If I wait to have sex until I'm married, will I bleed horribly and wreck eve!
Question: If I wait to have sex until I'm married, will I bleed horribly and wreck everything!?
I have no problem with the mockery and the immature brats tugging on my purity ring, I do have major issues with the bleeding the first time >_< Now I'm starting to think I should once before I get married so when I do get married I won't wreck everything by gushing blood :/
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I salute you!. In this day and age your morals are outstanding!. Please don't change!. You wont bleed hardly at all if any!. Maybe just a little but it will not be any where near a big thing!.You keep yourself pure honey and wear a pretty white wedding bed gown!. You deserve it,and a white wedding too! God bless and love you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You won't "gush" at all!. It is not like like a heavy flow during your menstrual cycle, if that is what you are afraid of!. I have spoken to many women, ranging in ages (in case my experience was not typical)!. There may or may not be blood!. You may even bleed for a day or two, but by no means such a large amount that you will "wreck everything"!. Do not compromise your belief or desire in fear of bleeding too much!.
BTW, if you are talking about perhaps ruining your honeymoon (again, you may not bleed at all) by consummating your marriage, don't worry!. I'm sure your new hubby knows the deal, and according to many, many men I know, he will be happily understanding and ready to break you in!. : )
P!.S!. You can also do it yourself, if you are that worried!. I know it sounds gross, but it's an option, and it may not break completely!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
BTW, if you are talking about perhaps ruining your honeymoon (again, you may not bleed at all) by consummating your marriage, don't worry!. I'm sure your new hubby knows the deal, and according to many, many men I know, he will be happily understanding and ready to break you in!. : )
P!.S!. You can also do it yourself, if you are that worried!. I know it sounds gross, but it's an option, and it may not break completely!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No, please don't give up on your commitment!
I did wait until my wedding night, and I did actually bleed quite a bit, but that is NOT typical!. All of my other friends who waited said they didn't bleed!.
And bleeding did not ruin everything! My husband stopped because I was in pain and helped take care of me!. If anything, it was actual a super tender moment because he cared more about making sure I was ok then the fact that I had gotten blood on him!. He did not freak out!. He was a virgin too, we had waited for each other!. Since it was his first time as well, he actually had already gotten off by the time I admitted I was in pain and asked him to stop!. We tried again later that night and both had a good time, with no blood!
Stick by your commitment!
EDIT: And by bleeding quite a bit, it was not a gush--I got some on him and some on the sheets but it stopped almost immediately and did not make a huge, collosal mess! Less blood than if I were on my period!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I did wait until my wedding night, and I did actually bleed quite a bit, but that is NOT typical!. All of my other friends who waited said they didn't bleed!.
And bleeding did not ruin everything! My husband stopped because I was in pain and helped take care of me!. If anything, it was actual a super tender moment because he cared more about making sure I was ok then the fact that I had gotten blood on him!. He did not freak out!. He was a virgin too, we had waited for each other!. Since it was his first time as well, he actually had already gotten off by the time I admitted I was in pain and asked him to stop!. We tried again later that night and both had a good time, with no blood!
Stick by your commitment!
EDIT: And by bleeding quite a bit, it was not a gush--I got some on him and some on the sheets but it stopped almost immediately and did not make a huge, collosal mess! Less blood than if I were on my period!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Regardless of whether you wait or not, you're probably still going to bleed a little when you have sex!. I'm a virgin, and I'm getting married in 3 weeks!. I'm so glad I waited!. Don't give in to peer pressure!. I truly believe it's going to be worth the wait!. I'm sooo glad I waited even though it was hard!. Every girl is different, some might bleed and some might not, but it's not going to be a ton!. Just a little bit of blood, but that's normal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
OH heavens no!. thats very rare!.
the only way that will happen is that is your hooch is really little and his penis is really big (i wonder whats that like!? *day dreaming*)
and if hes not gentle with u he can tear some stuff up!.
u should only bleed a little, and yeah, its gonna hurt
girl wait till marriage, it not worth it, my 1ST TIME WAS AWFUL, and i didnt know what was going on, his penis was little and it was akward, and i faked being happy so i could get a ride home!. lol i hate sex now!. :(
make sure he can put it on ya, I HOPE U FIND THE ONE!Www@Answer-Health@Com
the only way that will happen is that is your hooch is really little and his penis is really big (i wonder whats that like!? *day dreaming*)
and if hes not gentle with u he can tear some stuff up!.
u should only bleed a little, and yeah, its gonna hurt
girl wait till marriage, it not worth it, my 1ST TIME WAS AWFUL, and i didnt know what was going on, his penis was little and it was akward, and i faked being happy so i could get a ride home!. lol i hate sex now!. :(
make sure he can put it on ya, I HOPE U FIND THE ONE!Www@Answer-Health@Com
heyy, don't let a fear like that make you sacrifice your morals!. It's not that big a deal!. It happens to everyone the first time they do it!. Just keep waiting, and save everything for your wedding night!.!.!.it'll be fine! you won't wreck anything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you won't "gush" blood
im waiting too, i had a phase where i was like "having sex before marriage isnt that bad" but then i though about it and now im back to normal, lol
i have a purity ring too
congratsWww@Answer-Health@Com
im waiting too, i had a phase where i was like "having sex before marriage isnt that bad" but then i though about it and now im back to normal, lol
i have a purity ring too
congratsWww@Answer-Health@Com
You probably wont bleed!. Do you use tampons!? If so it's even less likely!. Oh, and you don't ever gush blood from that!. Don't worry!. And good for you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
you wont gush out blood! you might not even bleed! every body is different, and at least your hubby knows he married a good wife that waited to get married to have sex!Www@Answer-Health@Com