Why do you think this is?!


Question: Why do you think this is!?
I never talk to other females (not even doctors) about feminine things (periods, pads, tampons, the pill, etc!.!.!.) I don't even talk to my mom about them!. She doesn't even know when I get my period!. If find tasks like asking my mom to buy me a package of pads to be quite difficult to make myself do!. I just don't like talking about it (I don't even like to think about it; and only I can hear THAT)!. Is this weird!?

Also, sometimes when I'm wearing a really thick, absorbent pad, I like to sit on the edge of my seat (so it hits the bone under my!.!.!. you know what!.!.!.) and I think it feels strangely good!. What is this I am doing!? Is it normal!?

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Answers:
ah, you're just hitting against some sensitive areas :) it's a darn good feeling, bettering than fingering and may come at a better timing!.;)
i'm like that too!.!.!.!. i was private about it!.!.!. but you know what!? some things will become less private matters!.!.!. especially if someone is close and very accepting of you, no matter how gross it is!.!.!.
sooner or later, some things just will stop being "private" while other new things will become private!.!.!.
it may take time!.!.!. it took me awhile!.!. my mom found out i was on my period when my doc asked me on my physical (don't you hate them on physicals!?!?)
now, i have other private questions!.!.!.hahaha!.!.!.!. more abnormal ones :), until i find out i'm going through this with someone else!.!.!. or someone who doesn't find this weird :) :) :)
it's ok!.!.!.you are apparantly confident enough for online talk :) that's already improvement :)
by the way, friendships and relationships can be established through sharing of private matters!.!.!.!. i might NEVER feel like that with my mom!.!.!. or doc!.!.!. maybe!.!.!. but my sister!? heck yeah!
you'll find someone who you feel is caring enough to listen to you and you feel they empathize!. I think that is a feeling of being misunderstood by them, or they lack the necessary tactics to get it out of you through a nice friendship!. If you don't feel comfy telling them that!.!. THEY are supposed to make you feel comfy!. But, they may never know your needs or a way to approach you!. Try BUILDING friendships and UNDERSTANDING some people!.
it's also easier to talk to personal things by making it a joke!.!.!. they laugh and you feel accepted!. Example: i have some a couple of chin hairs!.!.!.!. VERY EMBARRASSING TO ADMIT! and i made a joke about DAMN! I THINK I AM GROWING A BEARD! and they laugh and try to console you!.!.!. or you tell them that you are in hiding cuz ur zits are too bad and they laugh and try to help you out with some powder!.!.!. it's ok to accept things!.---a part of maturity and growing up :) and it makes you feel SOOO much better about yourself! try it :) Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think your sitting on the edge of your seat while wearing a pad is just to make sure that the pad is still absorbing properly!. It's a "security" impulse!.

Or, it may be something else entirely! You're getting to know your body, as everyone should!. Either way, it IS normal, and nothing to feel "weird" about!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

lol!. well im guessing youre really young and just started going thru youre period and no one really wants to talk to ur mom about youre period cuz its embarrassing thats how it was for me but once you get older youll feel completely comfortable about it!. trust me!. and the thing about you and your pad!.!.!.thats just weird, you must have never had a climax or anything!.!.!.!.!.you must be very very youngWww@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, its normal!.!.you're just a private personWww@Answer-Health@Com

It's weird to me for someone to be so private about that, but that's just the way some girls are!. Honestly, I don't want anyone to know I have my period, and I get a little scared asking for them, but that's the way the media makes us think; I have to just keep remembering that it's totally a natural thing!. I am open-minded, and I do try to be honest about stuff like this, but our bodies are strange things to discuss in general!. To each her own, I guess!.

And about the pad thing, yeah that's normal!. You are just pleasuring yourself without using your hands!. Strange, but normal, lol!. I sit like that sometimes too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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