Should i stop them people say its sexual harrasment!! please help!!?!


Question: Should i stop them people say its sexual harrasment!! please help!!!?
it doesnt bother me

the first guy tickles me A LOT and he rubs his hands up and down my back and stuff like that the second guy grabs me butt a lot and he tried grabing my boobs alot succeded once the third guy tries to grab my boobs alot and he succeded twice 2 and 3 both bugged me once to remove my jacket on account of i had a low cut tank top on should i stop them!? it doesnt bother me much but im 13 and there the same age

i know i already asked it TWICE but it must be the catagory cuz im not getting much answersWww@Answer-Health@Com


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13 13 thirteen wow yes call the cops little girl those boys must be colored cause us black men start youngWww@Answer-Health@Com

YES you should make the second AND the third guy stop grabbing your butt and boobs!. Dear, to be frankly if you let them do it they will think that you give them a green sign!. Men treat you the way you want to be treat!. You are the one who must draw the line!. it might be not bother you, but I think it will be better if you stop them now or it is too late!.
and yes grabbing boobs IS sexual harrassement!.
however, YOU are the one who should decide whether you are going to stop them or not!. it is your body and it is up to you how you will respect your body!.
personally if any of my male friend tries to grab my boob this guy will definitely gets a punch in the face!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sweetie, yes - you should tell them to stop!. Those guys are doing it because you are letting them get away with it!. I know you probably think they won't like you if you don't let them do it (I remember being that age) but it's not going to matter!. You do not want to be their personal plaything!. They need boundaries and you must be the one to set them!. As for it not bothering you much - then why are you asking for advice!?!?!? Obviously it does bother you - so tell them to stop!. If they don't go to an adult for help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i would say i wouldn't do anything about it because it doesn't bother you but!.!.

YOU ARE 13!!!!! boys should not be touching you like that AT ALL without your permission EVER, no matter how old you are, but especially since you are so young! you could call it sexual harassment but i would just say they are being immature and you need to make them stop because honestly if it doesn't bother you, you've got way more problems than little boys grabbing your butt!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just because it feels good to you doesn't mean that is the way you should be treated!. The next step is they will "do more" than you enjoy and won't care at all, and feel like you gave them permission!. They are not being respectful, and you will grow tired of being treated like a toy soon enough!. Demand respect, and then you can you can find a real boyfriend to fool around with!. talk to someone older than yourself!.!.!.!.who has been through this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wait, you are 13 and allowing guys to grab you in inappropriate places on your body!? How about getting some self-respect for your body and stopping these guys from touching you!. The next thing you know, you're going to have sex and be pregnant in the next 6 months because you think this is OK behavior!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You said it doesn't bother you!.
Harrass mean bother!. Sexual harrassment can be called sexual bothering!. If it's making you uncomfortable you should report it, but you said it doesn't bother you, so why are you making drama!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

That needs to stop, if you are not careful you will put yourself in a vulnerable situation!. Do not go anywhere alone with them, stay around other people!. If they keep grabbing you tell them to stop, if they don't then tell a parent or a teacher!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

first tell them to stop if they don't then yes categorize it as Sexual Harassment you are too young for guys to be doing that later on no one is going to have respect for you!.

Jake is probably a little harasser too just ignore him!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

they are probably joking around
boys around that age do things like that anyways
well in my school they do
if it does bother you
then just tell them to stop
and if it doesn't then you must like the attention
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if it doesnt bother you than don't do anything!.
but if you dont like it !. ask them to stop!.
if they dont stop!. go farther with it!.
and tell someone who can help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

As long as this does not bother you then you are okay!. Im pretty sure you are old enough to know the difference between flirting and sxual harassment!. If you feel uncomfortable, let them know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Honey ,you are 13, NO ONE should be touching you in anyway, even if you like the attention!. Report them if they don't stop!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Tell Them To Stop
If They Dont
Why Not Call
Police
Or Maybe Guy Friends
To BEAT UP THOSE PREVERTS!Www@Answer-Health@Com

if it doesnt bother you then!.!. thats one thing
If it bothers you then tell somebody!.!. You save your body for the one you love!.!. not for these stupid boys!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I would tell them to stop because one day they could go to far!. and if that doesnt work go to the councilor Www@Answer-Health@Com

