Help desperate need help anyone please!?!?!?!?!?!
Question: Help desperate need help anyone please!!?!!?!!?!!?!!?
there's a girl I really like and she happens to be a really good friend!.I want ask her out but i'm scared that if it go's wrong she wont want to be friends!.Or if she says no it will make are friendship odd!.What should I do!?Also tips on how to ask her outWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
okay, do not listen to the whole thing about " listen to your heart not your head" because that never works!. She might be thinking the same thing!.!.!. or not!. It sounds to me like you probably won't have any trouble with the actual asking part of it!. So what you need to think about is what you are going to do if she says no!. Still be friends or would that hurt too much!? I know it's not a pleasant thought but you have to be ready just in case!. Also, you have to consider the possibility that she feels the same way about you but she thinks that it would ruin your friendship because you are young and so there may be a higher chance of breaking up and then you wouldn't be able to be Friends again after wards because of it!. So plan it out and be positive of what you want to do before you do anything you may regret somewhere down the line!. Like listening to your heart and making a big production of asking her out which would only make her panic and refuse!. But even if she says no, try to still do all the things you do now after wards because she might start thinking about it later!. But don't press the issue!.
TO ASK HER OUT:
Start off by taking her aside quietly (Not when she has other friends around because they will know some thing's up) and asking her nonchalantly if she wants to go see a movie or something for like a date!. Or just to hang out at the mall or the park or something!. If she declines then say ok then and don't plead or bug her about it!. She does have every right to say no!. But if she says yes then you cannot jump up and down or scream YES at the top of your lungs!. Just smile and say great!. If she asks you why then you should just tell her that you really like her and thought it would be fun!. But don't make her feel like she is obligated to say yes or else she wont ever look at you the same again!. She'll think that you are always analysing her and thinking that every nice thing you do, you do because you want to date her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
TO ASK HER OUT:
Start off by taking her aside quietly (Not when she has other friends around because they will know some thing's up) and asking her nonchalantly if she wants to go see a movie or something for like a date!. Or just to hang out at the mall or the park or something!. If she declines then say ok then and don't plead or bug her about it!. She does have every right to say no!. But if she says yes then you cannot jump up and down or scream YES at the top of your lungs!. Just smile and say great!. If she asks you why then you should just tell her that you really like her and thought it would be fun!. But don't make her feel like she is obligated to say yes or else she wont ever look at you the same again!. She'll think that you are always analysing her and thinking that every nice thing you do, you do because you want to date her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would just tell her that you've been interested in her lately!. Let her know that you want to have a casual date, and if it doesn't work out no hard feelings!. If you're open and honest with her (WITHOUT being crazy flirty, or pushy!.!. that will just likely creep her out) you should be able to keep your friendship no matter what her answer is!. Just make sure you're prepared for the possibility that even if she is interested in you, that she may still not want to risk it!.!. don't be disappointed, you must understand how she feels if you're this worried about asking her out!. I can't stress enough though, if she shuts you down, or you try and it doesn't work, if you keep hitting on her, you may lose her friendship if she gets annoyed and defensive!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if she says no, play it off as a joke and try to act normal!.
she'll forget eventually!.
more then likely though, she'll wanna see where you relationship could go too though and she say yes!. she probably likes you and you just dont know it!.
tips:
flowers are always nice
and try flirting with her
but the easiest way is just to be direct and say
hey lets go to the movies!. you and me!. friday!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
she'll forget eventually!.
more then likely though, she'll wanna see where you relationship could go too though and she say yes!. she probably likes you and you just dont know it!.
tips:
flowers are always nice
and try flirting with her
but the easiest way is just to be direct and say
hey lets go to the movies!. you and me!. friday!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
first of all tell her you like her i am a girl and i like it when boys tell them they like me and when you ask her out it won't do any thing to your relationshipp when you are ready to ask her out when you are talking to her right before she walks away ask her out just like slip it ot before you say bye!Www@Answer-Health@Com
this is one of those times where you need to listen to your heart and not your head!. what's more important to you!? being her friend, or being in a relationship with her!? it's what you want more!. you need to ask yourself what's worse !.!.!. being rejected, or living with wondering what could have happened!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't be such a baby!.
Ask her out if you like her!. If she likes you back she'll say yes!. She could say no for a variety of reasons, but it won't necessarily negatively affect your friendship!.
Ask her out before someone else does!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ask her out if you like her!. If she likes you back she'll say yes!. She could say no for a variety of reasons, but it won't necessarily negatively affect your friendship!.
Ask her out before someone else does!.Www@Answer-Health@Com