Could I be too small for sex?!
Question: Could I be too small for sex!?
I'm a virgin and will be getting married soon!. I've read its a good idea to stretch yourself alittle, using first one finger, then two and then three, I use tampons with no problem and can insert one finger, but two hurts just a little!. Is this normal!? Or does it take time to stretch a bit!? I'm worried on the wedding night that he wont be able to enter!. thanks~Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Don't worry about it hurting, it's not that bad!. Especially if you have a caring man who's sensitive to your needs!. However, he may not know any more than you so you need to tell him what you need!.
As the others have said, relax, the more tense you are the more it will hurt but if you relax and get into it you may not have any pain to speak of!. Make sure your guy gives you lots of stimulation because the foreplay causes your body to lubricate the appropriate area and loosens the muscles!. Very important!! In fact if he gives you an orgasm before penetration it will cause your vagina to lengthen a bit!.
If you don't already know, find out where you clitoris is and make sure your guy knows where it is too!. It is the key to your pleasure and your orgasm, I don't mean that penetration isn't great but most women don't orgasm because of it!. For guys penetration is so pleasurable that it's hard for them to understand that it's not the same for the girl!. He may not know what or where the clitoris is and you may have to be the one to educate him!.
In my experience you can't really stretch yourself out permanently - except by having a baby!. After you've had sex your vagina will go back to pretty much the same as it was before!. My husband and I've been having sex for 23 years (no babies) and it still can sting a bit if I'm not stimulated or lubricated enough before penetration so I know I haven't stretched out in all those years!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
As the others have said, relax, the more tense you are the more it will hurt but if you relax and get into it you may not have any pain to speak of!. Make sure your guy gives you lots of stimulation because the foreplay causes your body to lubricate the appropriate area and loosens the muscles!. Very important!! In fact if he gives you an orgasm before penetration it will cause your vagina to lengthen a bit!.
If you don't already know, find out where you clitoris is and make sure your guy knows where it is too!. It is the key to your pleasure and your orgasm, I don't mean that penetration isn't great but most women don't orgasm because of it!. For guys penetration is so pleasurable that it's hard for them to understand that it's not the same for the girl!. He may not know what or where the clitoris is and you may have to be the one to educate him!.
In my experience you can't really stretch yourself out permanently - except by having a baby!. After you've had sex your vagina will go back to pretty much the same as it was before!. My husband and I've been having sex for 23 years (no babies) and it still can sting a bit if I'm not stimulated or lubricated enough before penetration so I know I haven't stretched out in all those years!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
from my personal experience: it HURTS!!! maybe every girl is different cause some of my friends have told me they felt pleasure since the first time but wit me it was very painful!. up to about the 5th time the pain started goin away!. im not tryin to scare u r anything but if your hubby knows ur a virgin then he should take it slow n make sure u r comfortable!. oh n if possible try gettin some lubricationto slide easier!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
In less than a year you will be asking on Y!A for a way to tightened it back up!.!.It is amazing the things that will fit in there without much effort of trying!.!.!.HE WILL FIT WITH EASE!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
yeah itz a scary thing but relax at the end you will like it but your whole don't stretch becuz itz close and it will take time to to open 1,2 or maybe the 3rd time yall have sexWww@Answer-Health@Com
Go to the pharmacy and buy a lubricant!. Get the liquids, not the gels!. Gels are gross!. You will be way tight at first, but the sex will happen with some patience and slow warming up!. Congratulations on your weddings!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont worry ( he may not be that big so it may not even be a problem)!.!.!.the best thing you can do is relax!.!.!.he must stimulate you on your wedding night first for yu to be completly relaxed!.!.!. not just jump on top and one two three done!Www@Answer-Health@Com
HE WILL GET IN THERE NO WORRYS! it going to hurt you a bit thoughWww@Answer-Health@Com
i wouldn't worry about itWww@Answer-Health@Com