I've never had an orgasm, but i've had sex.?!


Question: I've never had an orgasm, but i've had sex!.!?
I've had sex before but i've never had an orgasm, i've also been fingered!.

could there be somthing wrong with me!?
whenever we have sex, it only feels good for the first like 5min!. or less!.
then after that, its like nothing!. :[
please help
thanks
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Answers:
Maybe your boyfriend is not very passionate about it!?
Feeling confortable is a good start, then there are lot of sensitive zones that need attention!. I think an orgasm is 50% physical, and 50% mental!. Just discover whats really turning you on!.
Good luck :PWww@Answer-Health@Com

God forgive me if I'm talking to someone to young to have sex but the problem maybe that your having sex instead of having someone love you!. Take time to really relax and enjoy what your doing, and if you don't enjoy it, don't do it period!. If he does not take the time to pay attention to your enjoyment and make that his number one goal then your with the wrong person!. If this doesn't work you may want to go to the doctor to see if there is anything wrong down there!. Your body could just not be getting the contact it needs for stimulation!. But you shouldn't have sex unless it's with someone you love!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Most women don't have orgasms during intercourse and some women find it very hard to have an orgasm with out clitoral stimulation!.

My advice is to try masturbating until you have an orgasm and then keep going from there!.
The more you masturbate and orgasm the easier it will be to reach orgasm next time!.

Becoming more familiar with your own body will also help you relax and enjoy sex more!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Not many women can get an orgasm from penetration alone!.
You may be able to orgasm from stimulation of the clitoris, if not try stimulation of both the g-spot (a few inches deep on the top wall of your vagina) and the clitoris!.
Guys are really bad at finding the g-spot!.
Even some women get off from anal sex!.

If none of this works you should see a specialist!. You may have a sexual dysfunction!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Try this and see if you like it, it will help you know the feeling, and learn to know your body, and will help you getting your orgasms during loveplay back:
Make yourself very very comfortable, take a hot bath or something, then go to your bed, or other nice place!. Start massaging yourself, stimulate your clit!. you can already reach an orgasm this way!. If you want to, please do, after that, insert your finger, and inside your vagina, curl it upwards, so that the top of your finger pushed upwards in your belly!. Feel around a bit there, and you will find your g-spot!. Stimulate this spot until you feel like you have to pee!. Never mind that feeling, and just continue!. The orgasm you will reach then (especially if it is your second), will be much intenser, and can even cause you to ejaculate!. If you want to go even further, then use the moist from your vagina, and stroke the small place between your vagina and anus (perineum)!. If you dare trying this, most women enjoy this really alot, once they put aside their fears for it: stroke your wet finger around your anus, going more and more towards the middle!. Then, when you feel like it is the right time, gently push it in!. Very gently, very slowly, very carefully!. If you feel like it, you can combine it with vaginal or clitoral stimulation for extreme pleasure!.
You should try to get past the peeing feeling!. I know you are afraid, and are holding it all up, because you do not want to pee at that time!. But you should just relax, go with the flow, totally relax, and play!. Then, you will come, and ejaculate!. It will perhaps even feel like peeing, and fluids will come, but it is not pee, I promise you! And most of all, you will have had an orgams that you will never again forget!.!.!.
I noticed btw that ejaculation orgasms are seldom the first, first is a normal orgasm, then slow down a bit, but do not stop, and gradually increase stimulation, then you will reach a "higher" orgasm!.
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i think you need a patient sexual partner, somebody wholl think of you first before himself!. you said it feels good in the first 5 minutes, im guessing your sex last from 5 minutes to 10 minutes!. though some girls come very quickly, a lot come longer!. tell your partner to stop rushing!. take it slow!. and maybe you should try other things, coz thats one of the ways you would discover which position or act would you be most comfortable with, eventually, you would come!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It is easier to have an orgasm from clitoral stimulation, so get your guy to go down on you, or gently rub you **** instead of actually fingering you!.

But if you really want to orgasm from penetration, doggy style usually works for me!.

There is definitely nothing wrong with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I use to be the same way!. I never was in the right place mentally when I had sex, like I would be enjoying it, but my mind would be on pleasing him, and not myself!. So I figured I would start looking out for number 1!. Also, I have bought toys to help stimulate me, and they feel good to him too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

lol i was married for like almost 4 years before i had my first one!. i like to get on top and have him play with my nipples!. trust me once you have one you will know and it the greatest feeling in the world!. happy hunting :DWww@Answer-Health@Com

Because you have to stimulate your mind as well and let's face it, alot of men just aren't that invested in it or are just completely incapable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Intercourse 101 !.!.!. not every woman gets off by penetration alone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It is strange!.Everytime sex and intercourse end with orgasm!.Unless I have some more details I cannot find an answer!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

thats perfectly normalWww@Answer-Health@Com

LMAOOOOOOO!!!!!! What is this Yahoo Answers of PORN!!.!.ROFLMAO!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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