How do I control this situation, im so embarrassed?!
Question: How do I control this situation, im so embarrassed!?
I was home alone with my boyfriend of 2 years, both 17 and we were on the couch naked kissing and all that stuff, and all of a sudden my mom came off, she wasnt supposed to get home for hours!. and she doesnt exactly know that we are doing anything, so she walked in and saw us naked she started completely flipping out, cussing at him and telling he to get the #@@$ out of her house!. and my bf was in shock, still naked trying to cover his privates, with his hand, he was kinda just standing there shocked, so my mom came up to him, grabbed him by the shoulders and rammed her knee right into his nads!. i couldnt believe she did that, she walked out of the room, as my bf lay holding his nads on the ground practically in tears, I helped him up and he left immediately, I have no idea what to do now, what do i say to him!? what do i say to my mom!? should my mom have really kneed him in the nads!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Your poor mother :) This is a classic case of had you told her prior that this is where you and your bf were at he may have not got such a raw reaction from her!. It's really hard as a parent admitting your baby is grown up and walking in on a very adult situation is not the best way to come to terms with it!. Talk to your mum, believe it or not she was 17 once!. By talking openly with maturity you can reassure her that you are grown up enough to handle this!. Maybe you and your mum need to define some rules for when and where sex is ok and include a discussion on contraception!. Definitely do not do the tizzy fit scene! This will just re enforce that you are not mature enough to be having sex!. As for your BF ring him check hes ok and you'll both be laughing about it in no time!. He's probably confused and scared and doesn't know what to do either!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Omg! that would be sooo embarrassing im so sorry!.
tell your mom you werent having sex and you are mature enough to do that with your boyfriend of two years!. tell your boyfriend how sorry you are and how mad you are that your mom did that (even if your not)!.
i think it was a spur of the moment type thing your mom didd!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
tell your mom you werent having sex and you are mature enough to do that with your boyfriend of two years!. tell your boyfriend how sorry you are and how mad you are that your mom did that (even if your not)!.
i think it was a spur of the moment type thing your mom didd!.Www@Answer-Health@Com