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"Right Time" to lose your virginity?!


Question: "Right Time" to lose your virginity!?
I'm in college now and there are obviously tons of guys around!. I've fooled around with one and we're not at all serious, but I'm a virgin and hes not!. For now we're pretty far from going all the way, but part of me thinks that I should have sex for the first time with someone more meaningful, who would also be a virgin and appreciate it more!.

This is where my best guy friend/ex boy friend comes into the picture!. We still talk almost everyday and although we're mostly "just friends" we still have that "first young love" thing going on and he is one of the sweetest guys I know!. We love each other but are not "in love" with each other anymore!.

would having sex with him be a bad idea!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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If your not ready to have sex with the guy you've fooled around with, then you would know it - which you obviously do!. If you feel that your old boyfriend is the one, then talk it over with him!. My first was a guy who was a friend of the family for years, and still his!. Hell, I call his mom Auntie!. We were just a lot more comfortable together, and it was more fun since we weren't stressing over every little detail!. If your comfortable with this guy then have fun! Sex is a wonderful thing, as long as your ready!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm in college too, and honestly, unless you want to save yourself for your future husband, i think he would be the best choice!. It would be better than going off and doing it at a party!. Just make sure there is NO emotional attachment because if there is you might encounter some heartbreak = (Www@Answer-Health@Com

Save it for real love, it sounds like you waited all this time so why rush now and waste it!. Virginity is not a burden but something most everyone wishes they could get back and make better decisions about once its gone!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

its really up to you!. what do you think you should do!? but if you really wanna have sex and feel comfortable with him go for it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Right after you check to see if the marriage license is signed correctlyWww@Answer-Health@Com

then you already have your answer your not in love with each other what more do you needWww@Answer-Health@Com

you better read below about "First time sex"Www@Answer-Health@Com

when you find the right person!.!.!.to do it with!.!.!.
dont just choose random guys!.!.!.your first time should be memorable!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

u should have sex when u are ready!.!.!.it dont matter if it means anything or not!. its gonna hurt and be awkward!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I was in a similar predicament!. I had been ready to have sex for a while but hadn't felt comfortable or found the right partner!. I had been single for a couple of years and was getting frustrated!. I had a close guy friend whom I felt completely comfortable with, who I could tell anything to, and whom I knew didn't judge me!. I had never planned to sleep with him, but after one evening of hanging out and a couple beers later, we were undressing on my bed!. And it just happened!. After this our relationship has not been nearly as good, and he has distanced himself from me!. It makes me very sad because our friendship is not what it once was, but at the same time I feel I made a good choice!. He was very passionate, took his time, was very gentle, and knew about my sexual experience (or lack of it) previous to us going all the way, so I felt comfortable!. He did not make me do anything I wasn't comfortable with, and I had alot of fun!. As long as you feel you won't get emotionally attached, that is my only concern!. We discussed our feelings when we realized where we were heading on the bed, and you need to make sure that you won't get hurt!. I'm saddened at the fact that we're not close anymore, and that is something you need to make sure that you'd be ok with!. Sex really does change the relationship whether you want it to or not!. So just make sure you're ready, and be sure of your feelings about him!. I knew I did not want a relationship with this guy, so I was ok!. If you think you're going to fall in love with him, then I'd watch it!. I never believed that attachments could form from sleeping with someone you weren't head over heels for, but it is true!. I think about my friend everyday!. So think it through, but I say as long as you feel you'd be ok with it and he'd be ok with it, then go for it!. Feeling comfortable and sure of yourself and your decision is what matters the most!. Good luck to you, and be safe!Www@Answer-Health@Com

It would be a bad idea to have sex with someone you didn't truly love and could see yourself with yes!. Idealistically you should wait until marriage but people these days don't seem to care about that so you're going to do what you want anyway may as well have it be as meaningful as possible!. If you can't at least guarantee it won't be a one night stand better to just wait and save it for someone truly special because after all it is something very special you're giving up not to be wasted on the unworthy!. Sex should never and will never be about age, status, power or what have you, it should be an expression of love and commitment and even with intent to start a family but there is no proper "age" or "time" to do it and that should never help you to decide if you should or not!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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