. I have a tendancy to breathe REAL heavy when I get aroused, and when I do I loose feeling in my lower half of my body!. I don't notice it and when I have sex, it doesn't feel good or bad!. If you notice you are breathing hard or fast, try to relax and breathe through your nose!. I hope this helps, I relaxed and it felt amazing!. Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
your heymen (which is what breaks when your "cherry pops") could have already been broken!. It can break during sports or any kind of physical activity or stretching, so i wouldn't worry about that at all!. as for the pleasure part, it will just take practice, maybe he should stimulate your clit some more, that usually helps!. just keep on trying, u will get there!!! GOOD LUCK!!!! lol = ] hope i helped!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe he wasn't doing it correctly!. Foreplay helps stimulate the experience!. Don't go straight into intercourse, start by kissing passionately, licking of specific body parts!. It will get better, don't worry!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would try it again and see what happens!. However, if you continue to have a lack of sensation down there, it would definately be grounds for seeing a doctor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
try try and try again!. make sure he plays with your clit too!. its not all about penetrationWww@Answer-Health@Com