It is harassment and they need to stop!. You need to tell someone before it gets out of handWww@Answer-Health@Com

tell the police and beat those idiots up!. hard!. x!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

hi!.!.

yes tell them STOP STOP and run a way be careful your only 13!!! this people like monster!.
good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Guy # one is on the edge of harassment!. He may honestly just be wanting to make you feel "at ease" if he's sensing that you seem "tense" that you may not be laughing and or fun to be around!. That part of your question wasn't addressed!. Still thou, if he makes you feel uneasy, yes it is harassment and you should tell him to stop immediately!. Clearly guy's 2 and 3 shouldn't be doing what they are doing and they should be told to stop!. Tell them directly, tell them forcefully and tell your parents about it too!. If you know where they all live, have your parents talk to their parents to get this stopped!. I guarantee your parents will know other ways to get this stopped legally!.

The rest of this answer is for guy #1!. Guy's 2 and 3 are addressed above!. Your the best judge to answer this question I hate to say!. The easiest way to answer this, for you to decide for yourself, is if any of these conditions happen: if what he is doing to you gives you the "creeps", the "willys", "sends shivers up your spine" or in anyway makes you scared for yourself, then your not enjoying the attention and are not, what is legally called, a willful participant!. They are clearly over the top and should stop!. You shouldn't even be hanging around them if this is all they do because they have other things on their mind other than just seeing you!. They are not your friends if all they do is "feel you up!."

Point of the matter is LISTEN TO YOUR GUT INSTINCT! Always!! If you don't like something, speak up!. If it continues, get yourself out of that situation and drop them as "friends!." They arent your friends!. They are using you for their superficial needs and that's wrong!.

I haven't written this as best or clearly as I can but I hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Honey you are getting answers from a lot of perverts!. I'd just ignore the comments from the few idiotic men/boys/women!. People are NOT reading-the CHILD said it doesnt bother her MUCH!. That means she is bothered!. She is a 13 year old!. Obviously she is upset or she would not be online asking for help! Your body is just that-YOURS! You have a right to be treated with respect!. At 13 not all boys but MOST boys are pigs!. NO means no-PERIOD!. At 13 no one should be touching your body-PERIOD!
You want every experience you CHOOSE to have as an ADULT to be beautiful, not some hound groping you!. It isn't only sexualharassment but SEXUAL ASSAULT!. All schools have a ZERO tolerance policy so if this is at school, tell your teacher right away and your parents!. Let your guardian know what is going on!. The boys parents need a warning that they will surely pass on to their moron sons!.
You are NOT responsible for the actions of others!. The CHILD didn't say she took off her clothes she said the MORON took off her jacket!. She didn't say she put her hiney up and said spank that, she said the MORON groped her!.

Plus they will keep doing it an maybe you might end up in a situation where they think they can do ANYTHING to you!. You can wear whatever you like and that does not give a guy the right to disrespect or violate your body!. Please know you have the power and the right to demand respect!. Don't ever be to shy or to quiet to speak up for yourself!.-ALWAYS!. Please take my advice, talk to an adult, put an end to it and feel confident that you can do anything-GIRLZ RULE!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well you say it does not bother you yet you ask on here about it!. So it does in a way bother you or you would not be asking!. As for the boys they are getting away with it with you for now however, some other girl will not like it and wil report it to the authority and there by the boys wil get into plenty of trouble!. They will treat many girls this way because they think from your action or non action that it is OK!. yet it is not!. It would be o not only your best interest but to all girls and women for you to put a stop to it now instead after they have gone to far!. Then it is way to late, if it should go to trial all they have to say is she never said no, and you in the mean time is getting a name of EASY!. Do you want that kind of a reputation!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

well if you feel uncomfortable then walk away but notherwise just enjoy it =]Www@Answer-Health@Com





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